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Different situations happen in life: good and not so good. One of the most unpleasant situations can be divorce or the departure of one of the spouses from the family. When a woman leaves her family, this has a very negative impact on a man’s life. They are going through this period with difficulty. It is difficult for them to find themselves and continue to live an ordinary life.
This problem can be solved in different ways. Some of them are on the Internet. It must be remembered that each proposed method has its own negative impact. Which one to choose is only your decision.
But you must always believe that the Lord will not leave you in trouble and will answer all your requests with grace. Faith should always be in your life.
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The meaning of prayer
What is the meaning of prayer? And is there a prayer for the wife to return to her husband? In the Orthodox understanding, prayer is communication between man and God. There are generally accepted prayers that are used by Christians at various points in their lives. For example, prayers of repentance express before the Lord contrition for sins and a firm intention not to repeat them. Such texts are intended to console the person praying and remind him of the boundless mercy of God.
Prayer
We return our beloved
No marriage is complete without quarrels and problems. Usually men endure them steadfastly, because they are confident that their beloved will never leave them. But situations are different, and now the house is empty without a female presence, and the chances of returning everything to normal are becoming less and less every day. Of course, a man will try to try all the ways he knows to regain the affection of his wife or girlfriend. However, they are not always effective. And then the only option left is to turn to higher powers. Here everyone chooses their own method, so some go to church, while others begin to cast magic. Yes, don't be surprised. Men cast spells no less often than women, but they are in no hurry to admit it. Many of them turn to professional magicians and sorcerers, but most still strive to solve the problem on their own, taking the text of the conspiracy on the Internet. It is for this category of unhappy lovers that we have prepared the material in this article.
Depending on the chosen method of action, the man will use certain tools. A fairly wide arsenal is available to him. When we talk about going to church, prayer will need to be used. There are several texts designed to work to get your wife back. Strong prayers work best within church walls, here they receive additional energy. It gives them great strength. If it is easier for a man to turn to magic, then he has even more tools to influence his beloved. Rituals, rituals, conspiracies and texts of pagan appeals to spirits and ancient gods become available to him.
To return your wife, a prayer or ritual must be chosen correctly. Only under this condition will they work in full force. Therefore, before using an appeal to higher powers, you need to think and understand the problem.
Why is prayer needed?
You can also joyfully praise and thank the Almighty through prayer or ask Him for help. And help not only to fight passions and save the soul. But also to overcome various everyday difficulties. These include family conflicts. Christians pray for the spiritual and temporal well-being of their loved ones. And also for facilitating the afterlife fate of the souls of the dead.
We are called to pray even for our earthly enemies, becoming like Christ:
“But I say to you: love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who despitefully use you and persecute you” (Matthew 5:44).
After all, the most effective way to confront human evil is love and forgiveness.
So, there can be many reasons for prayer in our lives. But any appeal to God is based on the desire to get closer to Him, to feel His grace and support. Therefore, you can even pray in your own words. But this must be done sincerely, with faith and humble acceptance of the will of the Almighty. After all, we don’t always get what we ask for.
Priest Valery Dukhanin points out that it is not so important to receive something earthly through our prayers. The main thing is that the process of communication with God takes place. St. John Climacus urged not to consider even seemingly fruitless prayers useless:
“Merely remaining in prayer is already an acquisition. What good is greater than this - to cleave to the Lord and remain unceasingly in union with Him” (“The Ladder”).
Tips for getting your wife back as soon as possible
How to quickly return your wife with prayers? Those who have gone through this test give effective advice in their reviews.
First of all, you need to let your wife go from your mind and heart. Of course, this is difficult to do, but still wish your beloved all the best in your mind and try not to turn the thought of her return into an obsession.
There is no need to look for those to blame. Prayer to return your wife after divorce, infidelity or a serious quarrel is possible only without mutual reproaches. You can’t even mentally admit the thought of your own or someone else’s guilt.
If you are already thinking about how to return your wife’s love through prayer, then turn to God daily. Do not expect that after the first reading of the prayer texts you will get results. The Lord helps only those who do not give in to despair and are persistent in faith.
Don't forget the Bible in your prayers. Reading it calms you down and puts you in the right mood. Also in the Bible you can find many examples of preserving the family even in the most difficult situations. Therefore, do not neglect the sacred text, which contains real wisdom.
Prayer is not a magical ritual
There are no texts for “bewitchment” in Orthodoxy. It is unacceptable to perceive prayer as a magic spell. In this case, there can be no talk of any reverent and humble appeal to God. The desired fruits are brought not by the automatic recitation of the prayer, but by the heartfelt participation and spiritual state of the person praying.
