Family relationships are, unfortunately, not only mutual understanding and love. These are also quarrels, scandals, insults, disappointments. In general, anything can happen. So what should we do? How to teach your husband a lesson for disrespect? Advice from psychologists will help you understand this situation. After all, under no circumstances should we let such a situation take its course.
How to teach your husband a lesson for disrespect? Advice from psychologists: gather your thoughts
It is, of course, unpleasant for every woman to hear insults addressed to her. Naturally, there is a desire to insult in return or completely stop communicating with this person forever. The situation is completely different when humiliation and insults come from one’s own spouse. Firstly, his words hurt much more painfully. After all, he knows perfectly well how and where to “hit” you with a word in order to hurt and hook you more precisely. Secondly, leaving and not returning is much more difficult. You are still connected by marriage, children, friends and relatives, common living space, financial dependence. Thinking about what to do in this situation, a woman, as a rule, begins to rush from side to side. But he can’t decide on a certain rational action. This can go on for years. But this is simply unbearable. You need to figure out how to teach your husband a lesson for disrespect. The advice of psychologists in this case will be very helpful. First of all, you need to decide not “what to do,” but “what will happen if you do something, but incorrectly.”
A conspiracy to force an ill-wisher to harm himself
In critical situations, when a colleague is overly self-confident, omoroka is used. A special ritual for brain clouding.
Black grain is full of darkness. Release the scarlet color of mischievous troubles. Freeze your thoughts so they freeze. Create a mess so that your plans are of no use. Like a foolish child, like a mad creature, the enemy (name) will become an evil face. He babbles nonsense, dressed in a hundred clothes. Gives speeches when no one asks. He listens to the words, but no one understands. Amen.
What is the reason?
So, let's act! How to teach your husband a lesson for disrespect? The advice of psychologists may be different, but all experts unanimously say that it is necessary to identify the essence of what is happening, the reason for such behavior.
In most cases, women believe that the reason lies in themselves. Either they “didn’t have time” for something, or they “didn’t do it,” or they “didn’t please.” Either they are “bad mothers,” or “bad cooks,” or “unkind wives.” In fact, this is not the case at all. These are just reasons for the spouse to find fault and throw out his negativity. The real reason lies in the fact that the husband is sadistic in this couple on purpose. He takes pleasure in humiliating the weak. It is impossible to confuse a sadist with any other person. We are all human, of course. Everyone can sometimes swear and be rude. However, in the case of a sadist, everything is completely different. His insults are filled with horrific filth. The vocabulary contains expressions intended not just to call a person, but to offend, cause pain, and humiliate.
Plot: shut the enemy's mouth. Protection from evil tongues
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CONSPIRACY TO SHUT THE MOUTH OF ENEMIES“I’m going to God’s judgment, and a coffin is being carried to meet me, closed with 12 locks and 12 doors. Let us close our teeth and lips, Lord (name). Amen. Amen. Amen"
Everything you say must be presented as clearly as possible.
Works very well for me. It just doesn't last very long. Every time before meeting a scandalous person, or before some sort of showdown, I read these words.
Once I went to work with a client (I had to tell my proposal and how it was better than the proposals of competitors, I met 2 times before, and he never gave me a word, he always rattled on himself, and then just threw him out the door), on the way spoke these words. I sat with him for about 30 minutes, telling him. I drew diagrams, took away his calculator for calculations, he sat and didn’t open his mouth, he just listened and nodded!
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I’m going to court and they’re carrying a coffin towards me.
There is a castle ahead, closed with twelve locks, twelve doors.
So, Lord, close their teeth and lips.
Amen. Amen. Amen.
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the plot was twisted. I go to court and they carry a coffin towards me. There is a castle ahead, closed with twelve locks, twelve doors. So, Lord, close their teeth and lips. Amen. Amen. Amen.
Works great! Madame didn’t just shut her mouth - she didn’t show up at all to the one place where she usually shows her scandalousness, which is completely uncharacteristic for her. Simple and tasteful.
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When I was 15 years old, I came across this spell, I memorized it by heart, I still remember it and sometimes use it, only in this version:
“I’m going to court, a coffin is being carried towards me, there’s a castle in front, closed with 12 locks, 12 doors. So, Lord, close their teeth and lips. Amen. Amen. Amen."
It always works great.
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Who knows the ritual - spoiling “close your mouth” with a beef tongue and a nail. I can't find it anywhere at home. Previously, there was even dalal. Who has?
