Damage most often comes from close relatives who want to solve their problems in this way. Mothers-in-law and mothers-in-law interfere in the love relationships of their children, destroying the existing connections by any means. As a result, they receive kickbacks in the form of illnesses, destroy the families of their children, which affects their grandchildren, because along with negative attachments, ancestral protection collapses.
When the mother-in-law, dissatisfied with the wife of her beloved son, decided to destroy the marriage at all costs, using spoilage for divorce, you need to resist her, but not engage in a magical war, because all this is reflected in all members of the clan. It is best to prevent your mother-in-law’s negative attitude and learn to smooth out rough edges using the advice of a psychologist, not a black magician.
How to find out that your mother-in-law wants evil
The confrontation between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is as old as time. The mother always tries to protect her son from greedy girls, to whom the newly-minted relative was also registered. To do this, she can use a variety of methods: from constantly “dripping” on her son’s brains to magical rituals.
If the mother-in-law used magic against her daughter-in-law, the latter can only determine the presence of negativity and eliminate it. There are also quite a few ways to do this.
The cards will tell the truth
To diagnose the damage caused by the mother-in-law, you can use fortune telling. If you suspect that the mother-in-law has worked, you need to visit a professional fortune teller and ask her to make a reading. For those who do not have such an opportunity, you can find out the truth at home by taking a new deck of cards and asking them if there is damage on me. Then 7 cards are pulled out in order, asking each one:
- What is?
- What happened?
- What will happen?
- By evening?
- For the whole night?
- How will it end?
- How will everything calm down?
If in this situation the majority of cards come out with spades, and with them a queen, this indicates that there is a negative, and the question of whether the mother-in-law can cause damage remains open for discussion.
Ask the pendulum
If a woman has been struggling with her mother-in-law for a long time, and feels that after every communication with her husband’s mother, her health worsens, this is a sign of a negative program. The subconscious senses this state and associates it with a specific person. When fortune telling with a pendulum, the subconscious gets the opportunity to point out to the conscious mind the existing damage done by the mother-in-law or another person.
Prepare a list of questions so that the answers are clear, “yes” or “no.” First, the pendulum must be adjusted. To do this, the first questions must provide obvious answers. For example: I have a husband, mother-in-law, mother, and so on. Once the connection is established, you can ask questions. The main ones will be:
Do I have enemies? Am I damaged? Did your mother-in-law do some damage? By communicating with a pendulum, you can discover a lot of interesting information.
Diagnostic ritual
You can find out about damage using another ritual. For it you need:
- 3 wax church candles;
- a clean plate without a pattern;
- pen;
- a sheet of white paper;
- wall.
In the evening, after sunset, a conspiracy is written on a piece of paper:
I will open the blue sky. I will part the dark clouds. I will open up the black earth. I need to see my mother-in-law. Yes, that’s what she wanted to do to me. Fire to you, I command you to serve me today. To show me with a dark shadow everything that is hidden from my eyes. What is secret and obvious, what is close or far. Let it be so today. May it always be so. Amen.
The paper is crumpled, making a loose lump. They put it on a plate, place it on a high stand, level with the eyes. The lights are turned off. 2 candles are placed near the wall, 1 is picked up and the paper is set on fire. As soon as it starts to burn, shadows will begin to appear on the wall. They need to be watched carefully. If there is damage, then gloomy pictures will be displayed on the wall. Among them you can see:
- coffin;
- cross;
- cat;
- bird;
- bat.
When the paper burns out, do not rush to throw it away. The last image will have the most significant meaning. When the fortune telling is over, the ashes are collected and thrown into the toilet. If there is negativity, they say:
Where there is ashes, there is damage.
If there is damage, then its signs are noticeable. You need to learn to distinguish them so as not to confuse them with somatic diseases.
Rituals for mother-in-law's love
The mother-in-law didn’t appreciate her son’s choice, but you don’t understand why? You were sure that she would receive his chosen one well, but it turned out that she would not? You don’t want to get rid of your mother-in-law out of respect for your spouse, but do you just want to soften her attitude towards you? Such problems can be solved with the help of magic. Choose a ritual that suits you.
On the plantain
In order for your husband's mother to accept her son's young wife, perform a simple ritual. It will take a little time. Pick a plantain, ideally collecting its inflorescences and seeds. Fold them and dry them. When all the ingredients are dry, grind in a bowl, saying:
I’m not cooking soup, but a decoction, a broth for my mother, let the evil in her perish, so that my family does not disappear from the face of the earth.
