Prayer for reconciliation with a loved one

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13-09-2018
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Every person at least once in his life has personally experienced such a painful phenomenon as a serious quarrel with loved ones. But sometimes this disagreement can turn into something more terrible and destructive - into enmity.

But is it possible to reconcile people through prayer? Which Saints should be contacted in this case? How to properly prepare for reading such prayer texts? What to do if the husband cannot get along with his wife, or the relatives refuse to make a reasonable compromise with each other? What other Orthodox ways are there to restore peace between family and friends?

Detailed answers to each of the above questions are available in our article.

How to get your husband back

Sometimes spouses separate to be apart, to “cool off.” Then there is time to think about relationships, about your behavior. At such moments, there is a desire to read a prayer for reconciliation. You should not expect an immediate effect - you need to be persistent in this matter. To get back together with your husband, sometimes it’s not enough just to pray. It is necessary to show the person your good will. You can apologize if there was a fault - this is difficult, but this way the spouse will understand that there is a desire to restore peace.

The texts of the prayers are quite short, it is quite possible to supplement them with your own words, there is nothing wrong with that. It would be good to tell your other half about your feelings, because no matter how much we would like, most people are not able to read minds. And if you share your experiences, it will cause sympathy and melt the ice in the relationship.

Love vs. enmity

The most sublime lines about love in Holy Scripture are the words of the Apostle Paul (First Epistle to the Corinthians, 13: 4-7):

“Love is long-suffering, it is kind, love does not envy, love is not arrogant, is not proud, does not act rudely, does not seek its own, is not irritated, does not think evil, does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; covers all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.”

This is a hymn of love. Where there is love, there is no enmity. But as a result of the Fall of man, evil entered the world. Misunderstandings, minor quarrels, and conflicts often arise between people. Enmity is often present not only between strangers, but even within the family.

Elder Paisiy Svyatogorets (1924-1994) advised Christians who came to him for advice to treat

“towards injustice spiritually, that is, to treat everything as Divine justice requires. Strive for what brings peace to others. After all, if someone makes a mistake, being weak, then in some way he has mitigating circumstances.”

How to read the prayer for reconciliation

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Sometimes, in order for things to move forward, you don’t need to turn to magicians at all, but simply apologize for a rude word or inattention to another. You can also read a special prayer for reconciliation with your loved one. To do this you need:

buy a church candle;
if not in the house, then images of the Lord and the Mother of God;
light candles, read the Lord's Prayer, then ask for your loved one to return.

You can repeat it at least every day. If the Lord answers immediately, it means that feelings must be subjected to strict testing, as well as one’s behavior. Perhaps there is something else that needs to be repented of. Sins will interfere with the ascent of petitions to God. Here, no magic will help, you need to cleanse the soul - this is done by repentance and good deeds.

Prayer 1

Oh, holy and blessed martyr of Christ Paraskeva, maiden beauty, praise of martyrs, purity of image, generous mirror, wonder of the wise, guardian of the Christian faith, idolatry flatter the accuser, the champion of the Divine Gospel, the zealot of the commandments of the Lord, worthy to come to the haven of eternal rest and in the hall of the Bridegroom yours, Christ God, brightly rejoicing, adorned with the deepest crown of virginity and martyrdom! We pray to you, holy martyr: be sorrowful for us to Christ God, whose most blessed sight always rejoices: pray to the All-Merciful One, Who opened the eyes of the blind with a word, that He may deliver us from the disease of the eyes from ours, physically and mentally; with your holy prayers, kindle the dark darkness that has come from our sins; ask the Father of Lights for the light of grace for our soul and body; Enlighten us, darkened by sins, with the light of God’s grace, so that for the sake of your holy prayers sweet vision will be given to the dishonest. O great servant of God! O most courageous maiden! O strong martyr Saint Paraskeva! With your holy prayers, be a helper to us sinners, intercede and pray for the damned and extremely negligent sinners, hasten to help us, for we are so weak. Pray to the Lord, pure maiden, pray to the Merciful, holy martyr, pray to your Bridegroom, immaculate bride of Christ, may your prayers help you, and the darkness of sin will be overcome, in your Let us of true faith and divine deeds enter into the eternal light of the never-evening day, into the City of everlasting joy, into why now you shine brightly with glory and endless joy, praising and singing with all the Heavenly Powers the Tri-radiant One Deity, the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit, now and before dream, and forever and ever. Amen.