Share62013-06-16 11:43:50
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Who knows the ritual - the “close your mouth” spell with beef tongue and a nail. I can't find it anywhere at home. Previously, there was even dalal. Who has?
The main thing is to act!
As soon as you start thinking about how to teach your husband a lesson for disrespect, the advice of psychologists will become your best assistant. In principle, it is impossible to change such a spouse either with the help of persuasion, or with the help of conspiracies, or with the help of coding, or with the help of hypnosis, and certainly not servility to him will help. Accordingly, it makes no sense to expect that everything will work out and get better on its own. That is, it is necessary to take active action. It is not the husband who needs to be changed. It is necessary to seek protection for yourself and your children.
Fatal mistake
Not every woman thinks about how to teach her husband a lesson for disrespect. The fact is that representatives of the fairer sex are accustomed to adapting to different situations. To adversity in life as well. In addition, our women, due to the peculiarities of their mentality, are much more patient than elsewhere. It is not surprising that they are so simply and easily ready to accept humiliation and insults from a man, slowly getting used to them. And this, of course, is their fatal mistake.
By insulting and humiliating his wife, throwing nasty things at her, the husband deals a painful blow to her psyche. Even if she endures all this, it will not bring anything good. But the worst thing is that each time these attacks “take an upward course.” If initially this was the only rude word, then over time there will be a dozen of them. And then blows may follow. As a result, a woman cannot realize herself in life, hobbies, work, or feel joy and love. She can only expect further attacks every day.
What else will help?
Punishing the pest is not the most optimal approach. Requires large energy costs. They give from above so that they can rejoice and enjoy their stay on the planet. And you waste it on enmity.
There are alternative methods for destroying embittered individuals. Specifics:
It is not difficult to resist unfriendly attacks. Triumph pursues the strong. This refers to an unoccupied post or the ability to yell or put pressure. For final and irrevocable victory, inner confidence in one’s own rightness is necessary. Achieved by special practice. Ask yourself: “Am I obliged to tolerate rudeness, rudeness, insults?” The correct answer is: "No." Spiritual growth begins with it, followed by the invincible power of a harmonious personality. Good luck.
Video with the author's whisper from a conflict at work:
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A blow to children
But our children suffer the most from such violence. Unfortunately, among many women there is an opinion that for a child the presence of absolutely any father is very important - even a tyrant and despot, even a name-caller and humiliator, even an alcoholic, as long as there is one. Women console themselves with the fact that he is still their own father. They are even more confident of this if men do not touch children. They endure everything for the sake of marriage and financial assistance.
Naturally, this is a huge misconception. For a child, the mother is always the person who provides him with protection. If they yell at her and cause pain, it means that the baby loses his sense of security. Accordingly, he gets stressed. And this is fraught with negative consequences. Some children begin to steal and lie, others begin to fear death, and still others begin to torture animals.
People rarely connect problems with a child on the one hand and humiliation from a husband on the other. And in vain. The connection is the most direct. Therefore, a woman who wants to maintain peace in her family must definitely figure out how to teach her husband a lesson about disrespect. There are a lot of tips. The main thing is to choose exactly what you need. Stop at the best option.
If a man has cheated or is already dating another woman
You want to punish the cheater in a special way, so that he feels all the pain and resentment of the abandoned half. The best way to prick such a man is to sincerely rejoice at the fact of betrayal. “To be honest, I’m glad it all happened this way, and it was you who initiated the breakup. I stopped loving you a long time ago (I never really loved you), but I never had the courage to admit it to you,” “I’ve been looking for a reason to break up with you for a long time, because I fell in love with another man a long time ago, I’m sorry. But I truly wish you happiness, you deserve sincere love.” When a man hears such words, he experiences a whole range of feelings: anger, misunderstanding, disappointment, wild resentment. Therefore, no matter how much it hurts you, swallow your tears and say in an even voice what will morally finish off the traitor.
If he not only cheated, but is already in a relationship with another woman, try to punish the man by starting an affair with one of your mutual friends. This always hits below the belt.
Or you can punish a guy for insults through a new chosen one:
- Tell the girl (if she is adequate) about the guy’s actions, his character, bad behavior, etc. Even if she doesn’t believe it “here and now,” you will make her constantly think about it.
- If your new crush won’t listen to you or you simply don’t want to interfere in their relationship, ask an old mutual friend to do it for you. Surely you still have best friends from your previous company, right? Let the bravest and most talkative one slowly tell her new lover all the passions of your relationship and separation.
