Draw a family tree diagram
Take a large sheet of A4 paper, place it with the wide side facing you and draw your family tree on it up to the seventh generation. For example, like this:
Squares are drawn with a red pencil to denote men, and blue to denote women of the Rod. At the bottom in the middle, draw one square - this is yourself, and write on the side: “first generation”.
From this square, lines go diagonally upward to two squares, red and blue - these are your father and mother, the second generation. From each of them, two more lines go up to the same squares - these are your paternal and maternal grandparents, the third generation. From each of them there are also two lines going up - these are the great-grandfathers and great-grandmothers, the fourth generation. And so on up to the seventh generation inclusive.
From left to right they are drawn: first a red square, a man, and next to it a blue square, a woman, and connect the husband and wife on top with a jumper. This is a mirror pattern if you hold the sheet facing you. If you imagine your ancestors behind you, the opposite will happen. On the right is masculine energy, on the left is feminine.
Rite of clan purification
This ritual is performed on the waning moon, immediately after the full moon (starting from the 17th lunar day). You need to choose any Tuesday from the full moon to the new moon: the plot is read on the night from Tuesday to Wednesday. You need to purchase blessed candles and holy water from the church in advance. You should also have 2 mirrors: one should be placed on the table in front of you, and the second should hang on the wall behind you (or stand).
At midnight you should remain alone in the room, place the mirrors properly, place the holy word in a bowl, light 3 candles, put on a long nightgown. After preparations, the Our Father and the Theotokos are read three times (the icons certainly stand next to each other).
The plot is read while looking into your own eyes, so the text should be learned by heart. You need to look closely, blinking as little as possible:
After reading the plot, you need to wash yourself with holy water three times right in front of the mirror. You need to wipe your face with the hem of your nightgown. After this, it is recommended to sit for a while in front of the mirror, looking at your reflection. The candles must burn out completely and cannot be extinguished.
On the first Sunday after the reprimand, you need to go to church and buy 12 candles: place 3 in front of the icon of the Mother of God, 3 - in front of the icon of Christ, 3 - in front of the icon of the Trinity, 3 - in front of the icon of Panteleimon the healer. You need to thank in your own words for the curse being lifted.
Pray for every ancestor
Light a candle in a candlestick and place your left palm on the edge near the candle, holding it. Place your right hand one at a time on the square indicating the ancestor for whom you will read the prayer at that moment.
First, read a prayer for yourself; you can ask God in any form to cleanse your body and spirit.
Then pray for the ancestors in turn:
- first dedicate the prayer to your father and mother (we always reprimand the husband and wife in turn, starting with the man);
- then - to all paternal ancestors;
- on the maternal side.
Having chosen a member of the clan, you can begin the prayer like this:
- I pray for an ancestor in ... (second, third, etc.) generation (father, my father’s father, my grandfather’s father, my great-grandfather’s father, my great-great-grandfather’s father, my great-great-great-grandfather’s father or, accordingly, my father’s mother, etc.) .d.) I thank him for loving and giving life to my father... (grandmother, etc.) and passing on to me through him the tradition that comes from the creation of the world. I forgive him for his sins, voluntary and involuntary, which resonated in my soul, blessed memory and the kingdom of heaven to him. I pray for him and ask for the purification of all his plans, even the spiritual. Amen.
If you know the names and dates of birth of your ancestors, you need to name them.
When you pray to your ancestors in the sixth and seventh generations, you should mention in your prayer:
- I pray for a male (female) ancestor in ... generation on my father's (mother's) side...
If, while reprimanding an ancestor, the candle begins to smoke or splash, or you begin to falter in prayer, you need to read the prayer again until you say it smoothly, without hesitation, or until the candle stops smoking. This means that some important situations of the past are being cleansed.
Images and visions may come to you - this is normal, this strengthens the connection with your ancestors. Pay attention to your feelings and sensations from each relative. Note whose family it was easier for you to reprimand, what images and thoughts came to each of the relatives.
Safety precautions
After completing the prayer for the ancestors, be sure to take a shower.
