Good day, magician Azal is with you. I will tell you about whether the dead see us at the cemetery when we arrive, whether the dead at the cemetery hear us. All bereaved people are concerned about these issues. And they are really important, because not every psyche can withstand loss without trauma.
As a rule, people go through certain stages of grief. At some stage you want to talk to the dead. But will the information reach the addressee? Are all these appeals in vain? I'll tell you more about this later.
How to properly remember deceased relatives?
All people are mortal. Sometimes their life ends tragically, sometimes by an absurd accident, and sometimes the time just comes. Don't be upset about this. After all, no one is immune from this.
The least that can be done in such a situation is to remember correctly and escort the deceased to another world. All people have different understandings of how to do this correctly. Ignorance on this issue is sometimes astonishing.
You should always look to the church or Scripture for answers.
Many people understand the phrase “remember the deceased” as the distribution of sweets and cookies to people. This is correct, but there are still many customs and rules in this matter.
First of all, it is worth mentioning how to properly bury a person. After all, even in this, many people make mistakes. Mistakes that should not be made:
- Under no circumstances should you remember the deceased with alcoholic beverages. Faith forbids this; many scriptures speak about this. Thus, the deceased person will be doomed to inevitable torment. The best way out of the situation is considered to be the distribution of food and clothing to the homeless.
- You shouldn't order a funeral band. Sometimes you walk and hear heartbreaking music. It makes her feel bad and uneasy. It can be used to determine that someone is being buried nearby. Wise people say that the wicked come to this music. They rejoice and dance. And the deceased cannot say goodbye to this world calmly.
- People have died and are dying. And it will always be like this. Nowadays, the grave and monument are hung with wreaths. But if you go back in time, you can understand that in those distant times all this did not exist. People always came to the grave with fresh flowers. But the godless times of Soviet power made their own adjustments to this tradition. There is no such custom abroad. If you remember the film “Visiting Eternity,” you can be horrified. The hero talked about his journey through that world. There all the people were hanged with wreaths. They became gallows for them. So before you buy a wreath (and they are not cheap), think about the deceased. Does he need it and do you want to send your deceased relative to eternal torment?
- You should not remember a deceased person with sweet food. Almost everyone does this with candies and cookies. But you shouldn't do that. Such delicacies are foods that are considered to be the weaknesses of gluttons. And with this you only please them, and do not remember the deceased
So what is the right way to do this? What should you do, what should you not do? The answers to these questions should always be sought in the Bible or asked from old people. Any church will help you understand this matter, provide you with the necessary literature and simply give advice.
It is believed that the soul of a person wanders around our earth for another 40 days after death. Most often she is near her body. You should be attentive and listen to all extraneous noises and sensations. After all, a person can contact loved ones.
His soul is looking for peace and tranquility. She is trying to reach out to the people around him.
On the fortieth day the soul flies away. And before deciding on her place in heaven, she will have to go through several circles of hell. To help the deceased in this difficult moment, you should read the Psalms.
Love for the dead should be shown through funeral services. They are held in any church after morning prayer. You should prepare in advance: buy groceries. Then you will give them to those in need.
Don't forget about the ban on alcohol and treats. Also, do not lose sight of the fact that for such a ceremony they write a note according to the sample, which indicates the name of the deceased. You should go to funeral services on “parental” Saturdays. These days, the power of prayers increases several times.
There is a special day to remember the dead. It is called funeral. It falls on the ninth day after Easter. This day is called Radonitsa.
Many people go to the grave on Sunday, that is, a week after the holiday. But it's not right. The souls of the dead come to their graves only after a set time - 9 days.
If for some reason you cannot visit the gravestone of a loved one, then souls come to your home or work. They can also wait for you in church churches.
It happens that a person leaves this life of his own free will. The church does not pray for suicides. They consider this a great sin. But relatives can read the prayer themselves and ask the Lord for forgiveness for the actions of the deceased.
You can remember a person on the date of his birth and the date of death. Don't forget to order magpie in church. It is better to arrange all funerals a day or two before the expected date.
