Prayers for children to obey
With these prayers, they turn to the saints with requests that children obey their parents, mentors or teachers.
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Prayer to Jesus Christ for the obedience of children
Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, prayers for the sake of Your Most Pure Mother, hear me, unworthy of a servant (name).
Lord, in Your merciful power are my children, Your servants (names).
Have mercy and save them, for Thy name's sake.
Lord, forgive them all the sins, voluntary and involuntary, that they committed before You.
Lord, guide them on the true path of Your commandments and enlighten their minds with the light of Christ for the salvation of the soul and the healing of the body.
Lord, bless them at home, at school, on the road, and in every place of Your dominion.
Lord, protect them under Your holy shelter from a flying bullet, poison, fire, from a deadly ulcer and vain death.
Lord, protect them from all visible and invisible enemies, from all illness, cleanse them from all filth and ease their mental suffering.
Lord, grant them the grace of Your Holy Spirit for many years of life, health, chastity.
Lord, increase and strengthen their mental abilities and physical strength, which You have given them, Your blessing for a pious and, if You wish, family life and shameless childbearing.
Lord, grant to me, Thy unworthy and sinful servant (name), a parental blessing on my children and Thy servant at this time of morning, day, night for the sake of Thy name, for Thy Kingdom is eternal, omnipotent and omnipotent.
Lord Jesus Christ our God Himself, send down Thy Holy Spirit upon this child (name);
and plant in the ears of his heart the Holy Scriptures, even as Thy most pure hand wrote upon the tablets of Moses the Lawgiver, now and ever and unto ages of ages.
Prayer for the obedience of children to Sergius of Radonezh
O heavenly citizen of Jerusalem, Reverend Father Sergius!
Look upon us (names) graciously and lead those who are devoted to the earth to the heights of heaven.
You are a mountain in Heaven;
We are on earth, below, removed from you, not only by place, but by our sins and iniquities;
but to you, as our kin, we resort and cry: teach us to walk in your way, enlighten us and guide us.
It is characteristic of you, Our Father, to have compassion and love for mankind:
Living on earth, you should not only care about your own salvation, but also about everyone who comes to you.
Your instructions were the reed of a scribe, a cursive writer, inscribing the verbs of life on everyone’s heart.
You did not only heal bodily illnesses, but more than spiritual ones, an elegant physician appeared, and your whole holy life was a mirror of all virtues.
Even though you were so holy, more holy than God, on earth: how much more are you now in Heaven!
Today you stand before the Throne of the Unapproachable Light, and in it, like in a mirror, see all our needs and petitions;
You are together with the Angels, rejoicing over the one sinner who repents.
And God’s love for mankind is inexhaustible, and your boldness towards Him is great:
do not stop crying to the Lord for us.
By your intercession, ask our All-Merciful God for the peace of His Church, under the sign of the militant Cross,
harmony in faith and unity of wisdom, destruction of vanity and schism, affirmation in good deeds, healing for the sick, consolation for the sad, intercession for the offended, help for the needy.
Do not disgrace us, who come to you with faith.
Even though you are unworthy of such a father and intercessor, you, an imitator of God’s love for mankind, made us worthy by turning from evil deeds to good living.
All God-enlightened Russia, filled with your miracles and blessed by your mercies, confesses you to be their patron and intercessor.
Show your ancient mercies, and those whom you helped your father, do not reject us, their children, who are marching towards you in their footsteps.
We believe that you are present with us in spirit.
Where the Lord is, as His word teaches us, there His servant will be.
You are a faithful servant of the Lord, and I exist everywhere with God, you are in Him, and He is in you, and moreover, you are with us in body.
Behold your incorruptible and life-giving relics, like a priceless treasure, may God grant us miracles.
Before them, as I live for you, we fall down and pray:
Accept our prayers and offer them up on the altar of God’s mercy, so that we may receive grace from you and timely help in our needs.
