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Every person at least once in his life has personally experienced such a painful phenomenon as a serious quarrel with loved ones. But sometimes this disagreement can turn into something more terrible and destructive - into enmity.
But is it possible to reconcile people through prayer? Which Saints should be contacted in this case? How to properly prepare for reading such prayer texts? What to do if the husband cannot get along with his wife, or the relatives refuse to make a reasonable compromise with each other? What other Orthodox ways are there to restore peace between family and friends?
Detailed answers to each of the above questions are available in our article.
Prayer for quarrels and scandals in the family
Prayers for reconciliation with a spouse are selected depending on the causes of scandals and quarrels.
If this is due to drunkenness, then they pray before the icon of the Mother of God “The Inexhaustible Chalice” or before the icon of Panteleimon the Healer.
In the temple you can buy a small icon in front of which you can read prayers, but this does not mean that you need to do nothing and refuse professional help from a narcologist or psychiatrist, especially if your spouse gives up and behaves inappropriately.
Prayer for quarrels in the family only helps if you both can correct the situation on your own.
Although in some cases miracles happen and even those relationships that are simply impossible to restore return. But this is rare, and more often it is worth taking action, especially if the husband not only raises scandals, but also fights and offends his wife and children.
In such a situation, reconciliation may not occur and no prayers will help, therefore, if you have at least a little respect for yourself and your children, then take care of your own and others’ safety. And it’s better not to put up with such a brawler and jealous person, but to divorce.
So if prayer doesn’t help, then there may be a hidden hint in this that you need to divorce such a person and stop torturing both yourself and him.
It is important to know: even a married marriage is dissolved by the church in case of infidelity, drug addiction, drunkenness or mental disorders, since it can be dangerous for you, and for your children and those closest to you.
It’s a different matter when it comes to minor quarrels and grievances that young families constantly face. In this case, you can and should read prayers if you want to maintain good relationships in the family. This is who should read prayers to reconcile spouses.
How to restore peace between relatives?
Hostility among relatives is not uncommon. It has a detrimental effect not only on the warring parties, but also on other relatives. But how to restore peace between relatives? As mentioned above, the best way for a sincere Christian believer is to periodically read a strong prayer for reconciliation. If the faith of the person praying is strong, peace and prosperity will soon reign in the house.
In addition, you can try knowledgeable ways to reconcile people dear to your heart:
- Talk to them, try to explain to each of them the opponent’s position. However, you need to act carefully - if the conflicting people are very angry, then they may quarrel with those who are trying to help them;
- Go to church with them or yourself, light candles for the health of those in conflict;
- Distract loved ones from the quarrel, spend cultural leisure time with them - first with each individual, and then carefully suggest a general meeting.
In any case, the main thing is not to overdo it. It also happens that passions boil over, and good relations between warring people are quickly restored. And if you help them with sincere prayer, this will happen even faster.
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Prayer for harmony between husband and wife
The main guardian of family relationships is the Mother of God. It is her feminine influence and holiness that help save a marriage and improve relationships between spouses.
Some prayers are read in front of the icon of Saints Peter and Fevronia.
The Holiday of Love and Fidelity is celebrated on July 8 and on this day spouses can make peace and start all over again. Especially if their family already has children and they need to maintain the relationship, at least in order not to traumatize them. You can read prayers for the Day of Love and Fidelity. They are considered a strong talisman against troubles and help spouses achieve holiness and reconcile.
But although prayers help, they do not exclude self-development. Therefore, about how best to make peace with your husband and whether it is worth doing this, you should consult with your confessor or read good psychological literature.
There are a lot of articles written on the Internet about the relationship between husband and wife, how best to improve it and what is best to do, so try to analyze the reasons for this behavior and try to cope with all the difficulties yourself.
The Lord will definitely help, even if not immediately, those who really want to maintain a relationship with their husband and feel like a happy person.
Young family support
Often, a family that has just embarked on the path of family life is filled with quarrels. During this period of life, spouses establish everyday life with each other, forming the very foundation of their union. Due to a lack of life experience, negative things happen. No one wants to adapt, but it is necessary to do this, to some extent, while maintaining feelings and prudence.
In the first stages of family life, the Psalter can help you. Read the psalms along with the prayers. The Psalms can tell you what decisions to make in a given situation. Say the following holy psalms:
- Provides support and assistance in maintaining wisdom during a difficult period of time and protects from rash actions - Psalm 43;
- Helps overcome enemies - Psalm 45;
- Helps restore mutual respect - Psalm 54;
- Associated with strengthening the family union, increasing the good forces in it - Psalm 116;
- Directs us to realize the importance of mutual concessions - Psalm 126.