- If you are not afraid of scandals, act directly. You can punish a man for grievances by sending his new lover letters that he once dedicated to you. Jealousy has no expiration date, it is the weakness of every woman. Nothing will be lost from you, but a scandal will break out there.
- Create a real page with a photo of some stunning girl. Slowly join groups that a man is interested in, comment on his posts, flirt with him, ask to be his friend. Do not skimp on compliments, ambiguous phrases, exciting photographs. Everything he answers can act as compromising evidence for his relationship.
Or you can punish a traitor through a virtual page, killing a man’s self-esteem. Communicate, flirt, but then abruptly cut off communication. Just write goodbye: “Damn, you’re kind of boring. If I hadn’t seen your age, I would have thought that I was dealing with an 83-year-old man,” “I can’t stand narrow-minded people. No, someone also likes such guys, but it’s definitely not me.” Or you can play further with this page and make an appointment in a month. Make an appointment... and show up there yourself.
Now there are also many groups on the Internet that help punish female abusers. You join, tell your story, give your phone number and enjoy the result. They call the cheater at any time of the day or night, write intimate SMS from different numbers, lie in wait for his passion, can annoy him on social networks, etc. Such men then live a bitter life.
You can also write sweet letters from unfamiliar numbers in the evenings: “Thank you for that night,” “When will you come again?”, “You forgot something with me last time,” etc. Scenes of jealousy and tears in a couple are guaranteed . It’s a pity, of course, that another girl suffers for your grievances, but you will definitely be able to punish the man.
Most negative outcome
The most dire consequences can be expected if your children have a sound vector. The ears of such children are hypersensitive. That is, they generally require quiet sounds and calmness. If the father yells at the mother, and even throws humiliating words, such a child not only loses the sense of security like other children - he also receives a powerful blow to the most sensitive area. Hearing terrible screams, he may gradually lose contact with the outside world and withdraw into himself. This sometimes even leads to autism or schizophrenia.
In general, a woman, especially if she is a mother, needs to take care of her family. Take the necessary actions that could help in the current situation. In a word, do everything to ensure that the husband respects and appreciates his wife.
Effective rituals
Rituals from bad people
To get rid of ill-wishers, enemies and envious people, there is a simple text. It must be read three times. This conspiracy is aimed at getting rid of uncertainty, with the help of this you can make sure that the enemy lags behind forever. In the morning after waking up, read the words of the prayer three times:
“In my life there is a bad person (name) who is covetous and jealous of my house, cow, cat, dog. Let him suffer forever now. I will collect sand from the sea, I will take away your anger and hatred, I will destroy you. Just as it is impossible to count the trees and stars in the sky, just as it is impossible to drink sea water, so let this man not overcome me. Let his anger, slander and hatred ache in his joints, like the roots of a hundred-year-old tree. Let all troubles go back. And all words strike enemies like arrows. May my enemies leave me behind forever. Amen".
You can also read a text that will make not only the bad person get rid of you, but also be afraid of you. You need to read three times every day:
“Let it not be me who suffers, but you. Merciful God, protect me from the evil intentions of my enemies, take away their dark deeds directed against me. Their eye sockets are empty, and their bones are waxy. My strong prayer is against intrigue and unnecessary evil. Get away, adversary, from my path forever and ever. May what I have said come true on a bright day, in a good hour. And no one can destroy the spoken words.”
When a quarrel occurs with a person, you can mentally read a conspiracy that will help pacify him. It is important to learn the text by heart. The text is:
“Everything that is mine remains with me, all the evil of others returns to him. Dark thoughts enter your body and soul. Everything that is said and mentally said will come true.”
A powerful conspiracy from ill-wishers is read at sunset:
“Saint Elijah, hear the call and prayer, I urge you. Take away from me misfortunes and troubles, evil forces, visible and invisible, here and beyond. Heavenly forces, earthly and water forces, help me get rid of envious people and adversaries. Angels, lead the battle, help cope with the hated person. Whoever plans evil deeds, stop him; whoever wants to get rid of me, warn me. We defeat the evil force together, we do not allow it to disturb my peace and life, to enter my family and my home. Amen".