Strengthen us, the faint-hearted, and confirm us in the faith, so that we undoubtedly hope to receive all the good things from the mercy of the Master through your prayers.
Do not stop guiding your spiritual flock, gathered by you, with the rod of spiritual wisdom:
Help those who struggle, raise up the weakened, hasten to bear the yoke of Christ with complacency and patience,
and guide us all in peace and repentance, end our lives and settle with hope in the blessed bosom of Abraham, where you now rest joyfully in your labors and struggles, glorifying with all the saints God, glorified in the Trinity, the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit.
Look upon us (names) mercifully and, those who are devoted to the earth, lead us to the heights of heaven.
Strengthen our cowardice and confirm us in faith, so that we undoubtedly hope to receive all the good things from the mercy of the Lord God through your prayers.
By your intercession, ask for every gift that is useful to everyone and for everyone, and through your prayers that help us all, on the day of the Last Judgment we will be able to get rid of our part, and the right hand of the country will be commoners and hear that blessed voice of the Lord Christ:
Come, blessed ones of My Father, inherit the Kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world.
Prayer to all saints for the obedience of children
Holy God and rest in the saints, praised by the thrice-holy voice in heaven from Angels, praised on earth by man in His saints:
giving grace to everyone according to the gift of Christ by Your Holy Spirit, and with that He appointed Your holy Church to be Apostles, prophets, evangelists, shepherds and teachers, preaching through their own words.
You yourself act all in all, many holy things have been accomplished in every generation and generation, with various virtues pleasing You,
and having left us with an image of your good deeds, in the joy that has passed, prepare for You, in which the temptations themselves were, and help us who are attacked.
Remembering all these saints and praising their godly lives, I praise You Samago, who acted in them, and believing in Your goodness, I diligently pray to You, Holy of Holies,
grant that I, a sinner, may follow their teaching, and rather, by Your all-effective grace, the heavenly ones with them may be worthy of glory, praising Your most holy name, the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit forever.
Prayer for the obedience of children to the Blessed Virgin Mary
Oh, Most Holy Theotokos, give me strength to withstand temporary difficulties in raising my children.
I know that this difficult time will pass, but I can’t help myself.
Help me not to lash out at my children, not to yell at them, not to raise a hand against them.
I want to raise my offspring in love, respect for each other and harmony.
I only hope for you, O our dear Mother of God.
Prayer to Matrona of Moscow for children to obey
Matrona, you are the intercessor of the entire human race.
Help my family find peace and harmony.
Who should pray for children?
In order for prayer to have the greatest power, it is necessary to turn to a specific icon. There are some recommendations about who and when it is better to pray to (for example, the Kazan Mother of God is turned to when a person needs intercession in difficult times).
Prayers before the images of Jesus Christ and the Mother of God are considered the most powerful. Moreover, you can turn to any icon in prose or verse, where Our Lord or the Queen of Heaven is depicted. The Mother of God is considered the patroness of women and motherhood, so most people turn to her with prayers for children. Also, the “Leaping of the Baby” icon, which is dedicated to motherhood in general, can give special power to mother’s prayers.
Mothers of soldiers who serve in hot spots often turn to the Kazan Icon. Great commanders always prayed to her when going to war or before starting a battle. In addition to victory, the Kazan Mother of God was asked to reduce losses and preserve the lives of soldiers.
Many mothers, trying to take care of their children and protect them from troubles and misfortunes, turn to the icon of the “Sign with the Mother of God,” which is one of the most revered in our country.
But the icon “Helper of Sinners” is not as popular as the icon of Our Lady of Kazan, but it can become the last hope for those who have committed a great sin or need quick absolution (for example, before a complex operation).
Demanding respect for yourself - isn't it strange? Should people be reminded to respect others?
Yes, this is true if we are talking about strangers, and not about our children, because they need to be taught this.
