When a person leaves, the memory collects bit by bit Facial features, eyelid wrinkles, Graying hair And there he is alive, comes in dreams, Laughs, cries with you, And even the wind in the heavens Reality fills with voices After all, having let go of the soul with the soul, We let go with the heart We can’t The one who left a trace, however small, there, whom we all seem to miss so much, But this is life, where can we go? Now read and read. And remember, reviving with your heart.
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Please say a few words, And you remain silent in peace, Please come back from the world of dreams. I beg you, wake up!
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Tell me, where did you go early? Tell me, what happened? Yes, there was time, suddenly it’s gone, It’s so fickle.
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The fire of the burning candle went out, Without allowing anything to be corrected, Taking you away from us forever, Stealing you and no one.
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You won't see us again, And you won't shake hands with your friends. And you won’t talk about your problems, ah You won’t be happy.
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Yes, under the verdict of the big system, the pattern of life is inexorable, And now those with whom you were once friends bring you flowers.
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Oh, the evil conduct of life has taken you to dreams. You remember your friends, But you only come to them in dreams.
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They will not forget you. You cannot be forgotten. And your kind smile will forever be remembered.
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All the poems are for you, my angel, Pain pierces every word in them, And the soul will not find its peace Until we are together again.
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Your image will remain in me, I will not forget your voice, I miss you, I will not live without you.
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You left so quickly, We didn’t say goodbye, It’s surprising because before, We didn’t even communicate.
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Every night, I feel sad. You know, Arkasik, I miss you, I’m waiting
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I feel bad without him Unbearable I just exist, I don’t live Oh, Lord, give me some strength! I don't ask for more anymore
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I asked God to return everything, It was as if He didn’t even want to hear me, I’ve gone through a short life, We won’t be able to see you anymore
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When we met secretly, When we played checkers, Then everything was cool, You were with us, Arkashka!
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Now you’re not here, I’m filled with sadness, I remember it all the time, and I miss you very much.
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When I dream about you, I hear a voice, That timbre of the voice is painfully familiar to me, Suddenly I suddenly wake up, And I see your image in front of my face.
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Perhaps you came, Well, for God’s sake, I ask you: “You come to me more often, I’m always looking forward to seeing you!”
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You didn’t live many years at all, and didn’t know all the beauty of love, You lived, hoped in God, But he didn’t live up to your hopes and dreams We often remember you, And every time a tear comes Our beloved, we miss you so much, We feel very bad without you.
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Arkasha know! I will not forget, And I will keep this memory in my heart, And definitely when you dream again, I will hug you tightly
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Poems for deceased loved ones, friend, son, father
We will all miss it so much, But this is life, where can we go? Now read and read.
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Tell me, where did you go early? Tell me, what happened? Yes, there was time, suddenly it’s gone. It’s like you’re sleeping, and now you’ll wake up! But this is what insidious fate planned:
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Know that everything is destined for us by fate! No one knows the path forward in life.
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She walked along the wall quietly to the corner, leaned her back, and began to sob. You will never be there again.
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You can come in at least at night and talk to me in your sleep. I will be here, you will be there We are leaving, the door reluctantly closed, And he remained lying there forever, Our heart is compressed from terrible pain. In this moment, no words are needed.
Correct traditions of commemoration
Dead people should be cared for through liturgy and almsgiving, as well as prayers. The Divine Liturgy is considered the best option for the deceased. Almsgiving, an action that means any help to a person in need, will not harm the deceased. As for prayer, it leads to the salvation of the souls of departed people.
Nikolai Uspensky claims that God will have mercy on every soul for which prayers are regularly offered. If the deceased's birthday falls on a Saturday, a funeral service can be ordered. There is also a day of general remembrance - Parents' Saturday. In general, the deceased are remembered on the following Saturdays:
- Parental.
- Trinity.
- Meat-producing.
- Dimitrievskaya.
Traditions of ancestors on this day
Our ancestors held services for a deceased person on the ninth and fortieth day, but the commemoration was not limited to this. On birthdays, commemorating the deceased is also not forbidden. Home prayer is a good addition to corporate worship services.
The laity use a memorial service at the birthday of the deceased; you can also read the psalter - this is one of the most ancient customs. Remember that now and ever there is one Lord, and asking for mercy for the departed is good.
