Man is a social being. At the very beginning of his life, he is surrounded by his parents and other relatives; over time, he grows up and matures to create his own family. But not all people manage to find their other half, who will later become a companion or life partner. Even the most successful people are often lonely. But loneliness is not a death sentence. You can get rid of it, and the Orthodox Church recommends doing this through prayer. One of the most powerful prayers for loneliness is considered to be the prayer to St. Nicholas the Wonderworker.
A lot of believers venerate St. Nicholas the Pleasant and turn to him with a wide variety of requests, including a request to eliminate loneliness. Loneliness is a depressing state. Of course, there are those who like it, but most people find it quite difficult. A lonely person is more susceptible to melancholy and depression than anyone else. Often, apathy, boredom, sadness and indifference to everything and everyone are added to melancholy.
Sincere prayer can bring relief in difficult moments. Thanks to it, every lonely person will be able to find peace in their soul, for prayer is an appeal to the Higher powers for consolation and help. If you pray with deep faith in your soul, from a pure heart, the Lord God, Nicholas the Pleasant and other saints will definitely hear you and give you the opportunity to know true happiness in love and marriage.
The Power of Prayer for Marriage
In Orthodoxy there are a large number of very diverse images. Each saint must be approached with a specific request. The choice is made based on whose patron saint is.
Also of no small importance here is how exactly a person lived his life. Many people who were later canonized performed miracles (eg healing, protection, etc.). Accordingly, there are saints who are considered the patrons of family happiness and home.
You must submit a request in the following situations:
- when a girl cannot find her chosen one for a long time;
- need help in choosing a soul mate;
- personal life is not developing as we would like;
- there are problems with your partner (disagreements, misunderstandings);
- request for a happy family life;
- lack of well-being, etc.
Saying a prayer allows a girl to calm down, gain peace of mind, correctly assess the merits of her chosen one, choose a path in life, receive spiritual enlightenment, and sort out her feelings.
Often the reasons for failures in her personal life are the result of the negative actions of people surrounding the girl. Envy, hatred, a sinful lifestyle, etc. can lead to this development of events. In this case, not only help is required, but also protection of the person from the harmful actions of the people around him.
One of the most effective prayers is the one said to the Lord God. This is a very powerful request for help in marriage, which always turns out to be effective.
The text is pronounced by the mother of a girl experiencing problems with family happiness. Before reading this petition, to enhance the effect, you must do the following:
- you need to purchase an icon of the Lord (if there is no such image at home). You should also buy some candles;
- It is best to pray alone;
- A candle is lit in front of the icon. Looking at its flame, you can easily tune in to the desired mood;
- the request must be made with all your heart and sincerely.
Since the request is read by the mother before the Lord, it has incredible power. Therefore, when a girl gets married, she must thank God for her help. For this purpose, special prayers of thanks are read. You can also express your gratitude in simple words.
The petition read in front of the image of St. Nicholas the Wonderworker turns out to be effective. This saint will help you meet your soul mate and create family happiness with her. There is a well-known legend according to which Nicholas the Wonderworker threw three bundles of gold to the father of the family, who, due to poverty, wanted to give his daughters away for fornication. The saint's help helped the family improve their lives and their daughters get married successfully.
Also, the request for marriage is pronounced in front of the image of the Matrona of Moscow. A prayer read before this saint helps to find a soul mate.
There are other saints who can provide help and support in creating a happy and strong family. But the prayers read in front of these three icons are considered the most effective. The main thing is to read the holy text with deep faith in help.
How to find your soulmate?
Finding your soul mate can take years, and sometimes even a lifetime. How to speed up a long-awaited meeting? Which saints should we pray for love?
Prayer is a powerful and effective tool that will help you focus on your desire. A request addressed to higher powers with faith and hope will certainly come true.
It is a mistake to believe that only memorized prayers will help convey a request to heaven. Words spoken from the heart also carry strong energy potential. The structure of the prayer consists of gratitude for existing blessings, repentance for sins and requests for love (marriage).
Mentally focusing on the desire will help you choose the right words. You should not ask a higher power for love as an instrument of pleasure or self-affirmation. Purity of thoughts and sincerity should be the basis of prayer.
Who should you pray to to find your soulmate? You can turn to the Savior, the Mother of God, the patron saint, the guardian angel with a request for love.
Who to ask for help in your personal life
Jesus Christ
Oh, All-Good Lord, I know that my great happiness depends on the fact that I love You with all my soul and with all my heart, and that I fulfill Your holy will in everything.