The Bible says, “Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is what is right. “‘Honor your father and mother’ is the first commandment with the promise: ‘That it may go well with you, and that you may live long on the earth’” (Eph. 6:1-3).
If our children do not obey this command of the Lord, they risk not only losing God's blessings, but also having their lives shortened.
The Bible warns. “Whoever curses his father and his mother, his lamp will go out in deep darkness” (Prov. 20:20).
Understanding that we have the power to influence the lives of our children, we must pray for them and raise them correctly, teaching them strict discipline.
But we must also be able to discern the spirit of protest that can quietly settle in the hearts of our children and lead them away from the true path, and resist it.
Disobedience is pride put into action. The spirit of disobedience says, “I want to do what I want, regardless of what God and other people think about it.”
The Bible teaches: “. disobedience is the same sin as magic. ”(1 Sam. 15:23), because the result of both is complete rejection of God.
The same verse says that “resistance is the same as idolatry.”
Pride leads to rebellion, and stubbornness prevents a person from repenting and humbling himself before God.
A disobedient person may worship some idol. If children do not respect their father and mother, this first of all indicates the presence of idols in their hearts (and the age of such a child does not matter).
The names of these idols are known: they are pride and selfishness. Therefore, if children do not learn to respect their parents, they become disobedient to God. They declare, “I want what I want, when I want it.”
“Woe to the disobedient sons, says the Lord, who take counsel, but without Me, and make covenants, but not according to My Spirit, to add sin to sin. "(Isa. 30:1).
Our prayer has the power to overthrow the idols of pride and selfishness and humble the spirit of rebellion in the heart of a child.
The opposite of disobedience is obedience or walking in God's ways.
Obedience gives a person a sense of complete security and confidence that he is in the right place and doing the right thing.
The Bible promises blessing as a reward for obedience, otherwise darkness and destruction.
We want our children to walk before God in obedience, so that they are confident in themselves, feel safe, so that their lives are long, and there is always peace and tranquility in their souls.
One of the first steps to true obedience is the willingness to obey and respect your parents. However, the child must be taught this, and the learning process can be made easier by prayer.
When our son was fourteen years old, he covered the walls of his room with posters of his favorite musicians. However, the clothes, poses of some of these people, and the very musical content of their work were frankly offensive to us, parents, and did not glorify God at all.
When we asked Christopher to remove these posters from the walls and explained why, he was initially reluctant
fulfill our request, but then obeyed with a clear defiance. After some time, he hung up the posters again—different ones, but no better than the first ones.
This time we were more determined and acted tougher - we took it all off the walls ourselves.
“Put on the whole armor of God, so that you can stand against the wiles of the devil. “(Eph. 6:11).
We prayed and turned to God's Word, we declared our faith in God's ability to give us the strength to overcome this obstacle. We fought the battle in the Spirit and watched as the Lord took control of the situation.
Our son's mood changed, and the next time he put up posters that met our parental requirements. It was a direct operation of the power of God as a result of our prayer.
The incident with the posters does not seem very significant today, but at that time we had to face a strong spirit of protest, trying to rise above the will of our parents and God. And we showed him worthy resistance before he could gain a foothold in his rights. We had to win this fight because we knew that God and His Word were on our side, and also because something very important was at stake, namely, the future eternal life of our son.
If your child is already a teenager or even an adult, and you see that he is becoming more obstinate and stubborn, you, as parents, must become more demanding of your child and not forget about the powerful weapon at your disposal - prayer.
Remember, you are not fighting against your own son or daughter: “For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places” (Eph. 6:12).
You are fighting an enemy.
Thankfully, Jesus has given us the authority to “confront all the power of the enemy. "(Luke 10:19) .
So don't be afraid or doubt, but use this power. The spirit of disobedience may appear in your child's character at any time, but we will be ready to subdue it by prayer and the Word of God, not forgetting such disciplines as discipline and instruction. Don't let your child's rebelliousness bother you.