Tactile sensations
People may feel an otherworldly presence. Children who have lost their parents often feel like someone is patting them on the head, hugging them, or tucking them in at night. In this way, the deceased give a sign that they really miss their loved ones. There is no need to be afraid of such tactile sensations. The deceased show care and do not want to harm in any way.
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Do deceased relatives see and hear us?
The church answers this question in the affirmative. It’s worth understanding this matter a little and clarifying the main aspects.
According to church beliefs, the human soul is immortal. And death is just an intermediate state in which a person is reborn, gains a new body and a new life.
People who have been in a state of clinical death claim that they remember everything and saw their body from the outside. From this we can conclude that death is just a dream. But sleep forgets the body, not the soul. The soul wanders, seeks refuge, visits loved ones.
According to beliefs, a sinful soul gains a chance to atone for its evil deeds. She is reborn and lives life again. Sinless souls go to heaven, to a place where there is no disease, sorrow, or grief. There they follow the lives of their relatives, friends and acquaintances.
They not only hear our speeches, but also look into our souls, read our thoughts and learn about our deepest secrets and desires. Therefore, you should not waste your life just like that, you should not plan bad deeds and commit bad deeds. The souls of our loved ones will suffer.
Testimony of Natalia Bekhtereva
There is an opportunity to look at this problem from the other side. First, we can recall the law of conservation of energy. In addition, we can refer to the fact that the energy principle underlies any type of substance. It is also present in man. Of course, after the body dies, it does not disappear anywhere. This beginning remains in the energy information field of our planet. However, there are exceptions.
In particular, Natalya Bekhtereva testified that her husband the human brain had become a mystery to her. The fact is that the ghost of the husband began to appear to the woman even during the day. He gave her advice, shared his thoughts, told her where she could find something. Note that Bekhtereva is a world-famous scientist. However, she did not doubt the reality of what was happening. Natalya says she doesn't know whether the vision was a product of her own mind, which was under stress, or something else. But the woman claims that she knows for sure that she did not imagine her husband, she actually saw him.
Do deceased relatives see us in the cemetery?
On memorial days, all relatives and close people of the deceased gather near his grave. There they talk about him, remember all the joyful and happy moments with his participation.
As the saying goes: “they either say good things about a dead person or nothing.” These days, souls also come to the cemetery to see everyone. On other days, the soul that has found peace does not visit the earth. If you decide to visit a deceased person on other days, then he is watching you from heaven.
The church teaches us all this. Skeptics are suspicious of these points. They believe that the person died and his consciousness was forgotten in eternal sleep. It cannot come to life in another reality and watch everyone from the side. This is Vera's business. If it is easier for you to survive the death of a person, hoping that he sees and hears you, then just believe in it.
Angels of Death in Judaism
In Judaism, the angels of death occupy a special place, with interpretations of their role often varying depending on the sources. So, first of all, they act as messengers of God and destroyers who must realize his plan to punish peoples mired in cruelty and sin. In addition to the common name of these angels - malach ha-mavet, they also had their own names. During the execution of Egyptian plagues, the angel of death who took all the firstborn was Shahat. In addition, other names are mentioned in the Old Testament legends - Ddavar and Mashekhit. Some see in these names a similarity with the profession of shoikhet, which also has a certain meaning.
In addition, the Talmud directly mentions that many other prominent Old Testament figures were angels of death. In particular, at some point this role was played by the Archangel Michael, who carried the dying Adam to his grave. Archangel Gabriel is the angel of death for the righteous and kings, and Samael is for sinners. The name of the demon Abaddon is also mentioned here, as well as Azrael - it is believed that this angel of death came to Islam directly from the Jewish tradition.