Do not set foot on the threshold of negativity - I punish both the daughter-in-law, the bride and the mother that there should be peace between them!
Pick a plantain on the way to your house from your mother-in-law's house.
For a cake and 7 candles
Anyone can do this simple ritual. For it you will need:
- wax church candles;
- homemade pie or cake;
- matches.
Be sure to perform the ritual on a new moon. At exactly midnight, insert all the candles into the cake and light it with a match. Read the plot:
Mother, you are my dear - although not by blood alone, you gave me a husband.
I ask God to teach us to live so that the walls do not shake
And let us not lie - how will we eat this cake?
So all the walls between us will collapse. We don't know hatred!
Take the candles out of the pie, and preferably treat your mother-in-law with the enchanted pie in the morning. After she eats it, the relationship will improve.
Signs of damage to divorce
There are certain symptoms that indicate damage from the mother-in-law. If the negativity comes from her, then conflicts between husband and wife will begin only when her name is pronounced. Irritation with each other after a reminder of its existence becomes constant, and achieving the opposite effect over time becomes extremely problematic. The relationship reaches a dead end, the spouses understand that if this continues, then separation is a matter of a short time.
If the mother-in-law has caused damage, a symptom of this can be considered the fact that after a conversation with her an attack of an unknown illness begins. When the husband returns from his mother irritated and begins to sort things out, this is a clear sign that damage has been done to the daughter-in-law, which is reflected in the husband’s behavior. The power of damage coming from the mother-in-law can lead to long-term illnesses in children.
If you can associate the onset of the illness with a visit or telephone conversation with your mother-in-law, then this is a serious sign that the negativity comes from her.
If a woman suffers from infertility, and during conversations at home on this topic, the mother-in-law rejoiced at this circumstance, which is unnatural for a future grandmother, then the cause of disturbances in the reproductive system can be sought in her evil machinations.
Conspiracy from the future mother-in-law
If you have not yet officially married your spouse, but your mother-in-law has already tired you somewhat with her moralizing and constant nagging, you can perform a pancake ritual.
It is enough to cook them yourself, or even better in the house where the mother-in-law and her son live - while baking them, you should smile at your future relative and at the same time say the following words:
“You golden pancakes - I’m such a craftswoman, I’m sweet and pretty to everyone in the world, and especially to my future mother-in-law ... name ... May she live like a peaceful dove, and may I be a servant of God ... her name ... may she love and dove, once again does not offend, often does not haunt the house. How the hell do you eat this - so be it according to my word"
After this, be sure to feed your mother-in-law with the prepared pancakes.
Why does a mother-in-law harass her daughter-in-law?
Many young women get involved in a magical war and are looking for a way to spoil their mother-in-law. To win this difficult war, you need to understand why your husband’s mother behaves this way. Most likely, the daughter-in-law does not inspire confidence in the elderly woman, and she is worried about her future and the fate of her son. Everyone judges according to the extent of their licentiousness, and in this case the older woman believes that her son’s young wife will do the same as the mother-in-law herself did in her youth.
The second reason for the negativity is traditions. It is possible that the mother-in-law herself went through the hatred of her mother-in-law and is now getting even in full.
The third reason is that a woman is afraid of loneliness. This is a very common reason for a negative attitude towards a daughter-in-law, who turns up her nose in front of her husband’s mother and does not want to communicate with her. In any case, such a ritual is suitable for protection.
Elimination of magical binding
If you know for sure that the mother tied her son to herself not with simple love and understanding, but with magical ties, then you will have to get rid of the maternal counterfeit. The effect of such magic is noticeable in the particularly hateful attitude of the mother-in-law, especially if she regularly shouts “I hate you” and wishes “for you to die.”
To get rid of such a strong attachment, it is enough to simply wash your husband’s T-shirt (T-shirt) after he has sweated well in it. The main thing is to correctly spell the washing water and this is done with the help of a strong spell:
“In holy Jerusalem, in the golden temple, on a golden pillar a golden icon hangs. This icon looks at people with its eyes and speaks to people with its lips. Oh, you icon, looking at me, speaking to me in a motherly voice, I pray you, look at the servant of God (name), speak to the servant of God (name). Let him shake himself, perk up, and turn towards you, Mother of God. Remove from him every counterfeit misfortune, remove from him all maternal power. The Lord will show the way, the speaking icon will command. Century by century, from now to eternity. Key, lock, tongue. Amen. Amen. Amen."