Remember that Jesus Christ is Lord of all.
Prayer: Lord, I ask You: create in my child (child’s name) a heart that wants to obey You.
Place in this heart a passionate desire to spend time with You, with Your Word and in prayer, listening to Your voice.
Illuminate with Your light every secret seed of disobedience ripening in the depths of my child’s heart, so that it may be discovered and destroyed.
Lord, I pray that pride, selfishness, or disobedience will never arise in the heart of my child. By the authority given to me by Jesus, I “tread on all the power of the enemy” and stand against the spirits of idolatry, disobedience, stubbornness, disrespect, so that my child will never know them and never set foot on this disastrous path.
Your Word says, “Children, be obedient to your parents in everything, for this is pleasing to the Lord” (Col. 3:20).
I ask You: turn the heart of my son (daughter) to his (her) parents and teach him (her) to respect and obey his father and mother, so that his (her) life will be long and glorious.
Turn his (her) heart to You, so that all his (her) deeds and actions will be pleasing to You.
Teach him (her) to recognize the spirit of pride and rebellion and resist it, seek repentance and deliverance from it.
Make him (her) irreconcilable to all sin.
Help him or her to know the beauty of walking before You in a humble spirit. Amen
Part 1 – How to show your child that he is loved
Part 6 – How to teach a child to honor parents and resist disobedience
Of course, it is important that the child from an early age takes part in the life of the family, including in its prayer part. If you go to church yourself, pray in front of icons, confess, take communion, introduce your child to such rituals. It is very important that you yourself fully understand the whole meaning of the actions - why and why is this necessary? Then it won’t be difficult for you to explain all this to your growing child. After all, he is also interested in why he needs to pray and go to church.
If you pray at home and visit church only on holidays, also talk with your child about faith. Let him see you praying, and then become calm and peaceful. Then he will also have an incentive and desire to imitate you. And in general, in this matter, as in most others, we can teach children only by our own example, and nothing else.
But if in a family the parents pray, talk about God and faith, the child adopts the same model of behavior from childhood. After all, it is already growing in the field of your faith. This means that from childhood he learns to forgive, accept, listen, respect others, and love unselfishly. Agree, these are very important skills, right?
With an older child, a teenager, it is important to discuss life issues. For example, in the evening you can encourage your child to ask himself: What has this day brought me? Who did something nice for me today? Who smiled at me today, greeted me, communicated in a friendly manner? What new did I learn today? What new things did you learn at school, with friends? Why did I quarrel with my friend? Why was I offended by the teacher today? Who did I please today? What was I afraid of?
Prayer for obedience
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Over the course of many centuries, the problem of understanding parents and children has become acute. And this does not depend at all on what kind of parents or what attitude each person has towards their child. It so happened that the struggle and misunderstanding of generations has always been inherent. So what should parents do about this? How to reason with your child and become his best friend? These questions interest many Orthodox Christians. To find a common language with your child, clergy recommend reading a prayer for the obedience of a son, daughter, teenager to the Almighty and the saints.
What are children's prayers?
With the little ones you can say this: “Baby, you and I don’t see God. But our eyes cannot see other important things in our lives. So, for example, we also cannot see or touch joy, love, sadness, hope.
Although we do not see God, we still feel his love for us and care. We can see how God's will is manifested in the events that surround us. How sometimes God saves us from danger, evil, and helps us in trouble.
We pray to be closer to God. It's like having a heart-to-heart talk with a loved one. In prayer, we thank God for all the good things in our lives, asking for some help or advice. And we also simply say that we want to do God’s will, we want to open our hearts to him, and we love him with all our souls.”
It is very important to pray with your baby. This is how he will get his first experience of turning to God. Read prayers to him, read with him, and soon he will begin to show interest in this activity.
Sometimes such a prayer becomes the main one for a child for a long time.
