Even if it seems to someone that a child’s love for his mother is something standard that should take place in any life circumstances, this is not always the case. Not every child loves his mother, or at one moment it happens that the warm feeling simply disappears somewhere.
Why does this happen, is it normal and how best should a woman behave in such a situation? More on this later.
Mother treats me badly
Many mothers who complain about the lack of love of their child sometimes do not themselves notice how they treat him.
Some do nothing but put psychological and physical pressure on the child, expecting sincere and deep love in return. Sometimes this happens unconsciously: a woman simply remembers how her mother behaved and tries to repeat that parenting model with her child.
Surely you know at least one family in which the mother said with complete confidence in her words: “It’s okay, they beat me with a belt - after all, she grew up normal. And nothing will happen to this." The child never takes such punishments for granted and normal. In his head, the mother is an aggressor who cannot be loved, but can be feared. You cannot save love through fear.
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The child may or may not be aware of the pressure. But he closes himself off from his mother and sometimes even gets offended by her. As a result, their spiritual connection is simply broken. There can be no talk of any love or trust.
If the mother does not realize her guilt in the current situation, it is impossible to correct it. You can return the love of a child only by reconsidering your attitude towards everything that is happening; old stereotypes that have been living in your head for years need to be broken. And talk to the child. Softly and correctly.
Rules for reading the plot
Obedience conspiracies, like all other magical rituals, have their own rules. Without following them, it is impossible to achieve results. Therefore, before choosing a suitable ritual, you need to learn a few rules:
- The best time to read conspiracies is morning or evening.
- To carry out the ritual, you need to accurately imagine the desired result.
- The process needs to be taken seriously.
- Learn the words of the spell by heart before you begin the ritual. If the text is long, copy it onto a blank sheet of paper with your own hands and read from there.
- Regardless of the result, do not tell strangers about the ritual.
- Before reading the plot, turn off all electrical appliances and telephones in the room. Nothing should distract from the process.
Overprotection
However, excessive expression of love also has a bad effect on the relationship with the child.
If a mother tied his shoelaces almost until her son came of age, and then immediately ran to solve his problems, he definitely won’t say thank you. There is no feeling of gratitude or love for the mother in such children.
Some children, growing up, remain mother's daughters and sons, and some try to escape from under her wing at the first opportunity. In the first case, even an adult child takes all the efforts of the parent for granted, and her presence in his life is almost unnoticed; in the second, he tries with all his might to achieve independence and, barely sensing it, tries to minimize his communication with his mother. There is no love or trusting relationship in either the first or second case.
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To prevent this from happening, every mother needs to remember the personal boundaries of the child at any age and be able to respect them. If maternal overprotection has already caused a chill in the relationship, accept the fact that your child is an independent person (believe it or not, even at 10 years old, a daughter or son is an adult, capable of making decisions and solving problems without a mother).
Requests for help Write your story I am 68 years old. I had three children. Twin girls and a son whom I gave birth to at the age of 37. In 1993. My daughter died, it’s very difficult for me to come to terms with this terrible grief, but life goes on. The second daughter has been living in Germany for 20 years, and I live with my son. Two years ago, my granddaughter/daughter of my deceased daughter died, and my great-grandson remains with me. He turned 6 years old yesterday. I have a problem with my son. Whatever I do causes him to have a violent negative reaction and he insults me and mimics me. I am a disabled person of group 2, I can’t walk very well and I’ve gained a lot of weight, but I work, do translations and tutoring. The son is a lawyer by profession, does not smoke, does not drink, and recently started living with a girl. I’m very happy about this, because I asked God about this all the time. The girl is good and I also try to be on the level. But my son treats me with great disrespect. Everything about me irritates him and it doesn’t cost him anything to insult me with obscenities, but my great-grandson hears all this and says don’t cry grandma, when I grow up I will protect you. I understand I have to live, but all sorts of thoughts come into my head. I am needed only to use my money, and I don’t feel sorry for anything, but I’m also a human being and I want at least some kind of support. I would really like to chat and get some advice from those who have already encountered such a problem.....