Icon "Week of the Last Judgment"
A modern approach to this day
The date of birth of people close to you may well become a reason for reading funeral prayers - the modern church allows this. Prayer and going to the cemetery on such a day are good deeds. Almsgiving will allow the dead to get closer to God, so help people. A well-chosen prayer will also come in handy.
A look at the trip to the grave
Many people think that the deceased should be remembered with alcoholic drinks on their birthday, while forgetting about prayer. Believe me, your loved one would not thank you for this. Prayer for the deceased is one thing, primitive drinking is another. Remember that the deceased must come to God, and alcohol will not speed up this process in any way.
Let's say a person has died and you want to say your last “sorry” to him. Church ministers advise paying more attention to prayers and avoiding graveside gatherings in every possible way. Your alcohol will not help the person, but it will cause suffering to the soul of the deceased. If on a memorable day you are worried about the deceased, leave on his grave:
- flowers (artificial or dried);
- lamp (or candle);
- an object valued by a person during his lifetime.
The deceased brought joy to his loved ones with his birth, this should not be forgotten. Your prayers will pave his path to the Lord. Prayer contains the most intimate things - what is worth expressing at the end of the day. But there is no need to cry on a memorable day. Such actions do not help the deceased, they only attract people to the earth. Mourning the deceased (or deceased) disrupts the peace of the human soul. Dead people should calmly accept their fate, and not worry about your sad prayers. Let the deceased rest from work and rejoice in eternal life.
birthday poems for dead sister
Happy Birthday Wishes dir101. Short, beautiful and funny birthday wishes in poetry and prose (in your own words).
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Modest flowers These modest flowers do not require special attention. They grow quietly on.
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The Chesme Church is an amazing monument of Catherine’s time: history and architectural copy.
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Picturesque France Picturesque France Villages and hamlets are beautiful and cozy! Magnificent quiet.
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The exciting freshness of the morning The exciting freshness of the morning Will enter through the open window, And, like pink powder.
Poems in memory of a brother from a sister
Mom is next to me. Dad is next to me, friends.
And my family is so close. But you're just not there. You were nearby recently, You gave support, But trouble happened. You're gone forever... *** He left, but promised to be there. Protect, keep me. I didn’t believe it, but now I understand. You are close, behind me. You are my shadow, my soul. Your presence is like the wind. I know you won't leave me. You will always be there...
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5 months without you, 5 months I'm alone. Without your support Without your care. I miss you, Brother, I feel bad without you. You are like family to me. My heart is restless You come in a dream You don’t give me peace. I wake up in tears and don't sleep at night. I dream about you, I think about you, I miss you. I know we will be close, Together, but not soon...
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You are close, I know. Love and miss. In my sleep I hug and quietly sob. My Guardian Angel, Thank you for life. No better than the old one. The one you were in. But still we are together, even in a dream. And close and close, But only in a dream... Everyone here loves you And remembers you, misses you. No one will forget, I promise you.
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If my heart suddenly hurts, if it suddenly whines like a dog, I’ll look at your photo. Your soul will immediately become a little warmer and a little brighter. I miss you terribly, I miss you my good Brother, without you everything is hell for me.
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He left me... flew away And flew up to heaven forever... He left me completely And now I only see him in my dreams. Sometimes it’s still nearby. Warms with its warmth And I see his smile, As before, he is next to me.
A year has passed, but I still believe, I’m waiting, I’m cherishing one dream. I want to hear a call from you. Or for your own laugh. Gave it to the area around the world. They say that over time the pain of loss will subside. Yes, it probably will pass. But the memory will not disappear from the world. Will live in my heart forever. We miss you very much, we will not forget you, believe me. The best friend in the world. The best brother - forever...
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Tell me, heaven please, how is our dear dear one doing there? How is he doing and does he have any worries? What is he doing and does he remember his relatives who love him so much? Tell me, heaven, why are you shedding tears? We are fine, let our loved one know. We are strong, but sometimes it overwhelms us so much that we have no strength and tears run down our cheeks. We are strong, and for the sake of his sweet little smile we will endure everything, we will win and overcome the fear of loss...