It is necessary to say prayers constantly. Each time you read the psalms, you will discover their meaning from a new perspective. Thanks to higher powers, you will make the right decision.
Strong Orthodox prayer to make peace with your husband
The most powerful prayer for spouses to reconcile is the prayer to Peter and Fevronia.
You can read the akathist to these spouses, since this is the only married couple who accepted holiness.
And, although their marriage can hardly be an example for modern spouses, they will be able to make peace if they read her prayers.
Prayer for reconciliation of spouses to Matrona of Moscow
This saint was naturally endowed with the gift of foreseeing events. Throughout her life, she suggested who is better to marry and who not to start a relationship with, helped to see people and gave advice and tips to achieve success and get married safely.
Despite the NKVD and atheism, almost all people in Russia tried to visit her, and she always managed to hide from her pursuers thanks to her gift.
Today you can pray to Matrona of Moscow if family problems or quarrels between spouses arise. But prayer will not help if you are both to blame for what happened.
This requires preliminary repentance - only this will help prevent all family troubles and further negativity. And, if your spouse decides to divorce, then prayers, although not immediately, will help you either get him back or find a more suitable person just for you.
Who to pray to
When difficult times come in your married life, you need prayer for reconciliation with your loved one. Therefore, she must cry out to the Lord for help. He will hear our prayer through patrons associated with the family hearth. There are quite a lot of them in Orthodoxy, you will be heard.
Jesus Christ
If you want to preserve family happiness, pray to the Savior. You need to come to the temple and buy 3 blessed candles, go to the icons of the Most Holy Theotokos and Jesus Christ. Before the faces of these saints they say the prayer “Our Father” three times, as soon as you have completed it, then begin to read the prayer for reconciliation with your husband.
Required words:
Lord Jesus Christ, son of God. Descend to us who ask, and forgive all sinful acts. Have mercy and defeat the enmity between your servants (names of the warring ones). Cleanse their souls from filth and the power of the devil, protect them from evil people and envious eyes. May Your will be done now, and forever, and forever and ever. Amen.
There is another prayer addressing Jesus Christ:
Jesus Christ, help me bring peace to my family, help me, for the sake of all that is holy, to reconcile with my husband, let him agree with me. Let us live in harmony and love, let everything unnecessary go away from our lives, let him love me deeply and not swear in vain. Amen, amen, amen.
Prayer for the reconciliation of spouses to the Mother of God
The most powerful prayer to the Mother of God is considered to be the prayer before the icon of “Unexpected Joy.”
It is she who helps spouses reconcile or takes away from you a person who can cause you harm and suffering.
It is this prayer that is considered the most powerful, helping to prevent various sorrows, illnesses and mutual grievances of spouses against each other.
To help warring spouses
Many girls believe that if “I am to blame” for a quarrel, then it is necessary to read some kind of conspiracies for reconciliation. It is worth saying right away that the church does not welcome any rituals, witchcraft, magic, or the reading of dubious prayers.
Deep faith in God, hope for help, sincerity, a pure soul will help you “reach heaven.” Therefore, you should not read any conspiracies - only Orthodox prayers.
It also won’t hurt one of the spouses to go to church and order a prayer service for the eradication of anger and the increase of love. You can order it at any temple. The note must include the names of both spouses.
Next, you should light candles at the icons of the Virgin Mary, Jesus Christ and other saints. It doesn’t hurt to pray at each image and ask for help. It is not necessary to memorize the words of the petition. It is enough to pray sincerely in your own words.
The holy fathers also recommend that spouses read psalms, which strengthen family ties and are an inexhaustible source of worldly wisdom.
If there are any difficulties, then you need to read the following psalms:
- Psalm 43 – protects against hasty decisions and conclusions, gives the opportunity to reflect on what has been done and gives wisdom in resolving various family troubles;
- 45 – protects against homewreckers;
- Psalm 54 - after reading it, the spouses treat each other with respect;
- 116 – brings kindness, love, respect to the family;
- 126 – gives spouses the opportunity to think about their actions every time, learn to give in and respect each other.
You can read them both at home and in church. If this happens at home, then the environment is very important. Go to another room, dim the lights, light a candle and look at the light for a minute. This will help you concentrate.
Pray, driving away negative thoughts from yourself. If hatred and resentment predominate in the soul, then it is better to postpone conversion until calm comes.
It is also important that the prayer is said with faith within, a pure heart, good thoughts and an open soul.
There must be an icon of the Mother of God and Jesus.