It is important that the child develops the opinion that God is good and great. He loves us, he is with us. And we can always talk to him through prayer, tell him about our experiences, joys and sorrows. And to be heard and understood.
Children, just like adults, need a special atmosphere for prayer. Help him create such a stop. Reassure him, saying that God is with us, he sees and hears us, he knows and loves us. What are we going to tell him?
Prayer for a child should not be a chore or hard work. The baby can communicate with God in his own language, with joy and good mood. He can sing, play, laugh, clap his hands, in a word, behave according to the situation. It is advisable to add movements to prayer. This way children better learn the meaning of words.
For example, by saying the words “we bow before you,” we show the baby that he needs to lower his head. We also show how the sign of the cross is performed.
Who do you turn to for help?
In Orthodoxy, there are quite a large number of saints to whom Christians turn in different life situations. Most often, a prayer for the obedience of a husband to his wife, daughter and son is read to the following saints:
- Lord God
- Our Lady,
- Sergius of Radonezh,
- Matrona of Moscow,
- to all Saints,
- Nikolai Ugodnik.
It is difficult to say for sure which prayer is the most powerful. Each believer chooses a prayer and a saint to whom he wants to turn. Sometimes the popularity of a saint simply depends on the area where you live. For example, Matrona of Moscow is more popular in Russia, and Nikolai Ugodnik throughout the post-Soviet territory. The main thing is that there is faith in the heart and that everyone who makes a prayer request believes in what he is asking for.
How to pray correctly so that a child will obey
Every parent dreams of their child being healthy and living in prosperity. Of course, in order for him to achieve this, the child needs to follow a righteous path through life and not get involved with “bad company.” Unfortunately, in the modern world there are many different negative areas of life that are very attractive to children. Especially in adolescence. Due to the child’s busyness or unwillingness to contact his parents, the normal life of a daughter or son may be in jeopardy.
To avoid this, clergy recommend reading a strong prayer for the obedience of children. The ideal option is for parents to attend Divine Liturgy with their child at least once a week. It is also recommended to undergo the sacraments of confession and communion regularly. But if you don’t have free time and you can only attend church on major holidays, don’t be upset.
A prayer for a son’s obedience to his mother can be read at home. The main thing is that before your eyes there is an image of one of the above saints. Remember that the prayer for good study should be said in front of the icon of Sergius of Radonezh. Since ancient times, he was considered the patron saint of all students. It is customary to read prayer requests to the Lord God and the Mother of God so that children will be under the protection of saints from negative energy. Matrona of Moscow most often offers prayers for the health and obedience of a child from infancy to adulthood.
They offer prayer requests to all saints and the Guardian Angel for every need, as well as trying to protect their child from all troubles. Oddly enough, parents offer prayers to St. Nicholas for their child for every need. People turn to the saint with requests for protection, health, good studies and easy passing of exams. Moreover, Nicholas the Wonderworker helps his son or daughter find a worthy match and build a strong family. Prayers are also read to the saint for the obedience of an adult son. The main thing is that all requests are made sincerely from a pure heart. Then the saints will definitely help every parent raise a worthy and kind Orthodox person.
Text of the prayer to Nicholas the Ugodnik:
O all-good Father Nicholas, shepherd and teacher of all who flow with faith to your intercession and call upon you with warm prayer, quickly strive and deliver the flock of Christ from the wolves that are destroying it, and protect every Christian country and save with your holy prayers from worldly rebellion, cowardice, invasion foreigners and internecine warfare, from famine, flood, fire, sword and vain death. And just as you had mercy on three men imprisoned, and you delivered them from the king’s wrath and the beating of the sword, so have mercy on me, in mind, word and deed, in the darkness of sins, and deliver me from the wrath of God and eternal punishment, as through your intercession and With the help of His mercy and grace, Christ God will give me a quiet and sinless life to live in this world and will deliver me from this place, and will make me worthy to be with all the saints. Amen.