Saints who help restore the world

In Orthodoxy, there are saints to whom they pray so that family life can proceed with dignity and smoothly. Prayers for reconciliation of spouses are also addressed to. Anyone who cares about the fate of these people can read them. The Lord commanded everyone to live in peace among themselves, so such a prayer pleases him.

Who to contact:

Holy blessed spouses Peter and Fevronia;
Mother of God;
Nicholas the Wonderworker;
Holy Guardian Angel.

This does not mean that other saints cannot be approached with a prayer for reconciliation. Usually a person has favorite saints of God who help him in any matter. This problem is complicated by the fact that one side may persist and not listen to reason. Then you should intensify your prayer - order a prayer service in the temple, give out alms, and fast for several days. These are proven remedies that many monks have resorted to.

Of course, you won’t be nice by force, but saints can open a person’s vision of his sins and help him understand what his mistake was. This awakens repentance in a person, and so things move towards family reunification. The same prayers are read for reconciliation with a wife or husband; prayers are not divided by gender. If a word in the masculine gender occurs somewhere, it is simply replaced, if necessary, with a feminine one.

Full texts of powerful Orthodox prayers to Saint Paraskeva Friday

The Holy Great Martyr is considered the patroness of marriage. Girls who dream of getting married successfully turn to Paraskeva. They remember the saint when they cannot get pregnant. They pray to the martyr when a legitimate husband is seduced by a rival. Prayers to the Saint save women's happiness, strengthen marriages, and protect spouses from the envy and hatred of enemies.

About marriage

There are several prayers to Paraskeva that help young girls who dream of getting married. Believers pray to the saint, who is a symbol of purity and righteous life, for a successful marriage and family happiness. Young girls ask the Great Martyr to pray on their behalf to the Savior and ask God for mercy and a respectable betrothed.

“Holy Martyr Paraskeva! Your soul is filled with love and fidelity to our Savior Jesus Christ! You are an example of purity and righteousness! With rapture I turn my gaze to Your miraculous image. I give You honor and respect, O Great Sufferer of God, Paraskeva. Pray before the Almighty Father for the acquisition of my beloved, may He give me family happiness, patience and piety! May our souls be cleansed and freed from sinful acts. I will not stop reading prayers to You, most holy Paraskeva! Let my words be heard! May we glorify Your name, Martyr of God! Amen".
“Oh, Great Martyr Paraskeva! I bow my knees before Your miraculous icon. I pray for Your help. All my hope is in You, Saint Paraskeva. Forgive me for my sins and lust! Give me mutual love in lightness and purity. I lost my way, got confused in the big world! I cannot find my betrothed without Your help! I trust in You, O righteous and pious Paraskeva! Do not leave me without Your support! Fulfill my request. Amen".
“Oh, blessed Paraskeva! Great Martyr of the Lord! You live in the Kingdom of God, blessed by the Mother of God. Forgive me for my sinful and wicked deeds. Help me, Paraskeva, find simple feminine happiness. I pray to You, fill my heart and soul with tender feelings, envelop me in earthly and pure love. Grant me a companion with whom I will find family well-being. Bless me, great martyr, and grant me happiness in abundance! In the name of the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen".

About the gift of children

Women who dream of becoming pregnant turn to the Champion of the Divine Gospel. They pray to the Great Martyr to save her from diseases that interfere with conception. Christians believe that the saint will help illuminate the path of people darkened by sins with the light of Divine grace. The martyr is asked to pray to the Lord for forgiveness and quick help in the birth of a child.

