Love is a source of happiness and inspiration; life without it loses its meaning. Every person needs a soul mate. Most people endure loneliness quite hard; a person is often susceptible to depression and melancholy. No one is immune from this condition; even the most successful people are lonely. It also happens that a person is married, but feels lonely. The Orthodox Church recommends in such cases to read a prayer against loneliness.
Prayers for loneliness
There are special petitions to saints that help:
- find happiness in life;
- create a full-fledged Christian family;
- give birth to children.
These requests will definitely be heard by the Higher Powers, for the Lord himself said that a person should not live alone.
How and to whom they help
Prayers play a huge role in the life of every believer. They should be based only on pure and sincere thoughts.
The influence of prayer on a person:
- changing the fate of the person praying for the better;
- gaining spirituality, closeness to God.
The Lord will send a person opportunities to realize his dreams. In order for positive changes to come in life, you need to take advantage of them on time and correctly.
Prayer will not help:
- if the desire is aimed at destroying someone else’s family;
- when organizing your personal life through deception and blackmail.
Contacting magicians, fortune tellers and other charlatans is prohibited. Witchcraft, even if it helps, is a temporary help; events may occur that leave a trace of sin in the soul and fate of a person.
Reading rules
It is recommended to do the reading in church. In the modern rhythm of life, such an opportunity does not always exist, so you are allowed to do this at home in front of the icon. Prayer must be said with sincere faith in the soul. The saint will hear the request and will help.
Preparation for reading and the pronunciation itself has some features:
- Prayer is a frank, personal conversation with the Savior. It is not worth devoting anyone, even close relatives and friends, to its secret.
- Before starting, it is recommended to visit an Orthodox church and ask for the priest’s blessing for prayer. We need to attend divine services more often, confess and receive communion.
- There should be silence in the room during prayer.
- The reading should be done daily for a long time. You cannot skip days; if this happens, you will have to start over.
On days of prayer it is recommended:
- lead a correct lifestyle;
- give up smoking and alcohol.
People believe that Heaven only hears memorized texts. This opinion is wrong. Words coming from the heart, with hope and faith, will certainly come true.
How to pray in church correctly:
- stand in front of the image of a saint;
- light a lamp or church candle;
- cross yourself three times;
- thank God for the blessings given;
- ask the holy saint for help.
It is important to focus on the desire, then the words themselves will flow like a river.
Prayer words for the warm feelings of a husband
Prayer to the Evangelist John the Theologian
There is a period in every family when it seems that love is gradually fading away and previous relationships begin to crumble. Mostly women have such thoughts; they begin to find fault with their husbands, look for any evidence of their dislike, etc. The prayer to the evangelist and holy Apostle John the Theologian will help to give confidence in yourself, as well as in your husband:
“Oh, All-Praised and Great Evangelist and Apostle John the Theologian, Jesus’ confidant, our intercessor and quick helper. Ask the Almighty God to grant me, God’s servant (name), and my husband, God’s servant (name), forgiveness of our sins, for we have sinned from our youth and throughout our lives in word, deed, thought and feelings. Pray to the Almighty God to preserve our marriage and our eternal love. Amen".
Prayer to martyrs Natalia and Adrian
The image of these martyrs can be purchased in a temple or church shop.
“Oh, sacred duo, holy martyrs of Christ Natalia and Adrian, blessed spouses and sufferers. Hear me, God's servant (name), praying to you with pain and tears, send patience to the body and soul of God's servant (name) and God's servant (name of husband), and ask our Almighty, may he have mercy on us and send us his sacred mercy, May we not perish in our terrible sins. Holy martyrs Natalia and Adrian, I beg you, accept the voice of my request, and deliver us from destruction, famine, betrayal, divorce, invasion, abuse and abuse, from sudden death and from all sorrows, troubles and illnesses. Amen".
Who to ask for help
Thanks to prayer, a lonely person can find peace in his soul. The main thing is to believe that the saints will definitely hear and help you find true happiness.
Often Orthodox Christians, despairing of searching for the only person, fall into deep depression and despondency. Believers have a question about who to pray to in this case.
It is recommended to offer prayers:
- Nicholas the Wonderworker;
- Matrona of Moscow;
- Ksenia of Petersburg.
The saints led a righteous life, did good deeds and never refused to help believers whose prayers were sincere and pure.