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Orthodox parental prayer
Little children try to imitate their parents in everything; they easily adopt gestures, imitating us, learn to pronounce words, learn to live. Children should be taught to pray as a necessary component of spiritual life as early as possible. It is the parental prayer that should become an example for the child. If from childhood a child sees his parents praying, then later he will not need to be forced to pray. Prayer will come naturally to him.
Parental prayer for teenage children
The age of 12-17 years is called adolescence, this is the time of physiological and psychological maturation. Sometimes the entire outside world is perceived by a teenager as a hostile environment. Stubbornness, mistrust, criticism, dissatisfaction with oneself, inability to understand oneself and one’s desires - all this turns adolescence into a difficult test for both the teenager and the parents. Parental prayer for their child can protect a child during this difficult period from rash actions, adventurous undertakings and criminal plans.
Strong parental prayer for their children
There is nothing stronger than parental prayer. There are cases where a mother begged for health for a terminally ill child. Parental prayer to the Mother of God protects children from illness and troubles and gives peace of mind. Unfortunately, not everyone understands the importance of parental prayer for their children, and then they are sincerely surprised - how could such an arrogant, rude, impudent child grow up in our family? Where did the addiction to cigarettes and drinking come from? And this is a consequence of the religious negligence of parents. Parental prayer is necessary for children at any period of their lives; it protects them from sins, passions, addictions, prevents them from falling away from the church, and strengthens them in the faith.
Rituals for baby obedience
A child's disobedience can have unpleasant consequences. The child does not always understand verbal assurances; in this case, time-tested rituals will come to the rescue.
It should be remembered that the ritual can only work when the person conducting it believes in the power of the spoken words. It is necessary to keep secret plans that a magical ritual is to be performed. Regardless of whether it worked or not, you cannot tell anyone about the ritual, not even close people.
The words of the conspiracy for the obedience of children must be pronounced slowly, thoughtfully, in a quiet, soulful voice, pronouncing each phrase. It is best to learn the text by heart. When performing the ritual, you should strictly adhere to the instructions given in the description.
A skeptical attitude will minimize all efforts, so with this approach it is better not to resort to the help of magical powers.
If the baby is naughty
There is an effective spell for a child’s obedience, which is carried out while bathing on the waxing moon. The procedure for rinsing the baby must be accompanied by special words.
“I speak the words and put them in my ears. You, God's servant (name of the child), listen to them. I want him to become calm and obey my will. I ask you to do everything as I say. As I say, I will order and demand. Our connection is strong, strong, unbreakable. No one will turn you away from the servant of God (your name). I ask for your submission, I demand your peace. I resort to the help of the forces of light, I instruct you with my mind. I will achieve my goal, I won’t turn back. Amen".
Read the text 3 times. Conspiracies on children should be carried out with pure, good thoughts. You can’t hold anger in your heart or be irritated.
When a child doesn't want to listen to his parents
Parents whose children are often capricious can use various spells for obedience.
The simplest one to perform is the one that is carried out at night. It is important that the waxing moon is clearly visible in the sky.
Mother and daughter
A special relationship develops between a growing daughter and mother. It would seem that they should understand each other perfectly, but, unfortunately, when entering adolescence, becoming a girl, the daughter often goes against her mother, offending her, accusing her of misunderstanding. To protect her daughter from mistakes, the mother sometimes takes strict measures, and this makes their communication impossible. To avoid such a situation, the mother needs to be patient and read saving prayers so that her daughter respects her mother.
Orthodox maternal prayer
Lord my God Almighty! Fulfill the request of Your insignificant servant (your name)! May my beloved child be in Thy greatest mercy, Protect her from the forces of darkness, grief and evil, grant goodness to all her deeds! With deep faith in Your power, I cry for help, Have mercy, may Your will be favorable to me, amen.