Magic spells designed to subjugate a person are an attempt to interfere with someone else's free will. And perhaps, according to the will of the Lord. In any case, occult practices are an ungodly activity and a grave sin:
“Do not turn to those who summon the dead, and do not go to wizards, and do not bring yourself to the point of being desecrated by them. I am the Lord your God” (Lev. 19:31).
Magic is an appeal not to God, but to dark spirits.
The desire to attract another person with spells is not based on acceptance of the will of the Almighty, but on selfishness and complacency. Such a “prayer” for a wife to return to her husband can only be used to satisfy her own desires. A genuine appeal to God seeks to subordinate one’s will to His Providence. Priest Valery Dukhanin emphasizes that God's providence
“looks for the maximum revelation of goodness in a person and, accordingly, a good attitude towards all other people.”
A frivolous, inattentive attitude to prayer is also unacceptable. What is needed is moral effort, overcoming sinful inclinations and laziness, which prevent the soul from approaching the Lord. According to Archbishop Anthony (Golynsky-Mikhailovsky), the devil is especially afraid of attentive prayer,
“because he knows that through this all his [the devil’s] tricks are revealed to the human mind” (“On the Jesus Prayer and Divine Grace”).
Why did my husband leave for someone else?
There is a generally accepted and encouraged by society stereotype that the husband is to blame, because he is, so to speak, an adulterer and a scoundrel. There is a radical view where everything is to blame for the wife, who did not please her husband and almost forced him to look for a replacement.
But for some reason it is forgotten that marriage is a union of a couple, and not of just one person. It follows that responsibility (not guilt, but responsibility!) is borne by both. Both spouses may have the same type of gaps in behavior and perception, which leads to conflicts, which can result in the destruction of the marriage.
These may be the following traits, which, as a rule, arise mutually and are not accompanied by the correct reaction:
- Infantility.
- Developmental inhibition.
- Self-dislike.
Infancy
If one of the spouses constantly requires attention to himself and all kinds of courtship (this could be constant ironing of socks, a delicious dinner every evening, accompaniment in any situation, etc.), then he has not yet grown up and was released from the sandbox early .
So he miraculously started a family in which he behaves like a small child who doesn’t really want to grow up. Of course, the second spouse will perform the function of a parent and take care of the first. Here the man will go to his mistress because he has found a woman instead of a mother/daughter (depending on the existing family structure). You can return someone like this, but without careful preliminary work on yourself, it can end in another beautiful and wise skirt.
Developmental inhibition
In situations where one wants to develop and grow further, and the other is lazy and is looking for any excuse not to take care of himself, then there are two ways out. Either the marriage ends up breaking up, or the spouses are trying to adapt. As a rule, such an adaptation also entails the destruction of the union. If one spouse pulls the other, he will not stand it for long.
When a loved one finally wakes up and also decides to take care of himself, the marriage can become truly happy and insured against any adversity and betrayal. But if suddenly the second half begins to pull the developing half down with it... There will be either degradation of both as individuals or, again, a break.
Self-dislike
Everything is obvious. If you don't love yourself, then why should anyone else love you? In this case, returning your husband to the family, if he nevertheless decides to leave, is possible only when you accept yourself as a person and as a woman.
Don't confuse self-love with unhealthy selfishness! Self-obsession is also a sign of infantile behavior that will not lead to a happy family.
Is there a prayer in Orthodoxy for a wife to return to her husband?
There is no special prayer for the return of a wife in Orthodoxy. After all, the Lord respects human freedom and does not force anyone to be with Him. But nothing forbids you to independently pray to God for the integrity of marriage and family well-being, humbly relying on His will. In such cases, prayers for increasing love and eradicating hatred will come in handy. The Monk Arsenios of Cappadocia instructed Christians with similar problems to also read Psalms 10 and 43.
Archpriest Andrei Efanov, answering the question “how to return a wife to the family through prayers,” advises turning to the Lord with a request to reveal the cause of the family conflict. It is much easier to solve a problem if you know its root. It is also not at all necessary to pray specifically for the person’s return. First of all, you need to ask God to fulfill His holy will. And the Lord knows better exactly how to make us happy. After all, what we ask from God is not always good for us. Sometimes the Lord does not fulfill a desire just out of love for the person asking. If a person stubbornly demands the fulfillment of his own will, placing it above God’s, this is fraught with sad consequences. The Lord may yield to such persistent requests for admonition. And the person will understand why he did not receive what he asked for so long.