Shahat angel of death
The appearance of angels in the form of malach ha-mavet is described as follows: creatures covered with many eyes. In other variations and interpretations, these messengers of heaven are depicted as an old man with a sword, a tramp, or a reaper. It was in Judaism that the traditional image of death with an agricultural scythe first arose. One of the beliefs is that an angel cuts the throat of every dying person with a knife. At the same time, Gabriel’s knife for the righteous is perfectly sharp, while Samael’s knife for sinners is full of jagged edges. Thus, a parallel is drawn with kosher and non-kosher shechita - the process of killing animals so that they are suitable for food.
However, at the same time as the divine essence, the Talmud often identifies the angels of death with evil and Satan. This is not surprising, since Samael, despite the fact that for some time he was a devoted servant of God, later became an antagonist of God.
How to summon the spirit of a deceased relative?
Magic has always made it possible to penetrate into another world, summon the spirit of any deceased person and talk to him. But before the ritual you should think about the consequences. Spirits don't always want to be disturbed.
It is better not to conduct such a dangerous ceremony yourself. You should trust a trusted medium in this matter. Only he can summon the necessary spirit. It is better to conduct spiritualistic seances in a relaxed state, with good thoughts.
Alternatively, you can use a Ouija board. Some tips to help summon the spirit of a deceased relative:
- Relax, throw away all your problems and worries, free your mind
- Don't be afraid. If the session is carried out incorrectly, an evil spirit will come. He will feed on your fears
- Before the session, fumigate the entire room with incense.
- It is advisable not to eat or drink anything on the day of the ritual, do not drink alcohol for 3 days
- call the spirit at night - after 12 and before 14 o'clock
- place wax candles in the room
- thread a black thread through a needle and make something like a pendulum
- on a piece of paper write down all the questions that you would like to ask the deceased
- call the name of the deceased and call to come
- if the needle begins to move, it means the spirit of the deceased is nearby. You can leave the window open, this will make it easier for the soul to get into the room
- If everything worked out for you and you received the answers, then do not forget to thank the spirit for coming and tell him that you are letting him go back
How to communicate and talk with a deceased relative?
Many people are interested in how to talk to dead people. It's not difficult to do. There are several ways to do this:
- Seek help from a medium. A good specialist in this field will provide you with such an opportunity. He will not only do this, but will also tell you what state the soul of the deceased is in, what kind of aura he has, what he is missing. But don't get too carried away with seances
- You can communicate with the dead in your dreams. Sleep is considered a little death. In this state, all human organs stop working. A person simply plunges into oblivion and his consciousness turns off. It is in this state that it is easier to talk to the deceased
- You can also communicate through paper. This method is similar to communicating through a Ouija board. Only in this case will you need paper with written letters and a saucer
Is it possible to see during life the world where the souls of the dead reside?
Let’s say right away that even mediums are not always able to establish contact with out-of-body entities. That is why some of them are branded as charlatans. At the same time, in a state similar to hypnosis, it is possible for an ordinary person to come into contact with the world of the dead. At least the famous American hypnotherapist Michael Newton writes about this in his books. According to him, sessions of regressive hypnosis allow his patients to return to the world of souls from where they came at birth. Whether this is true or not is for the readers of his opuses, which literally in a short period of time became world bestsellers, to judge.
Can deceased relatives help living ones?
This question cannot be answered unambiguously. Even if this happens, it is in rare cases. The dead only help those who truly need it. They can do this through signs. But people don't always understand them correctly.
There is an opinion that after death the soul is not able to feel anything, it does not know what love or hatred is. Therefore, in this case, there can be no talk of any help.
You shouldn’t “burden” the spirits too much with your problems and requests. After all, man freed himself from the physical body and left the world. He lived a life full of not only joys, but also grief, tears, and sorrows. He drank his cup of sorrows to the dregs. Why would he even experience such emotions in heaven?
How long does the soul stay with its family?
According to Christian canons, the soul leaves the body immediately after death. She sees everything that happens around her, but at the same time she herself is invisible to living people. The first 3 days are for the soul - saying goodbye to loved ones. It is at this time that relatives are faced with frightening signs and unexplained phenomena.