Rule Yourself, O my God, over my soul and fill my heart: I want to please You Alone, for You are the Creator and my God. Save me from pride and self-love: let reason, modesty and chastity adorn me. Idleness is disgusting to You and gives rise to vices, give me the desire to work hard and bless my labors.
Since Your Law commands people to live in an honest marriage, then lead me, Holy Father, to this title, sanctified by You, not to please my lust, but to fulfill Your destiny, for You Yourself said: it is not good for man to be alone and, having created He gave him a wife to help him, blessed them to grow, multiply and populate the earth. Hear my humble prayer, sent to You from the depths of a girl’s heart; give me an honest and pious spouse, so that in love with him and in harmony we glorify You, the merciful God: the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, now and ever and unto ages of ages. Amen.
Archangel Gabriel
O holy Archangel Gabriel! We earnestly pray to you, instruct us, servant of God (name), to repentance from evil deeds and to confirmation in our faith, strengthen and protect our souls from seductive temptations and beg our Creator for the remission of our sins. O holy great Gabriel the Archangel! Do not despise us, sinners, who pray to you for help and your intercession, in this world and in the future, but an ever-present helper to us, may we continually glorify the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, the power and your intercession forever and ever. Amen.
Ksenia of Petersburg
Immaculate Xenia, Lady of Petersburg. I pray to you for a bright marriage and a comfortable existence. Not as a punishment, send me a husband so that a puddle of tears does not spill. Let my husband be strong, not drinking, loving and peaceful. I believe in One God, that only the road leads to Him. Asking for blessings, I will give myself entirely to marriage. Thy will be done. Amen.
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Icons of the Mother of God
There are a great many icons of the Mother of God. Some of them are miraculous, capable of healing the sick and helping the weak. The Mother of God is considered the great Intercessor of man before the Savior. According to long-standing legends, some of the images of the Mother of God contribute to the rapid acquisition of family happiness.
Therefore, to the question “Who should I pray to to find my soulmate?” one can answer that several icons of the Mother of God will help in finding a life partner:
- The Kozelshchanskaya Icon of the Mother of God, according to legend, has Italian roots. It appeared in Russia during the time of Elizabeth I. The icon was brought by one of the court ladies, who soon received a marriage proposal. Since then, rumor has spread that the image helps to find a happy marriage.
- The icon of the Virgin Mary “Unfading Flower” appeared in the 16th-17th centuries. Presumably, its writing was associated with an annual miracle. Pilgrims brought lilies to the Holy Mountain as a gift to the Mother of God. On the eve of the Dormition of the Virgin Mary, withered flowers suddenly filled with strength, new buds appeared. Athonite monks noticed this miracle, which served as inspiration for painting the image “Unfading Color”.
- The icon of the Mother of God “Inexhaustible Chalice” is miraculous. There are many stories about her help in finding housing and healing from bad habits. Since ancient times, prayer for love and marriage in front of the image has helped young virgins and mature women in finding their betrothed.
Options for strong rituals
If, despite all the actions taken, you cannot meet the person you like, then in this case you can use conspiracies, of which there are a huge number. The main condition for the success of the ritual is sincerity and a strong desire to see a specific person.
When reading any conspiracy for a meeting, it is very important to concentrate and clearly imagine the person you need to meet. During the ceremony, you should visualize the future meeting. Most conspiracies for a meeting can be pronounced at any time; the strength of their impact is not related to the position of the Moon or the time of day. As a rule, they are simple and do not require any additional attributes. It is also very important that all conspiracies for a meeting belong to the means of white magic, so they do not pose any danger to any of the parties to the ritual.
Popular method
There is a universal spell that can be used when you are simply hoping to meet a stranger.
It goes something like this:
“Gather me for the journey, Lord. Give your permission to the relationship. Reveal the secret of your acquaintance to me and provide me with everything I need. Give me confidence in my chosen one (name) or disappointment. Protect me from unnecessary waste of time. Help me understand the perspective. My heart is worried. Sympathy was born and intensified. Stop the torment of my soul, Lord. Help me meet (name of chosen one). Let me take this chance and calm down.”
Plot to meet your loved one
The words of the conspiracy are:
“Lord Jesus Christ and Holy Virgin Mary. I am turning to you with a request. Let my thoughts turn into a cloud and float across the sky along with others. Over the blue sea and over the island of Buyan. Over the flammable stone Alatyr and over the quicksand and loose sand. Let the cloud spill water, rain and my blood and love over my dear one in a wide field, in a distant direction.”