A clear example of dangerous willful begging for something from God is given by priest Dimitry Sinyavin. He was told about a woman who too persistently asked God for her son’s early release from military service. Her request was fulfilled, and her son was released six months earlier. But two weeks later he was killed in a fight. The women realized that her incorrect prayer led to the tragedy. So, our requests to God should always end with the words “If it is Your holy will, Lord.”
Prayer for the return of a loved one. Who should I pray to?
Orthodox believers know that prayer can protect a person from various troubles, protect him from negative energy and return prosperity to his home, heal him from illness and save him from robbers. If a loved one suddenly, after a minor quarrel, has cooled down or completely stopped paying attention or answering calls, you should turn to the saints for help. The same should be done if a family is destroyed.
The prayer for the return of a wife to her husband or a spouse to the family reads:
- Lord Jesus Christ.
- Mother of God.
- Saint Matrona of Moscow.
- Nicholas the Wonderworker.
- Holy martyrs Guria, Samon and Aviv.
- Loving spouses Peter and Fevronia.
Under no circumstances should you resort to witchcraft, magic, or slander. We must always remember that a love spell is a type of damage, inducing dark forces onto a loved one. On the contrary, the sacred text cleanses from everything negative. If someone used a spell against a loved one, then a prayer for the husband to return home will remove all negativity from him and love and respect will return to his hearts.
A strong prayer for the return of a loved one to the saints Peter and Fevronia
In the 15th century, the spouses Peter and Fevronia reigned in Murom. They loved each other all their lives, led righteous lives and helped many people. Their life became a model of marital fidelity. With faith in their hearts and prayer, they died in one day and one hour. After death, having become saints, they patronize lovers and help families maintain good relations among themselves.
They turn to the saints Prince Peter and Princess Fevronia when it is necessary to strengthen the family, protect the marriage from the action of evil forces and witchcraft, a prayer is read to them for the reconciliation of spouses after a quarrel.
Love spell
Cheating on the woman he loves is a heavy blow for a man, which is very difficult to survive. But such behavior means that the wife has lost interest in her husband and is experiencing passion for another person. If you are ready to forgive your loved one’s actions and continue your relationship with her, then do not wait until she makes the final decision about divorce and leaves you. Despite the fact that mentally the wife has already left the family, you can return her with a very simple love spell. It is made with water, which perfectly absorbs any information.
Before going to bed in the same bed as a woman, you need to say the following words into a glass of ordinary tap water.
This is done three times. Then the water is placed at the head of the bed. Before you fall asleep, imagine intimacy with your wife for as long as possible and in the most vivid colors. The more detailed these pictures are in your head, the faster the result will appear.
After waking up, you need to adjust the situation in such a way as to pour the contents of the glass in equal parts onto yourself and your wife. Soon your beloved will begin to experience an irresistible desire for intimacy with you. Besides you, she will no longer be able to think about any male person.
Conspiracy on a photograph
Very often, lovers are separated not by irreversible actions, but by simple misunderstandings. It gives rise to grievances, which lead to the breakup of the family. If this is how your wife or girlfriend left you, then perform the ritual over her photograph. This conspiracy is considered very effective, and the result after it comes quite naturally.
If you look at a photograph from a magical angle, it is a clot of energy. When exposed to it, a strong connection is formed between the person performing the ritual and the one depicted in the picture.
For a conspiracy, take a joint photo where there are no strangers. If there are no similar pictures, make a collage by combining individual pictures into one joint one. But keep in mind that the photo must be in paper form. Digital photography does not carry any energy.
You need to start reading the plot on the waxing moon. After midnight, pick up the photo and say the words below.
They need to be spoken for at least a week. In just a few days you will notice how your girlfriend’s behavior has changed.
How to ask the saints
Before you start reading prayer texts, you must comply with the following points:
- Adhere to a strict 7-day fast (do not eat spicy, salty, fatty, fried foods, as well as flour and sweets). During this period, you must not take drugs, alcoholic beverages, or smoke.
- You should abstain from sexual contact for 1 week.
- You cannot attend entertainment events and establishments for 7 days.
- It is not recommended to read the prayer text in a bad mood or during illness. This will not bring the desired effect, but will only aggravate the situation, since such a ritual will require a lot of energy, and during illness its level decreases significantly.
- It is best to carry out such rituals in a church, but if this is not possible, then you can do it at home, purchasing in advance all the necessary attributes (icons, candles, etc.).
- You need to tune in to a positive mood, discard all obsessive thoughts, fully concentrating on the process. It is easier to do this in a temple, because its atmosphere is conducive to this.
