Parting is pain and sadness. To calm your soul and forget your loved one, prayer will help. An ordinary person does not know which shrine to ask for help. Turning to God always normalizes the emotional background, but it is important to know what kind of prayers to read in a given case.
Once, when I separated from my husband, it was very difficult for me. I didn't know how to forget my loved one. Then I went to church, the priest told me: “Loss is a whip that strikes only once. The rest of the time a person flogs himself.”
Breaking up a relationship - what to do
When breaking up, a person is overcome by obsessive thoughts. He either remembers romantic moments, or begins to blame himself or his ex-partner for the separation. Often a person even begins to blame God for his separation, forgetting that each of the people has free will and is not our property.
It is important to get rid of all negative thoughts and approach the current situation with humility:
- You can pray for the strength to accept the current state of affairs with dignity.
- You can ask for the person you broke up with, but also for you to get back together.
But in the latter case, do not forget that all events in our lives occur according to the will of God. And if you ask for reunion, then do not forget to add: if it be Your will .
After all, we don’t know what events are in store for us in life, maybe soon you will meet another person with whom you will be happier. Let the Higher powers decide whether you need to be together again with the one with whom you broke up, or whether loneliness is saving your soul, or maybe another fateful meeting awaits you.
Prayers after a breakup
The patrons of the Orthodox family and marriage are the blessed saints Peter and Fevronia.
In order for the pain of parting to go away, in order to let go of a person and forgive him, there are short blessing prayers. They will help you get rid of obsessive thoughts, overcome despondency, self-pity and reluctance to live.
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By praying for someone we broke up with, you bring spiritual benefit to both that person and yourself.
This is what Archpriest Maxim Khizhiy says when asked about who and how to pray in order to forget and let a person go:
“In such cases, confession or at least a personal conversation with a priest is necessary. We need to put everything in its place: why it wasn’t meant to be, why we broke up, where we sinned. In a word, we need to “work on mistakes.” Therefore, it is appropriate to read the 50th Psalm, the Penitential Canon to the Savior.”
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Psalm 50, repentance
Have mercy on me, O God, according to Your great mercy, and according to the multitude of Your mercies, cleanse my iniquity. Above all, wash me from my iniquity, and cleanse me from my sin; for I know my iniquity, and I will take away my sin before me. To You alone have I sinned and done evil before You; for you may be justified in all of Your words, and you will always triumph over Your judgment. Behold, I was conceived in iniquity, and my mother gave birth to me in sins. Behold, you have loved the truth; You have revealed to me the unknown and secret wisdom of Yours. Sprinkle me with hyssop, and I will be cleansed; Wash me, and I will be whiter than snow. My hearing brings joy and joy; humble bones will rejoice. Turn Your face away from my sins and cleanse all my iniquities. Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a right spirit in my womb. Do not cast me away from Your presence and do not take Your Holy Spirit away from me. Reward me with the joy of Your salvation and strengthen me with the Lord’s Spirit. I will teach the wicked Your way, and the wicked will turn to You. Deliver me from bloodshed, O God; the God of my salvation, my tongue will rejoice in Your righteousness. Lord, open my mouth, and my mouth will declare Your praise. As if you had desired sacrifices, you would have given them: you do not favor burnt offerings. The sacrifice to God is a broken spirit; God will not despise a broken and humble heart. Bless Zion, O Lord, with Your favor, and may the walls of Jerusalem be built. Then favor the sacrifice of righteousness, the offering and the burnt offering; Then they will place the bullock on Your altar.
Prayer to forget your ex-husband
It’s hard for people who considered themselves the bride and groom to part. But it’s even more difficult when married couples separate. There is no such prayer to forget your ex-husband. This person left a significant mark on your life, and he will forever remain in your memory.
But you can pray that your pain from the loss will go away and that you will regain peace of mind.
Prayer to forget your ex-wife
Just as a wife cannot forget her ex-husband, so a husband cannot erase the wife who left him from his memory. Pray a prayer of blessing for her and for yourself, and your pain will go away in time.