Olga Leonidovna, age: 68 / 08/29/2015
Responses:
Dear Olga Leonidovna, I want to share my bitter experience of relations with my adult son. Of course, I don’t pretend that my advice is correct. You are reaping the fruits of your own mistakes in parenting. You cannot go back in time and fix everything. All you can do in this situation is change yourself. Accept the role that is assigned to you. Accept your son with such flaws and accept that the son drawn by your imagination does not exist! After this, a miracle can happen. The world will begin to change for the better. Let it not be by leaps and bounds, but a little at a time. If you wish your son well, if you want to help him, there is no other way. And if you simply stop communicating with him, your role will go to another person. And you will be slowly destroyed by resentment.
Nick, age: 42 / 08/30/2015
Hello! Perhaps your son should separate and live separately. You are such a great person for raising a great-grandson boy, I hope over the years he will become your support and support. Take care of yourself! God bless you!
Irina, age: 27 / 08/30/2015
Hello, I really sympathize with you. I understand that your son is already an adult. Maybe offer him to live separately? If he is so annoyed by communication with you. This would probably be the best option. A great-grandson is your great consolation, small children are so responsive. Ask God for strength to help you, probably no one else has. Sorry for not giving any sensible advice, I just wanted to express my sympathy, because I myself faced such problems.
Anna, age: 49 / 08/30/2015
Calm down, don't worry so much. Your family needs you, so you shouldn't commit suicide. Your son behaves unworthily. You need strength to raise your great-grandson, he loves and appreciates you. They need you at work. I hope that your worries will decrease.
Kolya, age: 31 / 08/30/2015
Dear Olga Leonidovna, look at this situation from a different point of view: from the point of view of your son’s mental health. Don’t be alarmed, there is nothing reprehensible in my phrase. You probably remember that once, maybe a long time ago, your son was not so unbalanced in relation to you, capricious, arrogant and irritable? Do you remember? Where does that come from? I see two options for the development of events. Once he committed the wrong thing (for example, he went to study or work in the wrong place), which entailed a whole series of internal psychological problems that were unpleasant for him. And these problems turn out to be unsolvable for him, except for how to live with and suffer from them. So he suffers, not understanding how to cut this Gordian knot in order to feel like a normal happy person, like he once did before. He resolves his internal conflict at the expense of the most patient (perhaps kind and meek) person. This - you. To the significant people around him, he cannot show his psychological inconsistency. There he is polite and correct. If you find his internal conflict and help him resolve it, you will make him happy and calm and ensure a calmer life for yourself. In general, this is work a psychologist-psychotherapist, if I'm not mistaken. It may not be up to you. The second option is that the biochemistry of the brain is disturbed and, as a result, such irritability, intolerance, for now towards loved ones and patient ones, and then it can spread to strangers in transport, to on the street, on those who cannot fight back. This is a mental disorder that is treated by psychiatrists. There can be many reasons for such disorders in the biochemistry of the brain. Everything can be treated. Do not hesitate, contact doctors, psychologists and psychotherapists. They will definitely help you deal with this problem .Success and health to you.
Lyudmila, age: 65 / 08/30/2015
I was so touched by your story! how much have you had to endure... to survive so many losses(((I don’t know why your son treats you like that... maybe he really needs to live separately? Or you and your great-grandson - separately from them... I wish you health and your great-grandson , and to your daughter, and to your son! may the Lord give him wisdom and love... and to you... peace and joy!! under no circumstances leave your great-grandson!!! hang in there, Dear Woman! The Lord is with you!