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You was! You lived! Loved, suffered, You swallowed it whole every day. Why did you give up to death, Your warmth that warmed us so much?
I know God took you, Because your soul is bright, So that you would no longer suffer in this world, And you would find your peace in heaven!
The earth that you loved so much accepted you into its arms, and with our sorrow the rain poured over your grave, which brought us together.
We all miss you so much, our hearts will never stop grieving for you! And our life loses its meaning, There is no end in sight to the mental pain!
But you left a mark behind yourself, And you didn’t live your life in vain, After all, the kindness that you gave to people and brought to your family will forever remain in your memory!
And yet your dream came true, to the joy of all of us, he gave us a son! And the memory of you is alive in him for centuries, It’s like an Angel illuminated our lives!
Angelika Komarova-Ilyushina
It is impossible to come to terms with this terrible loss. Grief overshadowed the whole world, and the light of the sun dimmed. Brother, you left us, I still can’t believe that you are no longer with us in this life. Our grief is limitless. But in our memory you will forever be alive and loved as before. You fell asleep, our dear, in an eternal, serene sleep. We all love you and mourn you immensely.
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Irreparable loss - You are gone forever, my brother. I don’t believe my grief, And you won’t come back.
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To you, brother, I dedicate the words that I write. I often remember you. I often feel longing and sad. I remember our evenings It all seemed like yesterday But grief suddenly came knocking. My brother and friend passed away. But I often see in my dreams How you smile at me, But for some reason you stand and are simply silent. But we talked before We spent all our time together We shared everything equally with you And we were never sad. So let the winds tell you, let the flowers whisper in your voices, how your sister misses you, and your mother with gray hair. You know, we won’t forget, we will love and remember forever. You go around the whole wide world - There is nowhere else like you. Fate is the mistress, you can’t argue with this And every time she gets angrier and angrier She said - you are leaving for another world, But how hard it is without people close to us.
Poems about the memory and grief of a deceased close friend
I asked God to return everything, It was as if He didn’t want to hear me, I’ve gone through a short life, We’re not allowed to see you anymore.
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When we met secretly, When we played checkers, Then everything was cool, You were with us, Arkashka!
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Now you’re not here, I’m filled with sadness, I remember you all the time, and I miss you very much.
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When I dream of you, I hear a voice, That timbre of the voice is painfully familiar to me, Suddenly I wake up abruptly, And I see your image in front of my face.
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Perhaps you came, Well, for God’s sake, I ask you: “You come to me more often, I’m always looking forward to seeing you!”
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I feel bad without him. Unbearable I just exist, I don’t live Oh, Lord, give me some strength! I don't ask for more anymore
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All the poems are for you, my angel, Pain pierces every word in them, And the soul will not find its peace Until we are together again.
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Poems - Birthday meeting on the river.
Birthday meeting on the river. The waves of years splash barely audibly. Two A's in my life diary The teacher, the Almighty, wrote for me.
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I don’t want to be an excellent student, to be prudent and tired. I would like to replace two A's with two D's! But they won’t be installed.
O women, most tender creatures, you are a holiday with tears in your eyes. The wife, with good reason, turns to her husband in tears:
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- “Well, how callous and heartless you are. For two weeks I asked you: You remember my birthday, of course, So don’t you dare upset me.
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After all, with one reminder that our years will not rush back, a woman experiences such suffering that a man cannot understand.
Not friends and not enemies, With them and they don’t care, Because of the pain and melancholy, I can’t sleep at night.
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And for them it’s my birthday, an ordinary and simple day. There is no doubt towards me, there is no malice in them, I’m just a stranger.
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Birthday is a sad holiday, If you are not among friends. There are no feelings of resentment towards them, I want to go home quickly.
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There is my wife, sons, close family people. And with all my heart: VERY, VERY. I love them with all my heart!
Running, chaos, the dress gets in the way. The step is lost, it’s better to crawl, Stupid bow, I shout, “Leave me alone!”, They give me a pacifier, “Don’t be sad!”
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I spin the top, minutes pass, Hours pass and years pass, And I greet my birthday with fireworks joyfully - “Hurray. »
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Fun, dancing, laughter, embarrassment. The outfit has been chosen and the perfume has been chosen. I believe in better values And heels are so comfortable!