After washing, the water must be poured outside onto the roadway, preferably at an intersection. It is advisable that no one sees you.
Before resorting to magic, try to gain the love and respect of your mother-in-law in quite ordinary ways. After all, there can be a great many reasons for an unfriendly attitude. Perhaps the origins of the problem lie in one’s own character, which, according to the laws of the Universe, is reflected in the behavior of the husband’s mother. Be kinder to yourself and those around you. And then the strongest protective conspiracies for the mother-in-law will not be needed, and simple whispers of easy action will simply strengthen the new relationship.
How to reassure your mother-in-law
In order for the mother-in-law to calm down, in the spring, when the coltsfoot flowers appear, on Friday, at noon, you need to pull out the flower by the roots, facing the direction where the sun rises. Holding the torn plant in your hand, first read the “Our Father” prayer, then this spell:
Coltsfoot, I tore you off. In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, the Immaculate Holy Virgin, the Immaculateness of St. John the Baptist, the Immaculateness of St. John the Evangelist. May you serve me now and forever and forever and ever. Order your stepmother to become a mother, not to be angry with me, the slave (name), not to scream, not to growl angrily, not to push me around, not to curse me with words, not to intimidate my husband. Just as you, grass, came out of the ground, through stones and sand, through red clay, so send me, grass, beautiful mother-in-law. Not to destroy, but to love the slave (name). My word is strong, my deed is tenacious. Key, lock, grass. Amen. Amen. Amen.
Then break off the flower from the root. Bury the above-ground part in the ground from where it was picked, and take the underground part to your mother-in-law and throw it on her doorstep.
In order to completely get rid of the curse imposed by the mother-in-law, a whole series of traditional magical rituals are needed, with the help of which protection is established for the husband and wife, their home and children. In search of how to get rid of damage, they use one of the methods. This may be going under the protection of a Christian egregor, which requires regular attendance at church and reading a series of cleansing prayers.
Triple spell ritual
In especially severe cases, you will have to resort to more complex methods. A ritual with reading conspiracies at a certain point in the lunar cycle will help to calm down the evil woman so that she does not interfere with life. This particularly powerful method can be called complex, because it pursues several goals at once. But if necessary, it is allowed to use any of the above rituals separately. For example, sometimes it’s enough to simply ward off your mother-in-law with the help of a conspiracy in order to breathe easy.
The waxing moon increases the personal power of the daughter-in-law and her influence on the parent. Choose a Friday when you are in a particularly good mood. While preparing some delicious baked goods, be sure to read the words of the conspiracy against your mother-in-law:
“Just as a young month is born and goes through the Lord’s heaven in its own way and on its own path, its own master, so would the servant of God (name), a young housewife, be born with strength and power over her mother-in-law. And she would know the roads of all her household and would hold them in her right hand, in her right fist. Tsits, mother-in-law, I am your head. Amen.Amen. Amen."
Make sure your mother-in-law eats at least a crumb of the charmed baked goods.
The second ritual should be scheduled on full moon days. He will help your relative to love you, just like her son, to respect you and always help. Have a small holiday dinner and prepare something that your mother-in-law will definitely not refuse. Don’t forget to read the plot for mother-in-law’s love three times over the finished dishes:
“As the moon shines in the sky, illuminating the entire Lord’s sky, so would my mother-in-law’s heart be full for me. So she would lavish affection on me, like the full moon illuminated the sky. I lock my whole tale with a lunar lock, a monthly key, and a monthly light. Amen. Amen. Amen."
In order for the plot to attract the love of the mother-in-law to work as quickly as possible, it is desirable that the evil woman sits down at the dinner table first. And when she starts eating, roll a cookie under the table and turn it towards your mother-in-law.
The third conspiracy, designed to get rid of misunderstandings, secret intrigues and constant quarrels, is read three times on the waning moon.
“As the month wanes and comes to an end, so the quarrels between us would come to an end and melt away. My mother-in-law would be silent, just as the dead do not scream, just as fish in the ocean-sea are silent. Amen. Amen. Amen."