From an envious person
A conspiracy will help you get rid of an obsessive person if you use special magical attributes. One of the effective rituals against an unwanted person is the ritual with a scarf. The scarf will become a personal amulet, protection from enemies. The ritual should be performed before leaving the apartment. Read conspiracies from an unnecessary person, then wipe your face with it and hide it in your pocket. Repeat these steps daily. Spell text:
“Heavenly angels, servants of the Lord, protect me from the evil eye, evil corruption from my house. Whatever sticks to me, let it go into the scarf and have a negative impact only on my enemies. Let the scarf become a talisman and absorb all the evil directed in my direction.”
From unwanted people in the house
“I will cross the poppy seeds, I will not let evil enemies into my house. Whoever thinks badly of me, let all negative thoughts immediately return to him. Let all rituals be directed against enemies; whoever is jealous, let him be jealous, but don’t bother me.”
Next, sprinkle this charmed poppy near your threshold, gate, around the entire perimeter of the estate or apartment. This is an excellent protection against all sorts of ill-wishers. With the help of the enchanted poppy they also protect their farm by sprinkling it on the threshold of the barn.
From ill-wishers at work
If an unpleasant situation arose at work, the following ritual will help remove envious people and slanderers. To carry it out, you will need a photograph of people interfering with a quiet life. It is better if there is only one person in this photo. If this is a group photo, you need to cut out the enemy with scissors and use this attribute in the ritual. If you need to get rid of a group of ill-wishers, they work with a collective image.
Take a black thread, preferably silk or wool (it is important that it is natural). The following actions are performed according to this algorithm:
Collect and bury the ashes, while saying the following spell from the unwanted person:
“I will direct my will and strength, I will direct my strong words. Let all my adversaries reach a dead end in their dark affairs. Let my enemies take my hands off me, let them not be able to achieve their goals. I’ll wind up a black thread and destroy my enemy. Let the enemy suffer, but he cannot take my strength. He always gets lost and lags behind me. Let it be so".
From an evil boss
In magical actions there are options for pacifying the evil authorities. Also, from an unnecessary person, conspiracies will help in business to avoid too frequent checks. This ritual is performed near the cemetery gates. You will need the following items: a ball of sheep's wool, 3 dimes. At midnight, go to the cemetery, throw nickels outside the gate and say:
“Just as the dead do not live, so do not let the checks and attacks of the evil authorities touch me.”
Next, wrap a thread from a ball of wool around your hand and say:
“I walk the paths, confusing my enemies and evil bosses and commanders. Just as there are no living people here, let there be no anger and ridicule, deceit and aggression, malice and nit-picking in my life.”
Burn a skein of wool near the cemetery gate, saying:
“The paths are from me, not towards me. Evil people run away from me. They reach out to the dead. They don’t touch me, they don’t laugh at me, they don’t ridicule me. They won’t be able to take me away from the white light, but they will only grind their teeth in silence. Let it be so".
Go home without looking back and without talking to anyone.
Prayers to help
Prayer with candles will help drive away evil people both from the house and from the person himself. To carry out the ritual, you will need such attributes as three candles and a glass of holy water. In the evening, light candles near the glass, cross the water, drink it, and then read the following conspiracy, with the help of which we get rid of ailments, envious people and slanderers, and fight evil people:
“Merciful God, save and become protection from intrigues, gossip, intrigues, insidious plans and evil inventions, from sword and poison. Let not Muslim blades, prison and bribery, enemy forces strike me. Jesus, God and my guardian angels are with me. They protect me from inverted crosses. Amen"
Also, when faced with an obvious enemy, mentally protect yourself from him. To do this, imagine any element that stands between you. For example, a flame from a bright fire. Imagine how his negativity does not seep through the fire, but burns out. Or you can imagine a huge waterfall that does not allow negative thoughts to pass through. And an imaginary mirror that reflects negative energy messages is also effective.
Excessive attention
So, the next stage. You figured out the reasons and made conclusions. Now you need to decide how to teach your husband a lesson for disrespect. Psychology offers several methods. The main thing is to correctly define the task. If you still love your husband, you should not make him suffer. This task is so that he can realize his guilt, understand what mistake he made and what pain he caused.
Start giving him undue attention. Most likely, this will not be easy at all. However, it's still worth a try. Give compliments, pleasant surprises, have romantic dinners. For what? Looking at your efforts, your spouse will be able to understand that he really was wrong, that you are the best woman, that no one will ever take care of him the way you do. Having realized all this, he will begin to suffer from remorse and repent in the depths of his soul. And self-flagellation, as you know, is the best punishment. If your spouse only slightly offended you, do exactly that.