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Spring is replaced by summer, autumn, Winter - I love warmth, socks, Wool is better, it’s almost eight, It’s dark, maybe I’m sleeping out of boredom?
August has come again, predicting the end of the warm summer. He started his rainy song, And life will be a little different.
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Anticipating a quick swarm of troubles, Almost with an empty head. Forgetting my bundle of worries for a while, I’m going home to my mother again.
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And there everything is still as always, a gang of friendly cats jumping. And despite the long years that have passed, the TV seems to be the same.
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We will sit and chat a little, and there will be a feeling of warmth, peace and comfort. And again there will be conversations about Israel, about the vegetable garden.
For the birthday of love, I had to go a long way. Explosions, breakdowns and adversity, Premature birth.
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Premature feelings, Underdevelopment is tasteless. Misunderstanding, stupidity, quarrels and empty talk.
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Unborn intimacy and excessive tearfulness. From resentment to resentment, why are we so tearful?
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We searched, we suffered, We drove ourselves into trouble. We searched in emptiness, We suffered in a dead end.
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And at the moment of devastation, the highest excitement, an inspiration came down to us, incomprehensible.
Is it appropriate to congratulate the deceased on his earthly birthday?
Happy birthday greetings to a deceased brother or sister are not much different from texts for parents. Mother and father are mostly thanked for their care and happy childhood.
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In writings for brothers and sisters, remember shared moments, support in difficult times, joint pranks, travel, memorable dates.
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In poems about younger people, tenderness, care, and sorrow for a short life often prevail; admiration for elders, because they act as an eternal example.
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In Christianity, it is believed that the soul leaves the earth’s surface after 40 days; the deceased will no longer need food. There is no need to leave food at the cemetery.
Poems - Brother against brother.
Tears for tears - Peace to the murdered. Who sent them to the kingdom of the forgotten?
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Were you silent? Do you care about everything? Grief was called - And the crows came to you.
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If it's not too late, save the world! The Angels of Death are flying towards you.
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We didn’t call you, we didn’t raise the Sword. Why did you come in a vile pack?
The memory is disturbing again, Sending me pictures of the past. The memory prevents me from sleeping, stabs me with shame again.
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Shame and repentance, torment of conscience, I did a lot of wrong things in my life. I often did stupid things out of boredom, I lived like everyone else, I went with the flow.
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Memory, having now recalled those deeds, My heart stings with shame for my lies. I will quietly close the door to the past, Let the past pass.
Fate has treated us too cruelly
Statuses about the death of a brother from a sister - when you can’t say anything, but just cry. There is no need to say that everything will pass. You just need to wait...
- Tears of sorrow will not help. But you can’t prove this to a red-hot heart!
- You will never die in my soul. Well, whatever happens.
- My brother left too early. They say that this happens, but they don’t say how to live on after that...
- I will no longer be able to see you on weekends, unless I come to you myself in the silent emptiness.
- You were more than just a brother. You were a beloved brother. That’s why I feel your departure so painfully!
- It hurts me to look at my mother, at my relatives, at your girlfriend, at your friends. Everyone feels bad, you can’t even imagine.
- You were too kind, too sincere, too good for this earth.
- No, we were not super friendly brother and sister, but what is going on in my soul now cannot be described in words.
- The memory of you will be imprinted in lifeless flowers. Yes, someone will forget you soon, but definitely not me.
- In your life there were also joys, sorrows, victories, and unrequited love. And now all this is simply gone...
- You used to often make me laugh, but now memories of you tear my heart to pieces.
Statuses about a brother who no longer exists are not just a serious, but a terrible topic. Each phrase reeks of pain, which nothing good can hide yet.
He was a really close person
The memory in the hearts of relatives does not disappear anywhere, it simply has nowhere to go. The truth of this phrase can be found in the status “brother is no more.”
- I don't want to tarnish your memory with anything. I'm sure heaven took you because you were a truly great person.
- Dear, we are not offended by you. I would just like to hope that someday we will meet.
- You are somewhere among us. Well, I hear you. I feel that you are nearby, I know.
- There is sadness in my heart. I don’t want to live further, I don’t want to put up with anything, but I just want you to come back.
- You are not at the dinner table or in your room. And even your favorite garage is now empty. How painful it is without you!