“O holy and blessed martyr of Christ Paraskeva, maiden beauty, praise of the martyrs, purity of image, magnanimous mirrors, wonder of the wise, guardian of the Christian faith, idolatry flattery of the accuser, champion of the Divine Gospel, zealot of the Lord’s commandments, worthy to come to the haven of eternal rest and in the hall of the Bridegroom your Christ God, brightly rejoicing, adorned with the extreme crown of virginity and martyrdom!
We pray to you, holy martyr, be sorrowful for us to Christ God. Through His most blessed vision one can always have fun; pray to the All-Merciful One, who opened the eyes of the blind with a word, that He may deliver us from the illness of our hair, both physical and mental; With your holy prayers, kindle the dark darkness that has come from our sins, ask the Father of Light for the light of grace for our spiritual and physical eyes; enlighten us, darkened by sins; by the light of God's grace, that for the sake of your holy prayers sweet vision will be given to the dishonest.
O great servant of God! O most courageous maiden! O strong martyr Saint Paraskeva! With your holy prayers, be a helper to us sinners, intercede and pray for the damned and extremely negligent sinners, hasten to help us, for these are extremely weak. Pray to the Lord, pure maiden, pray to the Merciful, holy martyr, pray to your Bridegroom, immaculate bride of Christ, so that through your prayers, having escaped the darkness of sin, in the light of the true faith and divine deeds, we will enter into the eternal light of the unevening day, into the city of everlasting joy, in in it you now shine brightly with glory and endless joy, glorifying and singing with all the Heavenly Powers the Trisagion of the One Divinity, the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, now and ever and unto the ages of ages. Amen".

About health

You can turn to the Great Martyr for help in healing mental and physical ailments. A zealous follower of God's commandments helps everyone who sincerely repents of their sins. The saint is asked for intercession before the Savior. Prayer for health helps to increase the strength of spirit and remove infirmities.

“O Great Martyr Paraskeva, close to Christ, hear our prayers. You are the keeper of the Christian faith, the fulfiller of the Lord's commandments and a zealous prayer book. To You we offer our prayers and ask You, disobedient to the will of the devil, to awaken in us love for Christ. By the power of Your prayers, we ask you to free our thoughts from doubts and fears, and our bodies from illnesses. Settle grace and humility into your heart. All-wise and All-praiseworthy Paraskeva, accept our prayers, do not turn away from them in difficult moments and increase the strength of spirit and remove weakness. Help defeat the devil within. Save our souls and guide them along the path of prosperity, straight to sweet happiness. Pray to the Lord, as we pray to You, O holy intercessor. We will never tire of singing Your praises forever and ever. In the name of the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen".

Personal petition

You are allowed to make a personal petition to the Martyr of Christ. It is important to remember that Paraskeva is considered the patroness of family happiness. Married women ask the guardian of the Christian faith to preserve their legal marriage and help get rid of their rival. The all-powerful great martyr can protect a person from betrayal and devilish temptation. They pray to the saint for her assistance, so that she returns her husband to the family and does not allow her rival to seduce and take away her beloved.

“Oh, holy and blessed martyr of Christ Paraskeva! With your holy prayers, be a helper to us sinners (names), intercede, so that through your prayers we may be worthy (the content of the petition), and together with you we glorify and glorify the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, now and ever and unto ages of ages. Amen!"
“Most Holy Blessed Martyr Paraskeva Friday, guardian of the Christian faith, image of purity! Hear me, sinful servant of God (name) and do not leave me in my sorrows! Do not be angry at my request, but give me your great mercy and help. Take away my rival, who is leading my husband away from my love, drawing him to herself, tempting him to sin. Help him overcome temptation, enlighten him with the light of grace and do not let him wallow in sin. Turn him to me again, for my feelings are strong and sincere, and our union is honest. With your holy prayers, be a helper to me, a sinner, for I am weak in spirit and in the face of this misfortune. Let the rival not touch our life, may God forgive her for her sins and not punish her ardently. I trust in your help, I believe in the boundless mercy and justice of God. Amen".

Troparion

In honor of the wise and glorified Paraskeva, a troparion is read in the church. Christians glorify the feat of the martyr, who, having received male strength and rejected female weakness, defeated the devil and put to shame the tormentors who mocked her. Believers ask the saint to pray to the Lord for them.