Inattention
Next method. How to teach your husband a lesson for disrespect? An effective method, the opposite of the one described above, is inattention on your part. If your husband doesn’t see how you try to please him and forgets about important dates, naturally, this is very offensive. However, do not shout or swear. Just keep quiet. He will definitely remember everything he forgot about.
Let's say your husband promised to be back for dinner. Without warning, he goes with friends to a cafe or bar. Do the same to him in revenge. Let him feel like he is in your place.
Has your spouse stopped thanking you for the food you prepared? Think fried potatoes are ordinary? Stop cooking for him altogether. Leave several times without breakfast, lunch or dinner.
Constantly talking about how you are doing nothing while sitting at home? Why endure slander? Sit at the computer or sit in front of the TV. Don't actually do anything. Let him know what it's like.
Do you want to teach your husband a lesson because he claims that you are “resting” on maternity leave? Leave it with your baby all day. Well, have a shopping day with your friends or visit a spa. It is unlikely that after this he will be able to say that caring for a child is simple and easy.
Statuses for social networks
Aphorisms and statuses about offense will help hint at your feelings and make a man repent. Here are some examples:
- “It’s better not to trust people at all than to feel such disappointment”;
- “I should have stayed away from you. It’s a pity that I didn’t listen to my mother”;
- “It’s a pity that you can truly get to know a person only after a serious conflict”;
- “Do you want to get to know a person better? Look how he behaves after a separation or divorce”;
- “There are people who are better off kept in a cage. Separate from society. They are worse than rabid animals";
- “If something needs to be explained, then is it necessary to explain something?”;
- “I’m glad that now we will go through life on different paths.”
These phrases without swearing, offensive and deep, will give you the opportunity to express your resentment or help initiate a conversation during which you will be able to put everything in its place.
In case of betrayal
This is probably how one of the most terrible troubles manifests itself, when a husband does not respect his wife. What to do in this case? Someone cannot forgive their spouse and simply breaks up with him. But many loving women, who cannot imagine their lives without insidious traitors, are not ready to take this step.
The easiest way is to declare a boycott. Stop washing and ironing his things, cooking, and helping with something. In general, ignore your husband completely. Communicate with him only in case of emergency. Just remember that this method is quite risky. With this attitude, the spouse can simply leave for another woman. However, think: do you really need such a husband?
One of the most difficult ways to punish a faithful person is indifference. Pretend that his betrayal is completely indifferent to you. Surely he expects scandals, screams, and hysterics from you. And you will act as if nothing happened. Make fun of him from time to time about the fact of his betrayal. In this case, he will definitely begin to be tormented by remorse. He will ask you for forgiveness and try to justify himself. Any man will be shocked by such a reaction. Thoughts will appear in your head that you have stopped loving him, that you need to somehow atone for your guilt. According to many psychologists, this will serve as an excellent lesson for the future for your spouse.
Revenge strategy
Before taking revenge on the man who offended you, look at the situation from different angles to calculate the possible outcome. To do this you need to cool down. Perhaps yesterday the partner’s action seemed like the beginning of the end, but today the offended party will perceive it differently.
Psychologists do not advise taking revenge on a man for grievances if a woman continues to be in a relationship with him, since war is a fiasco. But if simple conversations and logical arguments are not able to change anything, and the strength to resist the blank wall has run out, it’s time to choose a punishment for the negligent man. What it will be depends on the extent of the damage caused to you.
Before deciding on a course of action, think over a punishment plan. To do this, think about all the options for the outcome of your planned revenge, weigh all the pros and cons, try to predict your man’s reaction. If he has a hot temper, think twice about whether revenge will bring you serious harm.
Proceed with action only when everything is weighed and sorted.
In case of drunkenness
Another big problem. Why does the husband not respect his wife, driving her to nervous breakdowns with his daily drinking and partying? Perhaps he cannot cope with this addiction? Or maybe he doesn’t even try, doing it out of pure selfishness or, even worse, out of spite for his wife?
What to do? To begin with, take into account absolutely all the consequences that his drunkenness affects. If this happens regularly and ruins your plans, he definitely needs to be taught a good lesson.
It is best to present your husband in the most unflattering way possible. Show him how stupid he looks when he's drunk. Give free rein to your imagination by choosing your punishment. You can cover his fingernails with a bright polish and hide the nail polish remover away. Give it only when he asks you for forgiveness. You can draw a mustache with a waterproof marker or write an obscene word on your forehead. You can paint your lips. Or you can even cut the clothes he came in so that in the morning you can ask where he was wearing it.