If you really like a person, but life circumstances develop in such a way that you cannot meet, you can use a ritual in which you will need to use a photo of your chosen one.
This ritual in its action is a call for a quick meeting. It must be carried out two days in a row at dawn and sunset. In a secluded place, you need to place a photograph on the table and light a candle next to it.
Through the flame of a candle, you should look at the image of your loved one and read the following magical spell from memory:
“The day has passed, and the night has passed. I waited for the next day, and I’ll wait for the night. And then I will wait for you, my beloved, Servant of God (name of the chosen one).
You need to pronounce this conspiracy many times until you feel that your call has been heard. To do this, magic words must be pronounced in an authoritative voice. After reading the plot, you should extinguish the candle with your fingers. In the evening of the same day, the ritual should be repeated again, but only the candle should burn out naturally; it cannot be forcibly extinguished.
The next day, the ritual is carried out in the same order, but only with a new candle. A special feature of the ritual is that on the first day the plot is read facing the east, and on the second day – facing the west.
To get a person back after a quarrel
There are often situations in life where people just can’t meet after a trivial quarrel. Inner pride does not allow either partner to take the first step. Therefore, you can use magic to organize a random meeting.
For the ceremony you will need to use three church candles. They need to be installed in a secluded place on the table in the form of a triangle, and a photo of your loved one should be placed between them.
It is very important to follow the entire installation procedure for such an installation:
- When lighting the first candle, you should say: “Stop.”
- When installing another candle, you need to say: “Hang on.”
- The third candle is placed with the words: “Come back to me.”
After this, you need to put the photo and, looking at the image of your loved one, say the following magic words:
“I, the Servant of God (my own name), block all the roads for you, the Servant of God (the name of the chosen one). With my power and the power of the magic word, I send alarms after you. Stop and don’t go anywhere, just come to me.”
This plot must be repeated at least nine times, but more is possible. Since this ritual is a challenge in its action, its success depends entirely on your volitional efforts.
Having spoken the magic words a sufficient number of times, you need to say:
“Sealed.”
The candles should be left to burn out, and at this time sit in silence and try to imagine your future meeting with your loved one. You should put the photograph under your pillow and keep it there for three days.
To have a date
When you have met someone in your life that you like, you can use magic to get them to ask you out.
This is a very strong ritual that needs to be performed in the bathhouse. It is very easy to implement this in the modern world, because today there are a large number of various baths and saunas, the services of which can be used.
For the ceremony, you will need to make a broom from birch or spruce branches with your own hands. In addition, you need to purchase 9 red candles.
You need to go to the bathhouse at midnight, there, on the floor in a circle, you need to put candles and light them from right to left. In such an improvised circle you need to place a basin of water and stand with your feet in it.
With a well-soaked broom, you need to take a good steam with the words:
“I, the Servant of God (my own name) cleanse my body and soul in order to meet sooner with my beloved person, the Servant of God (the name of my beloved).”
You need to repeat this plot nine times. After this, you should pour the remaining water over yourself. Then you need to extinguish the candles and collect the cinders from right to left. Only after this can you leave the circle.
The next day, you need to take a few twigs from the bath broom and quietly sweep the threshold of the house where your loved one lives.
During this process, you need to say the following words:
“I, the Servant of God (proper name), cleaned myself with a broom in the bathhouse and prepared it for you, I will now wait for our meeting. May you, Servant of God (name of your beloved), have no obstacles on your way to me, so that no evil force will delay you, my beloved, and you will quickly make an appointment with me. Amen".
Upon returning home, the branches need to be put away in a secret place along with the broom that was used in the bathhouse.
Complete cleansing will help enhance the effectiveness of conspiracies for a meeting. To do this, you need to fast for several days, not smoke or drink alcohol. You should also visit the temple if possible.
Conspiracies to meet are absolutely safe, since they do not awaken love, but only push a person to a chance meeting with the performer of the ritual. The further fate of relationships between people depends entirely on the decisions of the partners.
Yakov Porfirievich Starostin
Servant of the Lord
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True, sincere, mutual love is undoubtedly what every girl dreams and hopes to meet, but sometimes reality turns out to be harsh and unfair. You can change the situation with the help of prayer or a ceremony to attract a loved one.
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Saint Paul
About love.
Love is long-suffering, merciful, love does not envy, love does not boast, is not proud, does not act rudely, does not seek its own, is not irritated, does not think evil, does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth.
He covers everything, believes everything, hopes everything, endures everything. Love never fails, although prophecy will cease, and tongues will be silent, and knowledge will be abolished.