Never tell anyone that you had to read a conspiracy in order for your mother-in-law to love you, although before she was evil and harmful. Otherwise, the magic will dissipate.
Removing damage
You can remove damage using runic formulas. Scandinavian stavs will help you put up protection and send negativity to the one who sends it. If the damage was caused by the mother-in-law, then after the damage is removed she will become very ill.
After removing the damage, negativity and love spells, work on positive attitudes begins. A woman needs to protect her attractiveness and work to improve her reproductive system. For a man - for success and independence.
If it is known for sure that the damage to the divorce was caused by the mother-in-law, then she needs to install a blocker at the entrance to the spouses’ house. This is done with a needle stuck into the crack of the door frame. An energy ball installed above the door helps a lot to delay evil people. He does not allow a person into the apartment who is coming to the family with evil. The ball is sculpted with the hands, mentally forming a luminous ball in the palms. After he managed to form a bright ball glowing like the sun, he is given the task of detaining all evil people coming with negativity. This helps to get rid of all the guests who come to the apartment with negativity.
There is a conspiracy to keep the mother-in-law out of the family
Spell for a bar of soap
This ritual is performed after sunset three times and always on the waning moon, reading the words of the ritual spell 9 times. They carry out a soap conspiracy - you must buy it on an even day, and the words of the conspiracy are as follows:
“How quickly this soap is washed off, how quickly it dissolves in water - so quickly you mother-in-law ... name ... may you submit to me, my words and deeds. They walked along the road - 2 sisters, they walked and were tired, they took bread out of their bags, ate and chewed, and gave crumbs to the birds. And just as there is no eaten bread on earth, so there will be no anger on me from you. You have no...name of mother-in-law...interest in me...your name...and...name of husband... - don’t walk around us, but leave us behind and leave us alone, forever and ever, from this word until the end of the century.”
After this, give this soap to your mother-in-law - as soon as she washes it off, her desire to walk and communicate with you will go away. This is very convenient and practical, and to enhance the effect, it is best to give your mother-in-law such small and pleasant gifts from time to time.
Red thread plot
To carry it out, take a red woolen thread and visually divide it in half - cut it in this place with a knife. Then tie a knot at each end of a separate thread - you don’t need to say any words, the main thing is to think about how you will get rid of the annoying mother-in-law. After this, hide one thread in a secluded place in your house, but take the second one far from the house and leave it on a tree branch without tying it.
How to break ties between husband and mother
For the husband, a ritual must be performed to break the maternal connection. This will not prevent him from receiving the generic protection that comes from his father, and at the same time he will get rid of the attachments left over from childhood, when he was heavily dependent on his mother. This will allow him to become an adult, the head of the family and increase self-esteem.
Ritual No. 1
To break the connection between husband and mother, you can perform the following ritual. On the waning moon on Thursday they take:
- small onion;
- glass of water;
- church candle;
- new knife.
The ritual is carried out secretly so that no one knows about it. They work like this:
- turn off the lights;
- light a church candle;
- cut the onion in half;
- say the plot 12 times.
Just as an onion and water are united, so are we, the servants of God (your names with your spouse), and no one or anything can quarrel us and separate us! So that my beloved husband listens to me and listens, so that he always supports me, so that he is a mountain for me! So that in disputes with his mother he would be on my side, Yes, he was not a mother’s boy, but he could get rid of all his mother-in-law! Amen!
- Place the two halves in a glass of water.
- Take a candle and extinguish the wick by dipping water between the two halves.
- The glass with the onion is placed on the window for 7 days, and the candle is put away in a secret place.
On day 8, the candle, glass and onion are placed in a paper bag. They take white bread, honeycomb and a bottle of expensive wine, and go to the cemetery. There they find either graves from the family of the husband’s mother, or a free place, and bury a candle, an onion and a glass. They form a mound, put bread, honey and an open bottle of wine. They ask the spirits of the cemetery and the spirits of the clan to break the connection between mother and son so that he can become a man and continue the clan. Then they ask you to accept the gifts. They bow on four sides and leave the burial site without looking back.
Ritual No. 2
You can take a ritual knife, two separate photographs of your husband and his mother, connect them together, placing the photo face to face, call on the help of the Higher Powers, Guardian Angels, Archangel Michael and Archangel Raphael. Pass the knife between them, as if cutting a pie, and say:
I ask Archangel Michael to cut the energetic umbilical cord connecting mother (name) and son, (name) for the highest Good (name of mother-in-law) and the highest Good of her son (name).