Nicholas the Wonderworker
One of the most powerful prayers is considered to be an appeal to Nicholas the Wonderworker.
During his earthly life, Saint Nicholas contributed to the unification of the hearts of loving people and strove to fill their lives with joy and love.
You need to offer prayer in solitude before the image of the elder. Your prayer request will be heard. and Saint Nicholas will certainly respond and convey to the Lord the request of the person praying.
You can make a request to the Saint both with the help of prayer texts and in your own words. Nikolai Ugodnik is very kind and will certainly help everyone who prays to him with deep faith. We must not forget to thank him (there is even a special prayer of thanks). On the day of remembrance of the holy elder (December 19), you must definitely go to church.
The prayer must be said daily (the church recommends reading it for at least 40 days in a row without skipping).
The ritual consists of three stages:
- First, sincerely ask Saint Nicholas to send a worthy companion or life partner. The appeal is made in your own words. It is necessary to note the qualities that a future husband or wife should have.
- When the portrait of your significant other is drawn up and voiced, tell the holy elder how you would like your personal life to be (in as much detail as possible).
- Pray in front of the image. Finally, ask him to reveal God's will regarding his life's purpose.
The text of a strong prayer addressed to Nicholas the Ugodnik is as follows:
Matrona of Moscow
She is one of the most revered in Orthodoxy. A huge number of people come to the relics of the Saint and ask her for help. If there is such an opportunity, then you need to take advantage of it.
It has been proven that people who read prayers and ask her for help:
- were healed;
- found a family;
- gained prosperity and so on.
How to conduct a prayer ceremony:
- Visit an Orthodox church and light 3 candles to the icon of the Mother of God and Matrona.
- At the image of the latter, say short lines to yourself: “Blessed Elder, pacify my despondency and send love into a sinful life. Amen."
- After this, cross yourself and leave the church.
- On the way out, buy 12 candles and collect some holy water (bring the container with you).
- When you come home, light all the candles. Place icons and a cup of holy water nearby.
- Watching the burning flame, think how hard it is for other people, whose loneliness lies not in the absence of a significant other, but because of imprisonment or serious illness.
- Present clear pictures of happiness, materializing them in real life.
The prayer to the Saint sounds like this:
Ksenia of Petersburg
The saint, in the 25th year of her life, having become a widow, distributed her property to the poor and needy, and gave the house to a friend. Freed from earthly blessings, she went into the field to read prayers from night until morning.
For her patience and great deeds, God granted her glorification during her lifetime. She received the gift of insight into the future and hearts.
The prayer of Xenia of Petersburg is marked as:
- from a wound to the heart;
- about marriage;
- out of sadness.
Ksenia of Petersburg's petition for love is read in a calm state. Popular legend says that prayer will help in finding your soul mate.
It is recommended to read the text in the temple in front of the icon of the saint:
Lord God
All appeals offered to the saint have enormous power and are capable of working real miracles.
The most powerful prayer is the one addressed to the Lord himself.
Every person needs a soulmate who will support in difficult times, understand and just be there. To do this, you need to read a prayer that helps you find a family.
Marriage concluded between believers is blessed by the Lord. The vow of the spouses remains until their unity in the Kingdom of Heaven after the General Resurrection.
With these thoughts it is worth asking God and the saints for help:
Holy Mother of God
There are many icons of the Mother of God. Some are miraculous, healing the sick and helping the weak. The Mother of God is considered the great Intercessor of man before the Savior.
4 icons will help you find a life partner:
- “Kozelshchanskaya” has Italian roots. She was brought to Russia during the time of Elizabeth I by a court lady who soon received a marriage proposal. It is believed that the image helps to achieve a happy marriage.
- “Fading Color” appeared in the 16th–17th centuries. Its writing was associated with an annual miracle. Pilgrims brought lilies as gifts to the Mother of God. Before the Dormition of the Mother of God, dried flowers filled with strength, new buds appeared.
- The “Inexhaustible Chalice” is considered a miraculous icon. There are many stories about her help in healing from bad habits and finding housing. Prayer for love and marriage has long helped young and mature women in finding their betrothed.
- “Seven Arrows” - it depicts the Mother of God pierced by arrows. The image symbolizes the fullness of grief experienced by the Virgin Mary during her lifetime. The seven arrows are sometimes interpreted as seven sinful passions that the Mother of God can read in every person. Helps young girls get married.