Usually after this ritual fatigue sets in, it is necessary to rest on this day.
If you have already performed such a ritual, please share your experience in the comments.
Prayer for the forgiveness of sins of a kind
Psalm 90
He who lives with the help of the Most High will settle under the roof of the heavenly God. He will say to the Lord: “You are my intercessor and my refuge, my God, I trust in You.” He will deliver you from the snare of fishers and from rebellious words. He will protect you with His shoulders, and you will be safe under His wings. His truth will protect you with a shield. You will not be afraid of the terror of the night, the arrow that flies by day, the plague that walks in the darkness, the plague that devastates at noon. A thousand will fall at your side, and ten thousand to your right, but they will not come close to you. You will only look with your eyes and see the reward for sinners. For you said: “The Lord is my hope.” You have chosen the Most High as your refuge. No evil will come to you, and no plague will come near your dwelling, for He commanded His angels to guard you in all your ways. They will take you in their arms so that you do not stumble with your foot on a stone. You will tread on the asp and the basilisk, and you will trample the lion and the serpent. “Because he trusted in Me, I will deliver him, I will hide him, for he has known My name. I am with him in sorrow: he will call upon Me, and I will hear him, I will deliver him and glorify him, I will satisfy him with long days and show him My salvation.”
Psalm 50 (repentance)
Have mercy on me, O God, according to Your great mercy and according to the multitude of Your mercies, cleanse my iniquity. Wash me often from my iniquity and cleanse me from my sin, for I am aware of my iniquity, and my sin is always before me. You alone have I sinned and done evil before You, so that You will be righteous in Your judgment and will be victorious when You judge. For behold, I was conceived in iniquities, and my mother gave birth to me in sins. You loved the truth: You showed me the unknown and secret of Your wisdom. Sprinkle me with hyssop, and I will be clean; wash me, and I will become whiter than snow. Bring joy and gladness to my hearing, and humble bones will rejoice. Turn Your face away from my sins and cleanse my iniquities. Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me. Do not cast me away from Your presence and do not take Your Holy Spirit from me. Restore to me the joy of Your salvation and strengthen me with the Sovereign Spirit. I will teach the wicked Your ways, and the wicked will turn to You.
Deliver me from (shedding) blood, O God, God of my salvation! And my tongue will joyfully praise Your righteousness. God! Open my mouth, and they will declare Your praise. If You wanted a sacrifice, I would give it, (but) You do not favor a burnt offering. A sacrifice to God is a broken spirit; God will not despise a contrite and humble heart. Bless Zion, O Lord, according to Your good pleasure, and may the walls of Jerusalem be built. Then you will be pleased with the sacrifice of righteousness, the wave offering and the burnt offering, then they will lay bulls on Your altar.
Symbol of faith
I believe in one God the Father, Almighty, Creator of heaven and earth, visible to all and invisible. And in one Lord Jesus Christ, the Son of God, the only begotten, who was born of the Father before all ages; Light from Light, true God from true God, born, uncreated, consubstantial with the Father, to Whom all things were. For our sake, man and our salvation came down from heaven and became incarnate from the Holy Spirit and the Virgin Mary, and became human. She was crucified for us under Pontius Pilate, and suffered and was buried. And he rose again on the third day according to the Scriptures. And ascended into heaven, and sits at the right hand of the Father. And again the coming one will be judged with glory by the living and the dead, His Kingdom will have no end. And in the Holy Spirit, the Life-Giving Lord, who proceeds from the Father, Who with the Father and the Son is worshiped and glorified, who spoke the prophets. Into one Holy, Catholic and Apostolic Church. I confess one baptism for the remission of sins. I hope for the resurrection of the dead and the life of the next century. Amen.
Prayer beads
Such rosaries with beads according to the number of members of your clan (as in a family tree) are convenient in the practice of praying: you sort through the beads and at the same time read a prayer for each member of your clan (for some - for health, for others - for peace).
In the Vedic tradition, it is believed that for each special practice or worship of deities, one should have separate ritual objects - this allows the energy to more effectively achieve its purpose. A rosary can serve as such an item: every time you hold such homemade rosary in your hands, they will attune and connect you with your family.