You can visualize that it is not you, but Archangel Michael who cuts this connection with his sword.
After the connection is cut, ask the Higher Powers here and now to heal all the consequences of this action on all levels and realities.
With constant scandals
Are you unlucky to live with your mother-in-law, and she constantly starts quarrels and conflicts between us? There is a special ritual for family reconciliation. The ceremony is carried out completely alone. To be safe, turn off your phone.
Important: During an event against domestic scandals, it is strictly forbidden to open the front door for someone.
You need to do the following:
- First, let your hair down, unfasten all the buttons on your clothes, remove the belt and pins.
- Standing facing the front door, begin to read the spell you have learned by heart exactly 9 times:
“By the sign of the cross, evil spirits, be crushed! Protect me, Lord, with the life-giving cross. With twelve locks, lock the hands, teeth, and envious eyes of the villains. So that your eyes do not go wide, hatred is not wasted, and curses are not let out of your mouth. Lord, come to the aid of me, the Servant of God (name), and my family. Hasten, O God, to deliver me from the evil ones in my house. Most Holy Trinity, drive out evil, unclean spirits from my home, from my family. And sanctify our hearts with your holy spirit. Most Holy Theotokos, save us. Jesus, Son of God, have mercy on us. Reward our hearts with love. Forever and ever. Amen."
A powerful ritual against swearing
Does your mother-in-law constantly interfere in her son's life, give advice and turn him against you? In order for the parent to finally leave the family alone on Tuesday, which falls during the period of the waning moon, perform the following ritual.
- To keep your mother-in-law out of your life, pour water into a regular bucket.
- Throw in three large handfuls of salt, ideally Thursday salt.
- Take a knife with a blade 15 cm long and start as if cutting water.
- To strengthen the mother-in-law’s love for her daughter-in-law, the plot must be read three times in a row: “I pray to the Lord God, I am baptized with the life-giving cross, I am saved from my mother-in-law, I cover myself with Your robe, O Lord. My mother-in-law, Your servant (name) is evil, she brings tears, she brings misfortune, like a dog gnaws at a bone. I ask you, our God, to pacify Your servant (name of mother-in-law), endow with love for me, Your servant (name). Let her mouth not open, her tongue not swear, let her not curse, and let her evil go away. In the name of the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen".
- At the end of the ritual, take a bucket of water and go to the wasteland.
- Pour the used water into some depression, not forgetting to say a special whisper three times: “As you, Mother Earth, take this water into yourself, so you take away the anger of my mother-in-law, from now on and forever and ever. Amen."
Floor washing ritual
The mother-in-law seems to live separately, but manages to pretty much ruin the existence of the family, and even whispers nasty things to her grandson? The next ritual will help improve the situation, but to carry it out you will need to find a small piece of aspen. Then everything is simple:
- Invite your mother-in-law to visit.
- Before she comes, burn a few aspen chips and throw the ashes into the water for washing the floors.
- Add three generous amounts of salt there.
- Stir and thoroughly clean the floors.
- After the guest leaves, wipe the floor in the house again with plain water, washing away traces and possible negativity.
There is no need to read an additional plot, since the ingredients used in the product themselves have a unique ability to destroy anger and hatred. Even if the mother-in-law came to her son’s house with the desire to make trouble and teach her daughter-in-law, she did not succeed.
Rituals for cleansing and protection
When working against mother-in-law's interference in the personal space of a young family, there is no need to go to extremes. The older generation can take the burden off a young mother and help her in raising children, but to do this, they need to establish relationships before their birth, and not think that the best way to punish and silence is to damage the mother-in-law.
In order not to suffer later from the deadly damage done in response, the hatred of your children’s grandmother and not to listen to the advice of well-wishers that you need to “smash and dismember your mother-in-law,” it is recommended to work positively from the first days of life in a new family.
You can use a conspiracy that will help the mother-in-law see her daughter-in-law only from the best side. This will help a woman accept her daughter-in-law into her family and love her. Then the family will become strong, and there will be no need to think about how to remove the damage, get rid of negativity, love spells.