Marina, age: 38 / 08/30/2015
in fact, what I saw from my mother and those around her is that strong, active, powerful women overprotect their sons in childhood and adolescence, and this manifests itself in different ways. Someone controls every step, every call, hates all his son’s girlfriends. Someone says, let it be any, but in front of my eyes, while consciously and unconsciously putting pressure on the young family, still showing who is the true boss here. Finally, let your son go on a solo voyage, where he will be the master, and not you. There is no need for them to use your resources, leave them for yourself and your great-grandson, and let the young people live on their own, on their own resources, it’s about time! It’s better to save it for a sanatorium or to go to the sea with a boy! many people, when actually born, remain in the psycho-emotional plane - in the mother’s umbilical cord. So, please, the parents of their son, now as a mature man who is responsible for himself and the family he created. For your earnings, your decisions. If he allows disrespect, then he should leave and be the master. Whatever he can. But without you.
Alina, age: 30 / 08/31/2015
Olga Leonidovna, how hard it is for you. I haven’t encountered exactly this problem due to my age; I’m younger than you. But I observed similar situations in some families. Poor attitude of grown sons towards their mothers. And it happened like this: the mother gives everything, sacrifices everything for the sake of her son, and he behaves ungratefully, is rude, rude, offends and even beats. But the mother endures everything. Is it necessary to bring the situation to this? This is probably a question of ingratitude. And it seems to me that the person must be stopped. We cannot leave the situation as it is. This is harmful for both you and your son. Because it could be worse next. Can't you leave? You have fulfilled your maternal duty, raised him, and you are not obliged to live together. If he doesn’t like living with you so much, let him live separately. He builds his life as he sees fit. And you won't bother him. And, of course, a small child sees everything, and this is not useful for him. Because now he says this, and then he may simply lose respect for you, because they learn bad things faster than good things. Is it possible to talk to your daughter, maybe she can help you somehow? Maybe you could move in with her, or otherwise resolve this issue with her help?
Olya, age: 42 / 08/31/2015
Thanks everyone. My son rented an apartment for 2 years while working in Moscow. But now the company has collapsed and he decided to work from home through. Provides legal services and representation in courts. He does not want to work in Moscow or rent an apartment there. Moreover, he began to live with the girl and persuaded her to quit and work just like him. The girl is golden, but she is still young and looks into his mouth and listens to him unconditionally. But I can’t live with my daughter in Germany. It is in this country that only legal stay is required; neither a sick mother nor any other possibility can obtain permission for me to stay in Germany for more than 90 days a year. But I made a decision for myself - to stop giving money. I have a great-grandson, and his development is very, very expensive. Because of my legs, I can’t take him to clubs and go to Moscow to the circus, zoo, etc. But this doesn’t mean that he doesn’t go anywhere. The baby goes everywhere, but I have to pay the nanny for everything. And it’s worth it that's pretty decent money. But now the issue is being resolved regarding my bariplasty surgery / this is suturing the stomach / and here I also need money and it’s a shame that my son does not provide any moral participation. Of course, it’s all my fault, but you can’t turn back time. According to the horoscope, my son is Ox, Aries, and he has all the negativity inherent in this sign in full. He is infuriated by my condition, that I can barely walk, he imitates me, my fatness greatly irritates him. There is nowhere to go and I will have to drink this cup. When I met such students, I was horrified and could never have thought that I would also have to experience all this myself.
Olga Leonidovna, age: 68 / 08/31/2015
Thank you. Of course, it’s only me who is to blame and it’s clear that I can’t go back. I continue to pretend that I did not notice his insults and humiliation of me - there is simply no other way out. He liked living at my expense. But that’s enough, I won’t support him anymore, he’s already 30 and he has a specialty. He rented an apartment when he worked. Now the company has collapsed and everyone has been laid off, but in Moscow you can find work, although now salaries have been greatly reduced, but anyway, the lawyer will receive 50,000 rubles. But to do this, you need to get up early every day and travel by train for an hour and a half to Moscow and back the same amount. He even persuaded his little girl to work at home on the computer. And he just can’t see that it’s time to grow up and support himself. And he always blames me for not having enough money, but this or that friend of mine had normal parents and gave him an apartment and bought a car, but you Who? And he imitates how I walk. I move with great difficulty, my legs hurt, I have a group 2 disability. And I still need to get my great-grandson back on his feet.
