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Every person sooner or later loses a loved one. Unfortunately, this happens in every family. After experiencing grief, many begin to think about how to properly celebrate the funeral, on what days and what to do on the birthday of the deceased. We will try to understand this issue below.
Is it possible to go to the cemetery on the birthday of the deceased or not?
According to superstitions, you cannot visit the churchyard on your birthday. It is believed that in this way the soul of the deceased can be disturbed, and it will be in constant confusion and will not find peace.
You can go to the cemetery on the birthday of the deceased or not:
- Therefore, on the name day of the deceased, our ancestors tried not to come to the cemetery, so as not to disturb the soul of a loved one. The same applied to funerals at home on name day. At home, on this day they did not remember the deceased, and tried not to think about him.
- It was believed that one could disturb the soul, depriving it of peace. Modern priests refute these speculations, believing that a person can act as he needs and as his soul dictates. Many clergy note that on the name days of deceased relatives, loved ones may suffer and not find a place for themselves.
- If this happens, it is imperative to come to the grave and talk with the deceased. The ritual has more of a psychological meaning than a rational one. Thus, after visiting the graveyard, it becomes easier for the relative of the deceased. He calms down because he talked with his loved one.
Poems about the memory and grief of a deceased close friend
For us, he is alive and somewhere nearby, In memories, in the heart and in dreams The soul is always alive, it knows everything And sees how we are suffering now! There has become more than one angel in heaven, And this is obvious, I know for sure! Today, tomorrow and all our lives We remember, love and mourn!
I asked God to return everything, It was as if He didn’t want to hear me, I’ve gone through a short life, We’re not allowed to see you anymore.
When we met secretly, When we played checkers, Then everything was cool, You were with us, Arkashka!
Now you’re not here, I’m filled with sadness, I remember you all the time, and I miss you very much.
Perhaps you came, Well, for God’s sake, I ask you: “You come to me more often, I’m always looking forward to seeing you!”
I feel bad without him. Unbearable I just exist, I don’t live Oh, Lord, give me some strength! I don't ask for more anymore
Separation is cutting more and more, suffocating There is no air. Only bitter blue smoke All sounds strain the ear and soul, And the world has become somehow gray and empty
Closing my eyes, I’ll imagine that he’s nearby, Will make my heart tremble in my chest, His face with an empty and sad look And quietly I whisper: “Don’t go. "
You left, the whole world went dark. the heart beats almost audibly. I don't believe you're gone. Why did it all turn out this way? You left, taking everything with you. Tears froze in my eyes. But in my heart there is only silent pain. We will forever remember YOU.
Hearts burn and candles cry for our dear ones. And early in the morning, in the afternoon and in the evening We remember them, we yearn and grieve For their souls we ask for eternal peace Let us preserve love and memory And we pray on our knees And again we yearn and grieve.
All the poems are for you, my angel, Pain pierces every word in them, And the soul will not find its peace Until we are together again.
You will live in eternal memory, And no matter what anyone says, There, behind the cemetery fence, The world keeps the memory of you. People like you will not be forgotten so easily, Your eyes will remain sparkling with tears. And for a very long time people will carry you bouquets of scarlet roses. Are you sleeping. But everything is so unusual. Everything reminds me of you. And only the rain knocks so quietly, barely audible. As if he were saying hello.
There was a man and suddenly he was gone. His heart stopped beating. Mom is crying, my beloved is crying, What have you done, you have ruined him. But everything could have been different. And you won’t help your grief by crying. You yourself don’t know how to continue to live; you just forget to love while you’re alive.
You can’t hear your dear one’s voice, You can’t see your kind, sweet eyes. Why was fate cruel? How early you left us! Great sorrow cannot be measured, Tears cannot help my grief, You are not with us, but you will not die forever in our hearts. No one could save you, Died too early. But the bright image of your dear We will always remember.
When your closest, dearest, loved one leaves. The whole world will appear as a bitter drama, where everything turns black, even the snow. And never! Nothing in the world can replace the warmth of their hands. While you are alive, do not skimp, give your love to your family.
You left for holy eternity, And our pain cannot be helped, And the name of pain is infinity... You left us for another world - there, From where there is no return, Leaving the memory of yourself, love, Sadness and pain of loss. You reign in heaven, And we carry roses to the grave. May the earth rest in peace to you, and eternal peace to your soul.
Words cannot express the pain of loss, No one knows when trouble will come. Fate alone is to blame for this, That You left us forever, forever. May it be easy for You there, And the memory of You will remain here with us. Sleep peacefully, the earth rests in swan's feathers, and the Kingdom of Heaven rests on your soul.
You left for holy eternity, and our pain cannot be helped, and the name of pain is infinity... You left us for another world - where there is no return, leaving behind the memory of yourself, love, sadness and the pain of loss. You reign in heaven, and we carry roses to the grave. May the earth rest in peace to you and eternal peace to your soul.
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