The prayer goes like this:
Other saints and martyrs
You can also ask other Saints to find a family and get rid of loneliness. Prayers for them can be found in any prayer book that is sold in the temple.
Peter and Fevronia
Saints Peter and Fevronia are considered patrons of family and marriage. Their life is an example of love and fidelity. Peter and Fevronia lived a long life and died on the same day. Praying in front of the icon helps to quickly achieve marriage and family happiness.
Paraskeva Pyatnitsa
During her lifetime, Saint Paraskeva took a vow of virginity and spiritual purity.
Her image will help:
- find the long-awaited bride or groom;
- will bring peace to the family;
- grants the miracle of childbirth to desperate couples.
A petition for love and marriage in front of the icon of Paraskeva Friday helps chaste girls find their soulmate. In Rus', this great martyr was called “Saint Woman” - she patronizes women’s cares and household chores.
Closer to the Intercession, the girls prayed to the saint with the words: “Mother Paraskeva, cover me as soon as possible!”
How to attract your soulmate according to Feng Shui
The ancient teachings of Feng Shui can also help in the search for love. To understand how to attract a soul mate according to Feng Shui and find your happiness, it is enough to learn and understand the basic rules and features of this system. In the teaching, love is inextricably linked with serious relationships and further marriage, so it is ideal for those who want to meet and attract a soul mate for life together.
The basic and main rule of Feng Shui for those who want to find true love is cleansing the space. It is believed that nothing new, much less serious, can appear in life if it is occupied with old connections and relationships. Cleansing space involves not only freeing thoughts and hearts from other people, but also cleaning up material things. You can start with your apartment, throwing away all excess garbage. And although it seems that this has little to do with the search for a soul mate, everything in a person’s life is interconnected.
The rules of ancient teaching play a particularly important role in the bedroom, where a balance of feminine and masculine energy must be maintained. The Feng Shui bedroom should be arranged in a special way, then the married couple will be harmonious, happy and in mutual love for a long time.
Thus, the teachings of Feng Shui also contribute to finding and attracting a soul mate in life. If you learn this system, its rules will become a harmonious part of a person’s life.
Prayers for sadness and loneliness
Loneliness causes unbearable melancholy in a person’s soul, comparable to illness. Special prayers will help restore the joy of life and awaken love in the heart.
For men and boys
Men, like women, suffer from the absence of a family. A man's loneliness is very dangerous and can cause unpredictable consequences. When you have no strength to resist on your own, you must definitely turn to the Higher Powers for help.
A very powerful remedy that helps a man get rid of melancholy and loneliness is turning to Saint Tikhon. During his lifetime, he was the Patriarch of Moscow and provided assistance to suffering and disadvantaged people.
For women and girls
A woman can get rid of loneliness with the help of prayer. The main thing is to follow simple rules when turning to Higher powers.
Contact any saint:
- sincerely;
- from the heart;
- with faith in a happy outcome.
You need to open your soul to love, then new acquaintances will appear and lead to a happy marriage.
Any prayer should consist of:
- gratitude to God for what a person already has;
- repentance for sins committed;
- requests for marriage.
For remarriage
After a divorce or widowhood, a woman is not always able to find a person with whom she can build a strong relationship. A new marriage is problematic for many.
A prayer from loneliness helps a woman who turned to the Holy Matrona of Moscow with a request for remarriage. During her lifetime, the Blessed Eldress did not refuse to help women who turned to her with their problems.
It is recommended to read the prayer at the burial place of Mother Matrona at the Danilovsky cemetery or at the Pokrovsky Monastery in Moscow, where her relics are kept.
When you can't get married for a long time
Young girls who dream of a happy marriage should read a prayer in front of the “Seven Arrow” icon of the Most Holy Theotokos. You can contact the Mother of God with any questions - she helps everyone who asks for help.
Before praying, you need to do the following:
- visit an Orthodox church;
- light a candle for health in front of the image of the Virgin Mary;
- pray to the Savior in front of his icon;
- buy a candle and a small “Seven Shot” icon and go home.
At home you need:
- retire to a separate room;
- set an icon;
- light a candle in front of her.
To find your soulmate
When your personal life is not going well, finding true happiness is very difficult. If a believer suspects that damage has been imposed, it can be removed by turning to Matrona. It will help change your destiny.