Olga Leonidovna, age: 68 / 08/31/2015
Dear Olga Leonidovna, I sympathize with you, no mother deserves such a boorish attitude. It’s time to let your son go on his own, don’t give him any money... it’s simply amazing how step by step you can allow such rudeness towards yourself. With your love and care you put him on your neck, it seems to me that you need to decisively set the record straight, voice that he is an adult and at this age people already take care of their children and help their parents. It’s a shame to take money at the age of 30 from a woman, let alone from your mother. Do not let yourself be offended under any circumstances. Hugs to you and hope you make a difference.
Anna, age: 34 / 08/31/2015
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Desire to be good
Some mothers themselves teach their children disrespect for them without noticing it. And the reason for it all is the desire to be the best for your son or daughter.
Have you ever observed how, in response to some kind of prohibition or refusal, a child begins to become hysterical and scold his mother, accusing her of being bad? What does mom do? She follows the child’s lead and allows the child to do what she just forbade. Or tries to appease him with something tasty. Of course, a woman wants to remain good for her child, brightening up the insult of deprivation.
But what's the end result? This behavior breeds a real manipulator, who understands that it is not necessary to love; it is enough to wait until the mother can be blamed, and she will happily begin to placate him. Where there is manipulation, there is no place for love. Growing up, such a child begins to increasingly perceive his mother as a woman who lives for him and owes everything to him.
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In order not to subsequently face the cold of an adult son or daughter, you need to properly raise children from the cradle. Learn to set prohibitions so that the child can hear. And if you have already set it, don’t break it. And don’t let anyone go around them: not dad, not grandparents.
How to make your husband obedient?
The obstinacy of a spouse often becomes the reason for protracted quarrels.
Even when a woman makes concessions, such a person remains dissatisfied with everything, increases demands and in other ways aggravates the conflict. In order for the husband to obey and begin to treat his wife with great respect, a simple ritual can be performed.
The plot to get a man to agree should be read during the period when the moon is in its waxing phase. You will need a recent photograph of your spouse. The right time is midnight. You should take the photo in your hands, go to the window from which the month is visible, and whisper the following words of conspiracy over the image:
“I want God’s servant (husband’s name) to submit to his wife (his name). Let him obey my will and listen to my words. He listens to my requests and avoids quarrels. We will live and understand each other perfectly, and make happiness. Let it be so. Amen".
The enchanted photograph is placed under the mattress or bed all night so that it is not visible. A man should definitely spend the night on this bed. In the morning the photo is removed. From this moment on, the relationship between the spouses should change for the better.
Sometimes a woman wants to get approval from her husband; a special ritual is used for this. In order for a husband to agree with his wife, the following words should be said before an important conversation or during an argument:
“My beloved, valued husband, please don’t contradict me, don’t say a word against him. As I said, so it will be. With agreement there will be happiness. Amen".
A conspiracy to make a man submit to his wife’s will should be pronounced quietly. They repeat it until the spouse stops arguing.
Mother is not an authority
Every child learns from adults. If no one in the family respects his mother, then neither will he.
In the eyes of a child, a mother should be an authority. And we shouldn’t allow our grandparents, who like to violate their mother’s prohibitions, to undermine it “while mom isn’t looking.” Another unfavorable situation is when the grandmother literally carries the child in her arms, making it clear with all her attitude and actions that she is better than his mother.
If a child grew up in an atmosphere where his own mother is presented by family members as almost an “enemy” for him, love and respect may not be expected. To prevent this from happening, a woman needs to set boundaries in the family even when her son or daughter is in diapers.
Maternal rituals and ceremonies
I would like to immediately note that the mother’s conspiracy against her son is stronger than any ordinary one. The emotional mood plays a big role in this. Mother's love is incomparable to anything. It fills the ritual with special energy and accelerates its action.