On the 9th day the soul leaves this world. In order for her to do this painlessly, loved ones need to pray and remember the departed person. At this time, you cannot establish contact with the soul for communication. Otherwise, it may “linger” on the ground.
After 9 and up to 40 days, ordeals take place. During this period, evil entities expose the soul of the deceased in temptations and sins. On the 40th day, the soul says goodbye to loved ones forever and leaves this world, heading to God's Judgment.
In some cases, the soul gets stuck between worlds. She starts coming home often. People living in such a place hear extraneous footsteps and are faced with the sudden turning on of water taps. A stuck soul, as a rule, does not understand that its physical shell no longer exists. For her, everything remains the same. The time spent by a stuck soul on earth can be calculated in years and centuries. Only close people can help the deceased with their prayers and kind words.
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How to ask for help from deceased relatives?
In difficult life situations, people sometimes turn to deceased parents or relatives for help. There are many prayers and conspiracies for carrying out such actions. Some suggest going to the cemetery, others simply use household items when reading the plot. You should think about such rituals. They are true and they will not bring you even more trouble.
It is better to ask for help through prayer, but from God. This way you will find peace and tranquility. This will help you find a solution to even the most insoluble problem.
If you nevertheless decide to resort to the help of deceased relatives, then the conspiracy is given below. It should be read near the grave of the person from whom you are asking for help. “My dear (my) father (mother) (name of the deceased), get up, wake up, look at me, at your baby. How I mourn in this white world. My dear, look at me, an orphan from your home, and comfort me with your kind words.”
How to ask advice from a deceased relative?
You can communicate with a deceased person mentally. In a conversation with him, you can outline the situation and ask for advice. Some people go to church and pray. Within the walls of temples it is easier for them to concentrate and understand what the deceased wants to advise them.
You shouldn't turn to spirits for advice too often.
If you have any doubts about making a decision, go to the cemetery. At the grave of the deceased, you will express everything for and against this situation. And the first thing that comes to your mind, consider the advice of a deceased person
What not to do
You cannot drink alcohol or have long feasts at the cemetery. You should also not have a lavish feast at home after returning from the cemetery. Relatives can gather at one table and just have lunch.
It is also not recommended to leave alcohol on graves. This custom has nothing to do with Christianity, but dates back to pagan times. It’s also not a good idea to leave perishable food on graves. This may attract stray dogs and flies. It is better to distribute Easter cakes and colored eggs, and you can leave a few sweets at the grave.
Will deceased relatives meet after death?
This question has always interested close people of a deceased relative. Even the priests do not give an exact answer.
Some mediums claim that they will definitely meet. Indeed, in case of clinical death, people say that they met their loved ones there.
But in order to meet them again, a person must be cleansed of sins and go through Purgatory. And only then will he reach Paradise, where all his relatives are waiting for him. The priests say in this regard that it is possible that they will meet if their final place of residence coincides. And only God knows this.
The soul sees its funeral
To begin with, it is worth understanding one point. When a person accepts his own death and comes to terms with what is happening, then he becomes a dead soul. Until this time, the spiritual image was the same as his flesh. Having realized what happened, he loses these outlines. The souls of relatives who died before appear around.
Along the way he meets a certain creature that defies description. This substance radiates love and a great desire to help. She replays her entire life in front of the deceased.
At this moment, the soul of the deceased feels a certain boundary. This is the barrier that separates the world of the dead from the world of the living. No one has information about what happens beyond this line. This is where the information about what happens to the soul of the deceased ends. This is due to the fact that a person who has suffered clinical death does not cross this line. Doctors were able to bring him back to life while he was close to this barrier.
There is an opinion that the dead can witness their own burial. Moreover, some religions have confirmation of this. Psychics say that babies are able to see their relatives who have left the world of the living. Moreover, the dead can be observed and sensed by animals.
Do dead people look at people after their own death? – Having summarized all the main hypotheses that are currently known to humanity, we can safely say that the souls of the dead see us. It is important to remember that the above hypotheses are just statements and cannot be the only correct answer.