Remember that a mother’s Orthodox prayer is also a strong amulet for your children. Saying the mother’s prayers so that the children love their mother, she takes care of her children, wants to protect them from mistakes and evil thoughts, blessing them for a righteous life.
Prayer for children to obey
There are many prayers that help a person cope with various everyday difficulties. Among them there are prayers for the obedience of children. During the meal, looking at the child who is eating, you need to say the following words to yourself:
“I look at my little blood, but I put my order into his head. Every day I, God’s servant (name), give him food so that he grows to the joy of my heart. Let him grow and appreciate my love and care, and respond with humility and obedience. I ask higher powers to help, to overcome the evil nature and obstinacy of God’s servant (child’s name). Amen".
The ritual is repeated 7 days in a row.
Conspiracy to obedience a son
Often sons cause a lot of problems because they do not want to take into account the opinions of their elders. There is a special conspiracy so that the child obeys no matter what character he has. This ritual will also help in cases where the son has fallen under the influence of bad company and the parents’ advice to stop communicating does not work on him.
The ritual is carried out as follows: they take clothes, put them on the table, and place a lit church candle next to them. You will also need a photo of the child, which should be held over the flame. After this, they begin reading prayers for the children’s obedience:
“Let my son, the servant of God (name), have no thought to say anything contrary to his mother (father). Let the parent’s word be respected, valued, and considered important. Let him pacify his violent character and obstinacy, fill his heart with calmness and obedience. As it was said, so be it. Amen".
The child must wear clothes when he goes outside the next day. The candle spell begins to work quickly, so within a day you will be able to notice changes in your son’s behavior.
A spell for my son to use water. They take holy water and whisper over it:
“I want my son to be obedient. My every word will be law for him. Obstinacy will go away, obedience will come. Let it be so. Amen".
A conspiracy to obey your daughter
The plot to make your daughter obey is simple in execution. It is read after the child goes for a walk. The words are as follows:
“Let my daughter become soft, kind and obedient. He will listen to my every word and will not forget about parental care and care for a moment. I hope for the help of the forces of light, I ask for help. Let my request be heard and my daughter endowed with obedience. Amen".
Features of home prayer
It is necessary to prepare for any prayer. To begin with, you should carefully read the text of the prayers for children. You must understand every word you speak. It must come not only from your lips, but also from your heart. It is advisable to memorize all the main prayers so as not to stumble while reading them.
Before starting prayer, you need to retire, light a lamp and stand in front of the icons. You can recite the text of prayers, either alone or with the whole family. Such family reading is a type of public prayer, but in no way replaces individual prayer.
To begin, sign yourself with the sign of the cross and make several bows from the waist or to the ground. After this, try to tune in to internal communication with God. In silence, an awareness of the importance of the ritual being performed should come to you.
Having made all the preparations, you can stand in front of the icon and begin reading prayers. At the same time, it is important to clearly pronounce each word, delving into its essence not only with the mind, but also with the heart. An important principle of any prayer, including prayers for children, is the ability to understand and feel the sacred text. Only such an attitude towards the spoken words guarantees a positive result.
You also need to be very focused while praying. It is believed that anyone who reads the text absent-mindedly and inattentively will not be heard by the Lord. The human mind is always busy, so you need to be prepared for distractions. At such moments, try to focus even more on the process and bring your thoughts into a calm state.
You don't need to be looking at your watch all the time, so get into a position that you can stand in for a long time. If it is difficult for you to evoke in yourself the sensations and feelings that are mentioned in the text of the prayer, then try to read prayers throughout the day to penetrate their meaning. It is not recommended to read a lot of general prayers in a row. It is better to interrupt them with a personal appeal to God.
Priests recommend not only praying (reading a text established in a certain order), but also talking to God in your own words. This way you can tell the Lord about your aspirations, troubles and joys. Communication with God must be carried out constantly in order to maintain your connection at a sufficient level. The stronger it is, the better the result of your prayers will be.