House keys
If the son does not obey, starts drinking or begins to snap and be rude, or raises his voice at his mother, then you need to carry out a simple ritual so that he comes to his senses. Sequencing:
Collect the keys to all the doors in the house
- Prepare two pans.
- Collect the keys to all the doors in the house.
- Place them in a saucepan, add water and put on fire.
- Pour cold water into the second pan.
- When the keys boil, take them out one at a time and put them in cold water with the words:
Then collect the keys in a bunch and hang them in the hallway.
The next day, buy a gift for your son, preferably some clothes. Holding out the new item with your left hand, mentally say:
The ritual can be repeated if necessary. It is better to boil the springs at night, on the waning moon.
Prayer for a safe return
There are circumstances when a son is forced to solve some problems. Prayer is suitable if difficulties may arise:
- troubles with the police;
- disputes with business partners;
- dubious meeting;
- trip to another city, etc.
Read the words before the face of Jesus:
Read the words before the face of Jesus
Repeat the words as many times as mother deems necessary. The next day, light a thanksgiving candle in the church.
Amulet
A red thread amulet will help protect your son from troubles
A mother who wants to protect her son from troubles can tie a red thread amulet on his hand. If this is impossible to do (my son is against it), then secret embroidery will do. For the ritual you will need:
- Red thread;
- new needle;
- candle.
The ceremony is carried out at night on the full moon, or on the waxing moon, on men's day (Monday, Tuesday or Thursday).
Light a candle and divide the thread into three equal parts. Thread one part of the thread into a needle and embroider a cross (like the letter x) on the wrong side or in a secret place of your son’s clothes. Say the words:
With the second part of the thread, embroider another cross, but in a different place. Read the plot:
Embroider the third cross with the words:
Tie the needle, candle stub and remaining thread into a knot and hide it.
Soften father's anger
If a father or stepfather, when communicating with his son, crosses the necessary boundaries, then his “educational” measures can be softened, his anger can be cooled, using the mother’s salt spell:
You can soften your father's anger with the help of your mother's salt spell.
Add the charmed salt to your husband’s food. His attitude towards the child will change for the better.
Obedience plot
The ritual is suitable if your teenage son stops obeying, does poorly at school, doesn’t help around the house, comes home late, and doesn’t respect his parents. You need to talk about the child’s personal belongings, which he must give up voluntarily. Clothes are suitable for this. You can take a T-shirt or pants under the pretext of washing.
An obedience spell is suitable if your teenage son has stopped obeying, is doing poorly at school, doesn’t help around the house, comes home late, doesn’t respect his parents
After the item has been washed, say the following words to it:
Return the clothes to my son. The obedience spell can be repeated after each wash.
Keep unwanted friends away
Every mother is afraid of negative influences on her son. You can ward off unwanted friends with the help of a ritual. To do this, you need to pour water into a bucket and throw a handful of salt into it. Move away from the bucket and, looking at it from a distance, read the plot almost in a whisper:
Pour water into a bucket, throw in a handful of salt, step away and read the spell in a whisper
Wash the corners of the house, baseboards and front door with this water. After finishing cleaning, mentally say:
Pour dirty water into the toilet. The ritual should be performed on the waning moon.
Bring my son home
If the son left home, does not come and does not call, leaving his mother alone, then you can force him to return with the help of a ritual. It is carried out twice a day - at sunrise and sunset. To do this, you need to stand by an open window (in any weather) and, looking at the road along which he usually walks home, imagine how he returns. He needs to be visually seen walking along the road. When this succeeds, read the plot:
Stand by the open window and read the spell while looking at the road
The ritual is suitable if the son is in prison awaiting sentencing. A spell for the love of a son can be used to return a husband by replacing the word “son” with the word “husband”.