It is believed that a woman who reads a prayer in front of the Holy icon will soon find that one person. At the same time, the affection will be mutual for many years.
From the crown of celibacy and the seal of loneliness
Being alone for a long time, you want to find a spiritual union with your soul mate. Having tried and become disappointed in your search, you continue to search and try again. The crown of celibacy leads to the fact that a person, no matter what efforts he makes, does not find a life partner and remains lonely.
In this case, you should turn to Ksenia of St. Petersburg for help. You can get rid of the seal of loneliness with the help of a special prayer. You need to read it for a long time.
During this time, one should lead a correct lifestyle, attend church and fast.
You can ask for help in finding love, but it is forbidden to demand it, because the fate of every person is in the hands of God and His saints.
Only God knows what is best to do and what to give to the person praying - pure love, loneliness or the path of monasticism.
The Church recommends not forgetting the psalms when reading prayers. These prayerful appeals to the Lord are filled with love and thanksgiving and instill in the hearts of people a feeling of reverence and empathy, repentance and joy.
Proven rituals
One of the simple but effective magical rituals is performed with the help of beer. Buy a bottle of the most expensive beer. Splash a little near your threshold, then take it to a vacant lot, pour the remaining liquid under a tree, while saying:
This ritual is very effective. Very soon you will meet your person.
Meet the groom
To meet your soulmate faster, it is recommended to use a spell on the groom. The instructions for the ritual indicate that you need to go out into the field. But if the girl lives in the city, you can perform it in a park or other deserted place. So, go out into the field, stand in the center, spread your arms to the sides, say the following words three times:
Sign yourself with the cross. Leave the field as quickly as possible, without turning around under any circumstances, even if they call and shout.
This ritual is very effective. Usually within a week the right person appears in your life.
After the ritual, the groom meets within a week
There is also a conspiracy to dream about your betrothed. To carry it out you will need a new scarf and a small handful of flax seeds. Take the seeds in your left hand and read the following words above them:
To see your betrothed in a dream, read this spell before going to bed. Then wrap the flax seeds in a handkerchief and put them under the pillow. Within a week, the future groom should have a dream.
Meet the bride
In addition to the fact that there is a conspiracy to meet your betrothed, there is also a conspiracy to meet your wife. This magical action is performed in order to attract your love and meet her soon. The ceremony is performed by a man who dreams of a bride. Buy 4 candles from the church, preferably thick ones. At night, place them in the corners of the room, stand in the center and say:
Then take the cinders to the intersection and leave them there. Leave without looking back. Soon a man will meet a person in his life who will become his destiny.
The cinders will have to be left at the intersection
To holy water
To meet your soulmate, you can also perform a holy water ritual. Many women found half with the help of this conspiracy. Read on Saturday evening for holy water:
After the ritual, wash with water. This magical effect is very strong and effective, acting quickly.
For clean or spring water
Rituals with spring water are very powerful
We recommend studying Psalm 123
To find your soul mate or see your betrothed in a dream, you need to perform rituals using spring water. They have great power. After such magical actions, the girl will be asked to marry. Collect water from any natural source. It must be clean. The ritual is carried out after sunset. Light a red candle and place a glass of spring or well water next to it. Read these words:
After reading the hex, blow out the candle. Let it stand with water on the table. In the morning, bury the cinders, pour the water into the river, saying:
After this, you will definitely meet a good guy who will not only ask you on a date, but will also become your husband. For a girl, this ritual is easiest to perform.
To the pear
The pear should be ripe and tasty
If girls or women are looking for a soul mate, magic can help with this. In order to find love, you need to buy a delicious ripe pear. You will also need aspen branches
Carefully cut the pear into two equal parts. Say these words:
Next, fold the two parts of the pear, secure them with aspen branches or ordinary matches, making the following speeches:
Next, wrap the fruit in a scarf. Take it to a vacant lot and carefully place it under the female tree.
To dream about your future lover, there is also a dream book for your betrothed. Look for signs in dreams, remember numbers and faces. This will help you unravel the signals that your subconscious is sending you.
It is necessary to look for signs in dreams and remember them
For my daughter to get married
There are also prayers for daughters so that the daughter meets a good spouse. To cast a spell on the grooms, you need to use honey water (add a teaspoon of honey to a glass of water), and then wash your daughter with the charmed honey water in the morning. Read the Lord's Prayer over the water or ask for help in your own words.