To the question “Is it possible to pray to God in your own words?” many Holy Fathers answer in the affirmative. Indeed, today not only those texts that exist in the Holy Scriptures are widespread, but also those that were pronounced by some Holy Fathers. Over time, they became a familiar prayer for many.
In order for the words spoken by a person to bring him what he wants in the future, purity of heart must be complemented by the depth of personal faith and the experience of his entire spiritual life. Under such conditions, the power of prayer will increase many times over.
How to make your husband obedient?
The obstinacy of a spouse often becomes the reason for protracted quarrels.
Even when a woman makes concessions, such a person remains dissatisfied with everything, increases demands and in other ways aggravates the conflict. In order for the husband to obey and begin to treat his wife with great respect, a simple ritual can be performed.
The plot to get a man to agree should be read during the period when the moon is in its waxing phase. You will need a recent photograph of your spouse. The right time is midnight. You should take the photo in your hands, go to the window from which the month is visible, and whisper the following words of conspiracy over the image:
“I want God’s servant (husband’s name) to submit to his wife (his name). Let him obey my will and listen to my words. He listens to my requests and avoids quarrels. We will live and understand each other perfectly, and make happiness. Let it be so. Amen".
The enchanted photograph is placed under the mattress or bed all night so that it is not visible. A man should definitely spend the night on this bed. In the morning the photo is removed. From this moment on, the relationship between the spouses should change for the better.
Sometimes a woman wants to get approval from her husband; a special ritual is used for this. In order for a husband to agree with his wife, the following words should be said before an important conversation or during an argument:
“My beloved, valued husband, please don’t contradict me, don’t say a word against him. As I said, so it will be. With agreement there will be happiness. Amen".
A conspiracy to make a man submit to his wife’s will should be pronounced quietly. They repeat it until the spouse stops arguing.
The composition and effect of prayer from a psychological point of view
Psychologists have long noticed that small “rituals” increase the efficiency of both simple and complex tasks; allow you to tune in to work in such a way that the result becomes an integral part of the efforts made. It’s not for nothing that athletes put on tracksuits before training, and businessmen put on business suits, carefully monitoring compliance with the slightest rules of etiquette. From the perspective of psychology, prayer is a kind of “suit” and a preparatory ritual that sets a positive charge for the whole day.
In addition, prayer helps to tune in to the world around us. Helps to subconsciously perceive it, and, thanks to the information thus obtained, make optimal decisions. Consequently, prayer is a kind of key that opens the door to a space of mutual understanding, goodness, success and inner strength. After all, if a child is confident in his ability to achieve something and has a positive attitude, nothing can stop him.
Prayer allows you to relax the body and teaches you to concentrate on the current action. Later in adult life, the skill helps children apply the acquired knowledge better than their peers.
A joyful life to you and your children! God's blessings!
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Ritual for wife's obedience
There are rituals aimed not only at ensuring that the husband obeys, but also at the wife’s submission. To do this, you should take a church candle, place it near the photograph of your wife and say the following words:
“As this candle melts, so the obstinacy of God’s servant (wife’s name) will melt. Instead of slander and stubbornness, kindness and humility will appear. She will listen to her husband, serve him and respect him. Amen".
They pronounce the charmed words 7 times, wait until the candle burns out completely, after which they collect its remains in a napkin and bury it under a green tree.
How to avoid male infidelity?
To prevent a man from being attracted to other women, you can perform a simple night ritual. It is important that the spouse does not realize that a magical operation is being performed on him. It is impossible for him to notice any manipulations. They light a candle and approach the sleeping husband’s bed. Then they cross him three times and say the following words:
“Please, I conjure, remain faithful, take care of your wife. I support the fire of love for the servant of God (wife’s name), I maintain peace in the family. Don’t look at others, keep your wife’s peace and happiness. Let it be so. Amen".
The text is read three times, while putting into the words all the strength of their love and desire to protect the husband from outside hobbies.