- Here is your photograph with a black ribbon, and here it is engraved on an iron monument. Everything broke down inside a long time ago, but I couldn’t believe it until the last moment.
- You hurt me a lot, but I don't know how. Just because I love it. Very.
- You are the dearest and most beloved brother. This is not discussed.
- The snow turned black, then the foliage turned yellow. Melancholy rolled in - you left us forever.
- Everything is so black, everything is so lifeless. I wanted to say: “Brother, let’s go for a walk,” but you would only answer with silence.
- When you were near, I knew that no one would dare to offend me. I wish I could bring back those times...
- You gave me everything that a brother should have given - protection, support, warmth. It’s very difficult for me without this now!
- You weren't incredibly handsome, but you were terribly charming. I can't wrap my head around how this could happen.
Widow of midshipman Sergei Gryaznykh: “After the death of my husband, I do not celebrate my birthday”
The son of Sergei Gryaznykh is now ten years old. When his father died, Vadik was only six months old.
Every summer the boy goes to his grandparents in Severodvinsk, Valentina Anatolyevna and Vladimir Maksimovich also often visit their daughter-in-law in St. Petersburg.
“I went to Severodvinsk to give birth, where my husband’s parents lived. Seryozha left with me, he was on vacation then,” Elena recalls.
It was a leap year, and everyone was worried that the baby would be born on the 29th, but the boy was born on the 28th. And Sergei was then given another three months of leave, and only at the end of May did he set sail.
By the way, in the Northern capital, Seryozha Dudko studied only at the Popov Naval School. He graduated from school in Vedyaevo.
In memory of the departed - Poems
Those who are dear and loved suddenly, irrevocably, hopelessly leave. How difficult it is for a human heart to experience and realize. (almost impossible.)
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When, it seemed, Youth was in full bloom, And there were still so many paths ahead, But the bright light burned out at sunset, And only one road was “open” to them
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The white snow of past years and days gone by will hide the burden without a trace, The run of a short life is completed.
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I saw my dad in the mirror, accidentally seeing him. I saw it and almost cried, not understanding why.
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From the twilight of the corridor, suddenly dad smiled at me. As if he was at home, as before, and not in the blue sky.
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Just a glance, but like an arrow, Sadness pierced my dreams. We have been separated from that spring for ten years by a wall.
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Then I realized that in the reflection I was. Similar to him. One short moment, And how many things were remembered!
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Your soul wanders quietly Near the house where you lived for a long time Wanders without rustling the leaves You left, so the Lord decided And you don’t need to rush Enjoy the silence. You managed to forgive all your enemies. You forgot to say goodbye to me.
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There is a moon behind the cloud. Write lines on it with your heart. It will convey everything as it is. With an email from the soul.
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Our parents bought us tickets. We wanted popcorn, we begged for Coke. Completely ordinary spectators of a completely ordinary weekend day.
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We arrived early for the session. The adults seated us in our seats. We thought this was wrong! It seemed to them that it was so.
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We heard the doors grinding, and then the commercials started. We looked with open mouths at the cartoon superdramas.
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I already had plans in my head about which cartoon to go to first. You just need to ask your mother, After all, we don’t know how to pay yet.
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Someone quickly ran to the door in the dark. We looked at it with hope. Maybe there really was a fire somewhere? The grinding noise was heard again nearby.
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Suddenly the projector went out and the screen turned off. We all screamed out of fear at once. They tried to open the door, but it was locked. This happens a lot in horror films.
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It became difficult to breathe, we put our palms to our mouth. The eyes burn, but closing them is worse. Will no one hear us here? We cry and bang on doors loudly!
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Glares of red, yellow, choking smoke And debris that falls from the roof. They say it's hard to die young, But it's worse when they don't hear.
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It became hot, everyone was crying, there was flames all around, Someone was shouting and swearing loudly. We kept waiting for them to come and save us, But no one rushed to us through the flames.
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We tried to run, but not everyone could get up. Half of them went up in smoke. We wanted to crawl, but the fire was on the way. We will not come out of captivity alive.
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Mom, dad, I'm sorry that you behaved badly, That you brought twos and threes home, That you didn't obey or could offend, That you didn't do your homework often.