To reduce mental pain, it is necessary to read the comforting Kontakion with Ikos to the Most Holy Theotokos:
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Kontakion, voice 2:
In need, the soul-saving Manager, and in danger, the unashamed Representative, You, the only Mother of God and immaculate, listen to my prayer - to me, who mournfully cry out to You: “Dispel the sadness of my soul.”
Ikosy:
1. What will be given to me, and what will be added when I have to ask with a heartfelt cry for forgiveness of sins? For I have made my soul vain with sins, and I have desecrated my flesh with sins, multiplying evil deeds, I am hard-hearted, like no one on earth, why with groaning I cry out: “Most Pure Mother of God, do not despise me, but quickly save me, and freeing me from many sins, dispel sadness my soul."
2. You, the mountain of God, steeped5 in Your radiant purity, as David preaches (Ps. LXVII, 16), and Mother of my Lord, have mercy, have mercy, heal me, and deliver me from all need; for I, the accursed one, knowing Your warm intercession, I beg You, may I find propitiation through You. Listen, O Pure One, to my prayer, and having filled me with Your grace, disperse the sadness of my soul.
3. Lift up me, humbled, You, who raised up human nature, which had fallen in ancient times through the deception of the tree, for I have lost the work of heaven, and have been stripped of the wealth of virtues, having become like the prodigal son in the poverty of my soul. Therefore, You grant me grace, enlightenment, mercy, joy; look at the wickedness of Your servant, and always delivering me from temptations, disperse the sadness of my soul.
4. Rise up the fallen me, You who truly revived Eve, who fell under the curse of food. For the abyss of sin embraces me, and the sea of insane passions drowns me, who surpassed the ancient people of Sodom in lawlessness. For I know You alone as a strong intercession before God. Accept, O Pure One, my prayer, and always disperse the sadness of my soul.
5. Enlighten me, darkened, You, who drove away the ancient darkness of error by Your Divine birth; for I extinguished the radiance of the light, without seeking for myself the tunic of good deeds, completely covered in shame, ungrateful, gloomy and ugly, I, who turned out to be so from my insane impulse and, truly, from my worthless shamelessness. See my sorrow, O Lady, and cleansing my carnal passions, disperse the sadness of my soul.
6. Extend a helping hand to me, You who saved the nations to the end from the storm of the insidious enemy; for I am drowning in the unrest of passions, and am indignant at the impulse of sinful temptations. But give me the strength to escape the nasty snares of the enemy, always delivering me from his snares through Your prayers. See my shame, O Lady, and, having quickly calmed the storm of temptation, disperse the sadness of my soul.
7. Give me joy, oppressed by sorrow, You, who give Divine joy to the world; for my enemies oppress me; deliver me from the tongue of flattery (Ps. CXIX, 2), and snatch me from the evil slander. Do not let me die among the whirlwind of the wicked; With Your prayers, deliver me from the den of lies and slander; Accept the prayer of Your servant, disperse the sorrow of my soul.
8. Guide my mind and disposition, You who gave birth to the Word - Christ for the deification of people; guide my steps (Ps. CXVIII, 133), and guide my life henceforth. Quickly deliver me from insults, from threats and anger, so that I may boast in You, my Representative: tame the indignation of my heart, and having filled me with Your joy, disperse the sadness of my soul.
9. Kill my carnal passions, You, who killed the serpent, who is constantly at war with us; Hear me at the hour of my prayer, and in the day of need help me, always delivering me from the wicked and unrighteous man (Ps. CXVIII, 133); always be a Wall for me, protecting me in times of temptation: for I have fled under Your protection, and, daring (in trust) in Your power, I cry out: “Dispel the sorrow of my soul.”
10. Shower me the dew of health, You, filling everything with unbearable light and the best heavenly glory; for my strength has weakened, and the wounds (Ps. XXXVII, 6) of my soul have become rotten; do not despise the sighs of me, weak and always sorrowful; come hastening from on high; ease my great sorrow; pour out the oil of healing on me, and by granting me life from Yourself, disperse the sadness of my soul.