To make rosaries, you will need beads of different colors and sizes: red beads for the men of the clan, blue beads for the women of the clan, different ones for the living and the deceased. They can be made of different materials so that you can distinguish by touch which ancestor you are reading a prayer for (man, woman, living or deceased). String one bead, different from the others, to represent yourself.
It is good to use natural materials: wooden or stone beads. It is considered favorable to use fragrant expensive varieties of wood or precious and semi-precious stones as beads: pearls, jade, rubies, agate, crystal, cachalong, carnelian. You can use iron, copper, bronze, silver and even ceramic (be careful: the beads may be fragile). In the Buddhist tradition, bodhi seeds are considered the best, in the Hindu tradition - rudraksha. It is undesirable to use bone rosaries, since they already have the imprint of the death energy of a living being. Plastics and other synthetic materials should be avoided.
For stringing, choose linen, hemp, cotton thread or waxed cord. Before you start creating the rosary, ask for blessings from higher powers, express your intention for what purpose you are making the rosary. Take care of a “home” for your rosary: it is good to store them in a bag made of opaque natural fabric.
How to pray for your family
You should know that desire alone is not enough.
To change anything, or, even more so, to pray away something, you need great inner strength. And this inner strength must be greater than the negativity that you will have to face. Only then can the family be helped.
But even if a person is strong, he will inevitably help his family. And so it is.
What is needed to atone for the sins of the family?
- A burning desire to understand this topic;
- Build spiritual strength in yourself. There are different ways to do this: prayer, meditation, developing faith;
- Deal with a similar topic in yourself, your life, help other people in this regard;
- Agree to work with this topic for a long time. And this could be years of life;
- And consistently, which is important and desirable. It is important that your help coincides with the purpose - yours and your soul.
How to atone for the sins of the family?
First of all, you need to be aware of the sin itself and collect enough information in your family about cases of identical errors. After all, there is a truth: “informed means armed.”
Also, to do this, you should help yourself and your ancestors on several levels at once:
- On the spiritual. This is a prayer to God - that God will help the family to recognize this sin and overcome it. God's power gives the opportunity and strength to overcome mistakes, but will not do it for us. You should know this.
- On the personal and social. Help your loved ones, both by your own example and through conversations, to realize your mistakes and make a decision to change your life in the right direction.
- At behavioral and physical levels. Perform actions that will make life easier for everyone in the family, take care of loved ones at this level. Buy medicine, build churches and hospitals, help children. To be with loved ones and relatives, to help them in their rehabilitation.
And in the end, I will note that in each family there was everything - both bad and good, but it depends only on us what will manifest itself through us. We are the very point through which mistakes, sins of our parents or luck, joy and love will be broadcast.
Make a choice soon and change yourself.
As a result, the entire family will change. And there will be happiness around you. A consultation with a psychologist will help you discover negative birth scenarios and learn to overcome them.
Prayer from a lonely lot
A lonely female lot is also a consequence of a generational curse, so it is imperative to carry out a ritual of reprimand. Prayer will also help against infertility if a woman cannot give birth. To reprimand you need to buy a new headscarf (cotton or silk), an icon of the Mother of God “Seven Arrows,” and a church candle. The reprimand is carried out on the waning moon, possibly immediately after the full moon.
At home, cover the table with a clean tablecloth or piece of material. Place a folded scarf in the center, an icon on it, and a lit candle next to it. Read Our Father three times, Our Lady three times. Then read the Seven Shot prayer 12 times:
After this, wrap the icon in a scarf and place it under your pillow for 3 days and nights. No one should see this package or touch it with their hands. Then the icon is placed on the home altar, and the head is covered with a scarf for 2 hours (minimum). This scarf should be worn regularly (at home), even after marriage and the birth of children. Remember this. You also need to regularly light candles for the Seven Arrows icon, read a prayer and thank the Mother of God for her help and blessing. For the rest of my life. The icon should always be in the house - it is a talisman of family happiness.