To call my mother
You can make your son want to call his mother in a simple way. It is based on the subconscious perception of thoughts. You need to look closely at the phone and whisper:
For a son to call his mother, you need to look closely at the phone and whisper
Repeat the words 9 times, mentally imagining the image of your son.
The mother does not understand the child's views
When a mother is a like-minded person, this is great, but if she does not accept his views, contact is lost sooner or later (most often this happens gradually).
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In order not to lose the child’s love on this basis, mothers better forget phrases like:
- “How can you wear this?”
- “Don’t play this music anymore - I don’t understand how you can listen to this?”
- “You have become the same as your friend Vasya. You don’t think about anything except your motorcycles!”
And so on…
Even if you really don’t share your child’s views and interests, respond to them more gently. Constant criticism of his hobbies does not lead to him starting to do everything right (as his mother believes) - he simply closes himself off from his parent, cutting off all contact with her. They, of course, can communicate, but there can no longer be any talk of any love or spiritual intimacy.
Excitement
Young children tend to cry and throw tantrums. However, if this negatively affects the baby’s health and sleep, then it’s worth considering. Our ancestors used spells or performed rituals. Having put the baby to bed, they read a text above his crib asking the Lord that the child’s whims would go away and he could sleep peacefully without disturbing his parents:
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Let sleep envelop the baby, and let his whims disappear from him. I ask that the child be able to sleep normally and not disturb his parents. Amen.
Indifference
Children do not forgive indifference. A mother who does not devote time to her child, is not at all interested in him and his achievements, very rarely remains loved. So the desire of many mothers (especially single mothers) to earn a lot of money for a good life for their child is not the best thing that can happen.
Putting all of herself into work, a woman forgets to give her child the most important thing - her attention. He feels that he is useless to his mother, which is why he stops loving her. Many children, as they get older, having lived through life, begin to understand why their mother “didn’t love” them and the situation changes. But this doesn't always happen.
This reason for a cold attitude towards the mother can only be prevented - just do not forget about the child and pay attention to him. Do not buy the most expensive toys, but spend time with him and talk about him and his hobbies.
Some mothers make the situation even worse. They begin to reproach the child for ingratitude: “I spent my whole life on you, I gave up everything, and you...”. This is not how you get a child's love.
Annoyed daughter
During adolescence, girls begin to produce hormones. They begin to have a hard time accepting psychological problems. As a result, quarrels with parents and an irresistible desire to isolate themselves and not see anyone arise.
Mothers are very sensitive to such changes in their child’s behavior. And if the situation escalates due to an affair with a suspicious adult guy, then the parents may decide to take a serious step.
In ancient times, mothers preferred the ritual and asked the Lord for their daughter’s obedience, happiness and protection for her from everything bad.
Just as in the temple of God believers bow, so let the servant of God (daughter’s name) submit to me. He honors and obeys, he submits and does not contradict, does not snap, does not make reservations, does not contradict. Let it be as I have spoken. Amen.
It was believed that such ceremonies do not carry any negativity for the child.
Mother makes me feel ashamed
Children are embarrassed by parents leading an antisocial lifestyle. This is a fact, but sons and daughters very rarely admit it. If a child is seriously ashamed of his mother, he will never love her. Moreover, love in this case fades away gradually, parallel to the growing understanding that his mother is a person who is not accepted by society.
The only thing that can be achieved in this situation is the pity of your daughter or son. The situation can only be corrected by giving up bad habits and reviewing your behavior in society. But is everyone ready to do this voluntarily?
Prayer for a child to respect his parents
The law says that even the most naughty children must love their parents. This is also stated in the Bible. Unfortunately, even such a simple commandment is now not followed by everyone. Therefore, one must pray that the hearts of children will soften and drive away any negativity from their young souls. If you read the prayer below several times a day, you will definitely achieve the desired result.