To work, you need to take an item donated by your mother-in-law and an item that belongs to your mother-in-law. Tie them in a knot and say:
Now I am my own mother, the one who gave birth to my beloved! So that there were no barriers between us, calm reigned and everything went smoothly! I attract the forces of goodness and love to the hearth; an envious enemy will not penetrate there! We must get rid of anger and hatred, and get rid of hostility! I have prepared a delicious pie, when you taste a sweet piece, you will love me and call me your beloved daughter-in-law! From now on and forever you will be like a legitimate mother to me! Candles will help me in the twilight, a love spell, sending it to you! Amen!
This is knot magic, which is often used in practice. The knot that tied peace in the family and the love of the mother-in-law cannot be shown to anyone. It must be kept in a secret place so that it cannot fall into someone else's hands. As long as the knot is tied, everything will be fine.
If the mother-in-law gets too involved in the life of a young family, you can perform a ritual with salt. Take a handful of coarse salt at night on the waning moon and say 9 times:
Salted salt, white salt, bulk salt! Help the servant of God (name) get away from my house, so that she can live her life, do her business, and not be interested in mine and her husband’s and not interfere. Help her get rid of her advice and complaints, save her from anger and hostility. Make her forget the way to our house and stop coming to us! Amen!
Bring this salt to your mother-in-law’s doorstep, sprinkle it there so that no one suspects you of this matter. The ritual is repeated every month until the mother-in-law stops going uninvited.
Main categories of conspiracies
Evil mother-in-law
It has been noticed that conspiracies for a bad mother-in-law are somewhat different and are conventionally divided into three main categories:
- To improve relationships, eliminate influence.
- To restore peace in the family.
- For complete removal from life.
Therefore, the selection of conspiracies for mother-in-law is made solely taking into account the current situation. Moreover, all young brides are recommended to carry out a simple but powerful ritual on their wedding day, which in the future will ensure, if not love, then good attitude and protection from their mother-in-law. To do this, you need to get into the house of your newly-made husband on the wedding day. Enter the room and, standing facing the corner, say a simple spell for the love of your mother-in-law:
“Bone dear, grave bone, leave me. I came from a dead man, go to a dead man. Do not torment the white body, the violent head, the zealous heart. To the dead - dead, to the living - alive. Amen."
Reading a plot so that the future mother-in-law loves, respects and always helps with money is prohibited in a room where there are icons.
Are magical manipulations against mother-in-law dangerous?
A mother-in-law is a woman who can, without knowing it, destroy the happiness of her own son.
The use of such rituals is safe only when a woman chooses soft rituals, without using damage, work in the cemetery or other types of black magic. Beginners should not use these rituals to avoid negative consequences.
Soft spells allow you to do the following:
- reduce the number of visits by the husband’s mother to the matrimonial home;
- weaken the influence of the mother-in-law on her man;
- change the attitude of your spouse’s mother to a kind one.
For a magical ritual to be effective, you must follow the recommendations given in the description of each ritual.
For peace of mind at home
When all efforts are in vain, and both women cannot find a common language, and conflicts and swearing constantly arise, then performing a ritual will best help to make peace with your mother-in-law. It will help to stop the swearing and quarrels; it is possible that after a while love for her daughter-in-law will awaken in her heart.
To perform the ritual correctly, you will need to buy 7 candles from the temple and bake a delicious and beautiful cake yourself.
Sometimes it seems that nothing will help you gain the love of your mother-in-law: gifts, attention, only conspiracies remain.
The most convenient time is the full moon, but if it doesn’t work out, then the sacrament is performed during the waxing moon.
Closer to 12 o'clock at night, you need to place candles on the floor to create a vicious circle. Light the candles at midnight. Place the pie in the middle and stand up yourself. Read the text exactly 7 times. You must first write it yourself on a sheet of white paper. The words are:
After this, a quarter of an hour should be devoted to visualization, imagining how the relationship will develop further. The candles must burn out completely. Wrap the cinders in paper on which the conspiracy is written, and then bury them in a place where there are no people.
The pie must be eaten together with the husband’s mother.
There is another version of the pie conspiracy:
- for this you will additionally need any thing from the husband’s mother;
- another piece of my own wardrobe, donated by my mother-in-law;
- both things need to be tied together or secured well.
During the ritual, the knot should also be in the circle along with the pie, then it is hidden in a secluded place so that no one will find it. There is no need to show or tell anything to anyone, let it be a secret. If the symbol of a strong relationship is lost, then it can deteriorate again.