Troparion to the Great Martyr Paraskeva, named Friday, tone 4

The all-wise and all-validated martyr of Christ Paraskeva,/ having accepted the strength of men,/ having rejected the weakness of women,/ defeated the devil and the tormentor to shame,/ crying and saying:/ come, body Cut off mine with the sword and burn it with fire, / for I come to Christ rejoicing , To my Bridegroom./ Through prayers, O Christ God, // save our souls.

Translation

The wise and glorified martyr of Christ Paraskeva, having received male strength and rejected female weakness, defeated the devil and put her tormentor to shame, calling out and saying: “Come and cut my body with a sword and burn it with fire, for I, rejoicing, go to Christ, my Bridegroom.” . According to her prayers, Christ our God, save our souls.

Troparion to the Great Martyr Paraskeva, named Friday, tone 8

Even with faith and spiritual courage, the namesake,/ you put the devil to shame,/ and you valiantly conquered the tormenting punishment and wounds,/ to the martyr Paraskeva, crying out:/ slay with sword and fire live with my body,/ for yes, I rejoice, I will come to my Bridegroom, Christ God./ / Pray to Him for the salvation of our souls.

Translation

Believing and bearing a name consonant with spiritual courage, you put the devil to shame and valiantly overcame the threats of the tormentor and wounds, Martyr Paraskeva, crying out: “Cut with a sword and burn my body with fire, so that I may come, rejoicing, to my Bridegroom, Christ God.” Pray to Him for the salvation of our souls.

Kontakion

In honor of the saint, who, instead of a dowry, brought her martyrdom to the Heavenly Bridegroom, a kontakion is read in the church. Paraskeva defeated the devil's machinations and ascended to the Kingdom of Christ. Believers will always remember the long-suffering martyr and honor her self-sacrifice.

“Having brought all-holy and immaculate torment, / like a most venerable vein, to the immortal Bridegroom Christ, / the angelic countenance made you glad / and you defeated the demonic intrigues. / For this reason, for your sake We honor with faith // the long-suffering martyr Paraskeva.”

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In order for the prayer for reconciliation to work as quickly as possible, it is necessary, first of all, for those praying to cleanse themselves. There are no sinless people - if a person considers himself this way, then he has a lot of work ahead of him. To overcome sins, you must first understand them. For many it is easier to do this with the help of an experienced confessor. Usually people repent during confession, but you can arrange a meeting at another time, just to talk.

In large cities, there are self-help groups at various churches, and there are also family centers where you can come for consultation. There is nothing shameful in this - people are called upon to help each other, they live in society, therefore they have the right to advice and support. There are problems that cannot be solved alone - husband’s drunkenness, infidelity, Internet addiction. It’s good if the prayer for reconciliation with a loved one is supported by competent actions.

Icon of the Mother of God “Softening Evil Hearts”

Among Christian believers, there is a pious tradition of turning to the Mother of God for help. In this case, Her icon “Softening Evil Hearts” is especially revered. Orthodox believe that prayer in front of this image can soften the hearts of people and fill them with the love of God.

“The Mother of God conveys all our requests to Christ, but She herself, through Her care and tenderness, fills our souls with love for Christ. I ask the Mother of God that She would take my heart, cleanse it, and then divide it into four parts: give three parts to the Most Holy Trinity and take one for Herself” (Elder Paisius the Svyatogorets).

Why you can't live in quarrels

The normal state of people is peace, mutual love, support, discussion of problems and then solving them. The Lord commanded us to read prayers for the reconciliation of warring parties. Sometimes it takes a long time, but the result is worth it. Christians should imitate the Lord in everything, and He was kind to everyone, called everyone friends, and wished good to everyone. Peace to you!

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How does scripture work?

When reciting a text from the Psalter when difficulties arise in married life, a person must first of all understand how prayer services work and what action should be expected from them:

Chanting, like any other prayer, works through sound vibrations. Therefore, the Holy Scriptures must be read aloud
Thanks to the vibration-sound effect, the believer is cleansed at the energy level.
The procedure of reciting, for example, such a song as Psalm 126 about reconciliation in the family during quarrels out loud requires good concentration and a shift of attention to unknown stresses and text, which in turn allows you to normalize the balance between the processes of inhibition and excitation occurring in the main brain. And thanks to this, the mind is in a state of calm.
Upon completion of the recitation of the Holy Scriptures, a person will feel how the clarity of his worldview improves, from which it follows that any words or even pieces of text no longer fall out of the chant. Therefore, the one who turns has a kind of gift for seeing and perceiving the meaning inherent in the chant.