11. Make me healthy when I am sick, now pouring out currents of healing on me with Your hand; raise me up from the bed of sorrow and, strengthening my feet and knees (Acts III, 7), grant me strength in soul forever. For You are the only healer of mental and physical illnesses; accept the prayer of Your servant, who earnestly cries out with tears: “Dispel the sorrow of my soul.”
Prayer to release the deceased
It’s hard when separation occurs due to the fault of one of the spouses, but it’s even harder when loving people are separated by death, and there is no hope of reuniting in this world.
The death of a loved one is a great grief, but we must not forget that we are all in this world only temporarily. You need to pray that the Lord will forgive the newly deceased all his sins and take the person into His Kingdom, where you will meet him after you have completed your own earthly journey.
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Prayer for the deceased up to 40 days
Remember, O Lord our God, in the faith and hope of the life of Thy eternal newly departed servant (or Thy servant), named, and as good and a lover of mankind, forgiving sins and consuming iniquities, weaken, forgive and forgive all his voluntary and involuntary sins, exposing him to Thy holy second coming into the communion of Thy eternal blessings, for the sake of the One who has faith in Thee, the true God and Lover of mankind. For You are the resurrection and the life and the rest of Your servant, named Christ our God. And we send glory to You, with Your beginningless Father and with the Most Holy Spirit, now and ever and unto ages of ages, Amen.
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Prayer for the deceased after 40 days
Remember, O Lord our God, in the faith and hope of the eternal life of Your departed servant, our brother (name), and as Good and Lover of mankind, forgiving sins and consuming untruths, weaken, forsake and forgive all his voluntary and involuntary sins, deliver him eternal torment and fire of Gehenna, and grant him the communion and enjoyment of Your eternal good things, prepared for those who love You: even if you sin, do not depart from You, and undoubtedly in the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, Your glorified God in the Trinity, Faith, and Unity in the Trinity and the Trinity in Unity, Orthodox even until his last breath of confession.
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Prayer for the deceased one year after death. Path voice 8
Build with the depth of wisdom all things humanely and bestow upon all that are useful, O One Creator, rest, O Lord, the soul of Thy servant (or: the soul of Thy servant; for many: the souls of Thy servant), for place their trust in Thee (or for many: place their trust), the Creator and the Creator and our God. Glory, even now: To you and the Wall and the Refuge of the Imams, and the Prayer Book favorable to God, Whom You gave birth to, O Blessed Mother of God, salvation of the faithful
Prayer to forget betrayal
God commanded us to forgive our offenders. And we must also forgive those who betrayed us for the sake of saving our own souls. The following prayer will help you feel the joy of life again and forget grievances:
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Prayer before the icon of the Mother of God “Helper of Sinners” in grief over the infidelity of a spouse
O Most Blessed Lady, protector of the Christian race, refuge and salvation of those who flow to You! We know, truly we know, how much we have sinned and been angry, O Most Gracious Lady, the Son of God was born in the flesh of You. But to the imams there were many images of those who angered His mercy: tax collectors, harlots and other sinners, to whom forgiveness of their sins would be given, for the sake of repentance and confession. Thou art, therefore, imagining the images of those who have pardoned my sinful souls, and at the great mercy of God, which I have received, looking, I dare, even a sinner, to resort with repentance to Your blessing diyu. O All-Merciful Lady! Give me a helping hand and ask Your Son and God, through Your Mother and Your most holy prayers, for forgiveness of my grave sin. I believe and confess that He Whom You gave birth to, Your Son is truly Christ, the Son of the Living God, Judge of the living and the dead, rewarding everyone according to His deeds. I again believe and confess that You are the true Mother of God, the source of mercy, the consolation of those who mourn, the recovery of the lost, a strong and unceasing intercessor to God, who loves family x Christian and supporter of repentance. Truly, we have no other help and protection than You, Most Gracious Lady, and no one, trusting in You, was ashamed when, and by You begging God, no one was left behind. For this sake, I pray to Your innumerable goodness: open the doors of Your mercy to me who have gone astray and fallen into the depths of the depths, do not disdain the filthy, do not despise the sinner. my treasure, do not forsake me, the accursed one, as an evil enemy seeks to kidnap me into destruction, but beg for me Your merciful Son and God, born of You, may He forgive my great sins and deliver me from my destruction, as I, with all who have received forgiveness, will sing and glorify the immeasurable mercy God's kindness and Your unashamed intercession for me in this life and forever.