Lord Jesus Christ, awaken Your mercy on my children (names), keep them under Your roof, cover them from all evil lust, drive away from them every enemy and adversary, open their ears and the eyes of their hearts, grant tenderness and humility to their hearts. Lord, we are all Your creation, have pity on my children (names) and turn them to repentance. Save, O Lord, and have mercy on my children (names) and enlighten their minds with the light of reason of Your Gospel and guide them on the path of Your commandments and teach them, O Savior, to do Your will, for You are our God.
So how do you raise a loving child?
Now let's draw a small conclusion: how to raise a child in whom love for his mother will not fade over the years?
A woman’s task is to learn to respect her baby from the cradle, to treat him as a separate person: an adult and independently. The attitude “you will still be a child for me at 40” is not entirely correct. Yes, the years go by, but children continue to be children for mothers. But there is no need to treat them like little ones.
Accept children as they are, give them freedom of choice and agree with the choice. Guide, but do not manipulate and do not demand to do only what you think is right.
And most importantly, do not forget about your authority in the eyes of the child. For a loving son or daughter, a mother is the closest person to whom you can turn for help, advice and love in a difficult situation. Bring this to him in the first years of his life and try not to lose this status in his eyes.
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Prayer
Prayer is an effective helper. A mother can pray to Panteleimon the Healer for the welfare and health of her children. It is better if you have an icon of this saint. Light a church candle in front of her and say the words of the prayer three times:
You will need an icon of Pitelemon the Healer
“Servant of the Lord, I hope for your help, I hope for your intercession. Grant me your mercy, let my requests reach you, hear my prayers, send a petition to the Lord for me. Saint Panteleimon, grant healing to the soul and body of my child. Bring into life his beneficence, mercy, health, happiness. Let there be no torment and torment, let the heart and soul be cleansed of filth. With the grace of the Lord, may peace reign in my family. May my child not know bitterness, illness, torment, or any illness. Save his soul. Illuminate our lives with your miraculous help. Complain to our Creator about the health of my child, about the clarity of mind. Bring to him the holiness of honoring a parent. Holy Pleasant, I pray to you for help. Yes, hear me. Amen".
This ritual can be performed throughout the week in a row. Prayerful words are a very powerful protection for your children; maternal love, combined with higher powers, will protect them from all evil.
Problems with my son
Adolescence is the most difficult period in relation to parents and children.
Often, parents of boys during puberty face many problems. This includes the negative influence of dubious friends and companies, insolence, and wrong goals. A magical ritual can help improve your relationship with your son. It's simple. To carry it out, you will need your son’s thing, on which you need to read the following words:
“Let my half-blooded son become obedient, let him fulfill only my will, only obey me, his mother. There will be no outside influence on him, let strangers not become authorities, he will not listen to or respect anyone but me. Lord, grant me your help. Let my child devote himself fully to learning, let there be no feelings of hatred, anger, resentment, revenge and envy in his soul. May negative thoughts, wishes, feelings and messages, aspirations and goals go away irrevocably. May he honor us, his parents, may there be universal harmony, happiness and peace in our home. Let my son’s conscience, which disappeared for a moment, return again. He will honor us, respect us, obey us, and not argue or contradict us. Let it be so".
Give the spoken item to your son. After washing, you will need to say the words of prayer again.
Daughter's Disobedience
Become your daughter's friend
During puberty, parents of girls often face many problems. Children become impudent, disobedient, withdrawn, begin to be rude, and relationships with parents are disrupted. To prevent the consequences of this state of affairs, you should start activities on time - listen to your child more, pay attention to your growing daughter, do not limit her desire for self-expression (within reasonable limits, of course), try to become a friend. If psychological methods do not bring the desired result, you can use variants of magical rituals.
Read after your daughter leaving to visit her friends or friends:
“Let your paths, my daughter, lead only to my house, your mother, and no one else. Only you will listen to me and read me, eat my bread and salt. I will treat you, you will be grateful to me. Don’t be fooled by the promises of strangers, bow to your mother and submit. In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Amen!".
You can also read similar words over a sleeping child.