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Psalm for reconciliation with a loved one

If disagreements constantly arise between a married couple literally out of the blue, without any serious reasons, then they simply begin to give up. It may seem to a person that it is no longer possible to find a common language with a loved one and that it would be easier to separate and start a new relationship from scratch. Being in this constant series of disagreements, it is quite easy to forget about the main thing, namely the chants that come to help maintain family relationships.

There is an opinion that if you write a strong psalm for reconciliation on a piece of paper and carry it with you all the time, it will have a much greater effect. However, it is not enough just to rewrite the text; you must also adhere to some rules:

Take clean soft paper (instead of paper, you can use a piece of genuine leather or fabric).
In a calm and relaxed atmosphere, sit down and try to put your thoughts in order. It is best to have pleasant mental images in your head while texting.
Before writing out the text of the chant, you can say the prayer “Our Father” 3 times and then cross yourself the same number of times.
After which, in a peaceful mood, begin the census of the chants. It is worth noting that it is recommended to rewrite the prayer book only yourself.
The fabric or paper should be folded four times and carried with you at all times. Moreover, the closer to the body it is, the better. The most suitable place to store the amulet may be a pocket located in your underwear.

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What psalms to read

The most effective chants for solving the problem that have arisen are listed below.

Psalm 116 about preserving love and harmony in families “Let them praise God” has the shortest text in all of Holy Scripture, consisting of only two verses, so memorizing it by heart will not pose any difficulties. Such a chant is a prayer of praise addressed to the Almighty. It is recommended for family people to recite and listen to the text of this chant so that the Savior will give his blessing for a happy life together.

“Hallelujah. Praise the Lord, all you nations, glorify Him, all nations; for great is His mercy toward us, and the truth of the Lord endures forever. Hallelujah"

Hymn No. 127 is dedicated to marital happiness and is fully suitable for celebrations in honor of a child’s birthday and other family celebrations, where all loved ones and relatives gather to glorify the Savior, to conclude a marriage and save the relationship between a married couple.

The chant number 76 must be recited when there is no mutual understanding between the spouses, so that the Almighty will enlighten them. Why is Psalm 76 read for peace in the family? It is in it that complete despair is hidden and at the same time in the chant there is also boundless hope, even despite how deplorable the situation may be. This prayer can encourage a person, preventing him from falling into despondency and helping him to cope with a difficult situation with dignity.

“I cried with my voice to the Lord, with my voice to God, and I heard. In the day of my sorrow I sought God with my hands, I lay before Him, and I was not deceived. My soul, having refused, may be comforted. I remembered God and rejoiced, my spirit mocked and became faint-hearted. Anticipate my watches: I am confused and speechless. I thought about the first days, and remembered the eternal years, and learned: in the night my heart mocked, and my spirit grew sad: the Lord will forever reject food, and will not show favor again? Or will He cut off His mercy to the end, ending the verb from generation to generation? Will God forget to be generous with food? Or will He withhold His bounties in His anger? And now it has begun: this is the betrayal of the right hand of the Most High. I will remember the works of the Lord, as I will remember Your miracles from the beginning, and I will learn from all Your works, and I will mock at Your undertakings. God, Thy way is holy: who is the great God like our God? Thou art the God who works miracles: Thou hast spoken Thy power in men, Thou hast delivered Thy people with Thy arm, the sons of Jacob and Joseph. You saw the waters, O God, you saw the waters, and you were afraid: the abyss was in turmoil, there was a lot of sound of the waters, the clouds gave a voice, for your arrows pass away. The voice of Thy thunder is in the wheels, Thy lightning illuminates the universe: the earth moves and trembles. Thy ways are in the sea, and Thy paths are in many waters, and Thy footsteps are not known. Thou hast taught Thy people like sheep by the hand of Moses and Aaron."

God bless you!

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