A conspiracy to fall out of love
True believing Orthodox Christians do not use conspiracies. After all, using magic, otherworldly forces that have nothing to do with the Lord are attracted to help. If you cannot cope with your feelings, pray to God, He will not leave you and will give you peace of mind.
A conspiracy not to think about a person
You should not resort to a conspiracy even if you cannot get rid of thoughts about the person who abandoned you or does not respond to your feelings. Only sincere prayer can work miracles and benefit our soul. Ask the Lord for yourself and for the one you want to forget. Soon you will definitely find peace and get rid of all grievances and destructive obsessive thoughts.
Conspiracies for melancholy
A spell for melancholy is a ritual that can restore a person’s energy after breaking up with a partner. Its effectiveness largely depends on the correct reading of the spell. This type of magic can help you forget all negative events and start a new life.
Weekly
A weekly magic spell can be read both for yourself and for a loved one. The words of the conspiracy help to alleviate the condition after the funeral and restore vitality. The spell is read daily for 7 days in a row. It is important not to skip days, otherwise the ritual will not work.
Early in the morning you need to stand in front of the window and say:
In the bottomless blue ocean, on the distant sharp Buyan, in a blooming, colorful meadow, under a spreading tree, the servant of God (Name) sits - sad, sad. Seven elders, uninvited guests, are walking, saying: Stop sitting and worrying, let your misfortune find its home in a distant land, where there is no path, leave your head and your heart. Let your misfortune - your sadness never rest forever, wander around the world - from sea to ocean, from east to west, so that no one accepts that sadness, does not give shelter. I conjure the servant of God (Name) for joy and happiness forever and ever. No one can break my word! Amen!
The spell is repeated 3 times. In a week the person will feel much happier and freer.
With a fingernail
The spell with the nail is carried out on the waning moon. The ritual is performed exactly at midnight. The magician needs to find a small hole in the wooden floor and throw a piece of his nail into it. When performing a similar action, read the text:
Just as a cut nail will not grow back to the finger, so sadness will not take over the heart. Soul, key, lock - forever and ever! Amen!
The spell is repeated 3 times in a row, and then they go to bed.
Bag of herbs
Before the ceremony, you will need to sew a small bag. Only natural fabrics are used for sewing. The bag is filled with 5 types of different herbs and tied with red thread. After this, a conspiracy is read over the bag:
With every stitch, my sadness and melancholy goes away and doesn’t come to me anymore. Amen!
The spell is repeated three times. After the ritual, the bag is placed in a bag and always carried with you. As soon as the sadness subsides a little, they move him to a secluded place.
With candles
You can let your loved one go from your heart with the help of candles. To perform the ceremony you will need 2 red candles. One candle symbolizes the former partner, the second - the fortuneteller. On one of them you need to write your name, on the other - the name of your loved one. At night, on the waning moon, candles are lit and the Lord’s Prayer is recited. After this, the candle fire is extinguished and the ritual is repeated the next day.
The only condition is that the candles are installed away from each other. The ritual is repeated daily until the candles burn out completely. The cinders from each candle are buried in different places.
A week after completing the ritual, the person will feel relief and will begin to gradually get rid of bad thoughts.
With photo
To carry out the ritual, you will need a photo of the person you want to forget. The photograph is placed on the table next to a lit candle. On the other side of the candle you should put a piece of black bread and read the plot:
The way your photo stands, doesn’t move, doesn’t turn over. Just as bread lies motionless and does not move, so my passions pass, Love passes forever. I’ll let you go, I won’t suffer anymore. I forgot you, like the first feeling, the first failure is forgotten. So let me also forget about you forever. Amen!
After the spell is recited, the bread is given to the dog to eat. After 10 days, a person will stop thinking negatively and get rid of feelings of anxiety.
